Dontaskme wrote: ↑Sun Jul 11, 2021 8:41 am
Age wrote: ↑Sun Jul 11, 2021 8:12 amYou say this like it is meant to be a shame to be "a mess". Is it shameful to 'you', human beings, in the days when this was written, to be "a mess"?
I never mentioned the word 'shame'
I KNOW, and that is WHY I used the 'like it ...' words.
Dontaskme wrote: ↑Sun Jul 11, 2021 8:41 am
Are you ashamed of the word ''mess''
NO. Do you think there is ANY thing to be ashamed about in regards to just words, themselves?
Dontaskme wrote: ↑Sun Jul 11, 2021 8:41 am
Life is a messy business. Denial is futile. Including the jumbled up words that come out of peoples mouths, their ideas can be perceived as being messy.
So, when 'you' TELL "another", "you are such a mess", what does this actually mean or refer to, especially considering the FACT that to you Life, Itself, is just a "messy business", anyway?
Dontaskme wrote: ↑Sun Jul 11, 2021 8:41 am
The proof is obvious,
But, to me, Life is JUST, SIMPLE, and EASY. AND, the PROOF is OBVIOUS.
So, which one is Right?
Dontaskme wrote: ↑Sun Jul 11, 2021 8:41 am
when two people argue, when they insist on sharing with other people their words and ideas about what and how they perceive and interpret their world views to be, and share that view with others, who then just say they are wrong.
HOW could they even be 'wrong', to then say that they are wrong?
I think you are MISSING that just sharing WHAT and HOW one perceives, and interprets, their world views to be can NOT be 'wrong' in anyway whatsoever. If, however, one wants to CLAIM 'that' what they have perceived can NOT be wrong, then they can CERTAINLY BE Wrong, and VERY Wrong at that.
Dontaskme wrote: ↑Sun Jul 11, 2021 8:41 am
So the one who believes others are wrong, is when words shared between two people can get messy.
ONCE AGAIN, here is ANOTHER EXAMPLE of WHY it is MUCH BETTER to NEVER 'believe' absolutely ANY thing AT ALL.
if, and when, 'you', human beings, STOP BELIEVING, then 'you', and the 'world' and 'life' that 'you' create for "yourselves" will STOP being SO MESSY as 'you' and 'your life' IS, in the days when this is being written.
Dontaskme wrote: ↑Sun Jul 11, 2021 8:41 am
It's not shaming, shaming is when people who just happen to choose to think differently that is deemed opposite to the generally accepted normal or status quo, are then told they are not fit for anything other than to be locked away in some secure mental prison for nut-jobs.. all because they just happen to have their own unique way of looking at a reality, they didn't even choose to be in.
So, are you now claiming that when you tell "another",
"you are such a mess", then you are NOT 'trying to' ridicule nor put that one down at all, just because they have a DIFFERENT view than you do, correct?
If yes, then you are just saying, "you are such a mess", EXACTLY like "you are such a mess", "dontaskme", correct?