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I assure you that we are not the same person, he’s a man and I’m a woman.accelafine wrote: ↑Wed Jun 04, 2025 11:58 am Bollocks. I doubt if he..I mean 'you'... could even get it up.
Yes, I take great pride in my mentally ill mind. I’m so crazy that it drives me wild with pleasure at how free I am being totally fucked up and accepting my fucked up poisonous fuckery as being none other than the spawn of the devil himself who I love and adore unconditionally.FlashDangerpants wrote: ↑Wed Jun 04, 2025 12:03 pmIt is visibly the case that many on this site are mentally ill. And that you are one of them.
Bye the way Harbal left me because he realised he couldn’t do the being together loved up couple thing that’s required within ordinary day to day living with another human being, who is separate from yourself, with a mind of its own. Strangely enough I too couldn’t do it either.accelafine wrote: ↑Wed Jun 04, 2025 11:58 am Bollocks. I doubt if he..I mean 'you'... could even get it up.
Ok Harbal, I believe youFairy wrote: ↑Wed Jun 04, 2025 12:17 pmI assure you that we are not the same person, he’s a man and I’m a woman.accelafine wrote: ↑Wed Jun 04, 2025 11:58 am Bollocks. I doubt if he..I mean 'you'... could even get it up.
You’re accusations are wildly unfounded.
Seriously it got up no problem and it stayed up for hours. It’s quite remarkable the effect men and women can have on each other.
Under his eyeaccelafine wrote: ↑Wed Jun 04, 2025 1:08 pmOk Harbal, I believe youFairy wrote: ↑Wed Jun 04, 2025 12:17 pmI assure you that we are not the same person, he’s a man and I’m a woman.accelafine wrote: ↑Wed Jun 04, 2025 11:58 am Bollocks. I doubt if he..I mean 'you'... could even get it up.
You’re accusations are wildly unfounded.
Seriously it got up no problem and it stayed up for hours. It’s quite remarkable the effect men and women can have on each other.
Would it surprise you that we're still friends, and talk offline? We have a bond and we have fun.
What guilty pleasure? Chocolate or rolling in the grass?
Terrific. Too bad you don't know how to love and respect a person despite a breakup.
What do you think I thought it was?
The California girl and the Englishman... hmm.
We have a sweet bond.They do that. Sometimes they propose marriage too.
We do our best, and it's not all bad.
They are... and you're one of them. (Oops, Mr. Dangerpants beat me to that response.)
Until you're not again. This is what we do... and hopefully we get better at it.
Nice of him to be honest.
Then why have you been trashing him on this forum? Can't two people decide what their limits are, and accept/support what the other person's limits are?
No that doesn’t surprise me at all. I’m glad you told me, this confirms my earlier suspicions and doubts about him being genuinely into me personally. Call it women’s intuition, but from the very beginning of our first meeting, I had the nagging feeling that I was just another one of his many acquaintances. Long story short, I knew very early on that our physical encounter was always going to be about a shared and consensual desire for sex, and that it wasn’t going to be anything else.
I did it because he deserved it. The guy obviously was lying to me all along. He needed to be called out. He picked on the wrong woman, I don’t regret anything I’ve said about him in public because there is nothing I said that wasn’t the truth. He doesn’t come back because he knows he’s been caught out to be a serial womaniser. I feel nothing but contempt for him. The way he plays around with women’s emotions is disgusting. And that is why his lying seedy reputation needed to be shown the light of day.Despite my compassion for your supposed heartbreak, I think it was awful that you unloaded your private one-sided experience with Harbal in such a public way, which drove him from this forum. I wanted to acknowledge that I (for one) missed him... as his humor was my favorite part of this forum.
I don't think he was lying to you. We hadn't spoken for years. Not in all the time you two were together. I just recently sent him a personal Hello when I saw the mortifying things you were saying about him on the forum. I felt bad for him. He responded, and we exchanged some messages. We wish each other well... and happiness with whoever we're with. In our earlier interactions several years ago, I never saw Harbal as a liar or a user of women. He seems like a genuine person. It's not a lie to say that he and I are different types of people. That doesn't mean we can't joke around and share things.
Because that’s what fucking selfish people do to each other.
That's just catty. No need to take it out on other women.Fairy wrote: ↑Thu Jun 05, 2025 7:29 amNo that doesn’t surprise me at all. I’m glad you told me, this confirms my earlier suspicions and doubts about him being genuinely into me personally. Call it women’s intuition, but from the very beginning of our first meeting, I had the nagging feeling that I was just another one of his many acquaintances. Long story short, I knew very early on that our physical encounter was always going to be about a shared and consensual desire for sex, and that it wasn’t going to be anything else.
It was lust at first sight, and that was all there was to it.
So thanks for letting me know you are still in contact, because now I know he lied to me. And that my suspicions were correct, because I literally asked him while he was fucking me if you both were still friends, I wanted him to confirm to me that you’re previous contact with him was over, he said absolutely yes, it was definitely over,he said you wasn’t even his type and he was very clear about that, saying he wouldn’t be seen with someone the likes of you in real life. So obviously he lied to me about that. This is hilarious, I’m so glad you told me the contrary because he told me he literally hates liars, he hates people who tell lies. Haha.
I did it because he deserved it. The guy obviously was lying to me all along. He needed to be called out. He picked on the wrong woman, I don’t regret anything I’ve said about him in public because there is nothing I said that wasn’t the truth. He doesn’t come back because he knows he’s been caught out to be a serial womaniser. I feel nothing but contempt for him. The way he plays around with women’s emotions is disgusting. And that is why his lying seedy reputation needed to be shown the light of day.Despite my compassion for your supposed heartbreak, I think it was awful that you unloaded your private one-sided experience with Harbal in such a public way, which drove him from this forum. I wanted to acknowledge that I (for one) missed him... as his humor was my favorite part of this forum.
You’ve no idea how happy you have made me feel today telling me you and Harbal are still talking off line. This is the best news I’ve been waiting for. It’s really made my day, so thanks for sharing that information with the forum.
Happy days Lacewing.
You know absolutely fuck all about Harbal. You are simply projecting your ideal model representation onto him of what you want him to be, that’s all.Lacewing wrote: ↑Thu Jun 05, 2025 7:47 amI don't think he was lying to you. We hadn't spoken for years. Not in all the time you two were together. I just recently sent him a personal Hello when I saw the mortifying things you were saying about him on the forum. I felt bad for him. He responded, and we exchanged some messages. We wish each other well... and happiness with whoever we're with. In our earlier interactions several years ago, I never saw Harbal as a liar or a user of women. He seems like a genuine person. It's not a lie to say that he and I are different types of people. That doesn't mean we can't joke around and share things.
I think you're taking out way too much on Harbal... stuff that you're imagining and that you're furious about... but he really hasn't done anything wrong. I don't think he means to hurt anyone. He's just living moment to moment like we all are... and I'm sure what he told you in the moment was true.
Fuck you, the biggest cat in the jungle here.accelafine wrote: ↑Thu Jun 05, 2025 7:56 amThat's just catty. No need to take it out on other women.Fairy wrote: ↑Thu Jun 05, 2025 7:29 amNo that doesn’t surprise me at all. I’m glad you told me, this confirms my earlier suspicions and doubts about him being genuinely into me personally. Call it women’s intuition, but from the very beginning of our first meeting, I had the nagging feeling that I was just another one of his many acquaintances. Long story short, I knew very early on that our physical encounter was always going to be about a shared and consensual desire for sex, and that it wasn’t going to be anything else.
It was lust at first sight, and that was all there was to it.
So thanks for letting me know you are still in contact, because now I know he lied to me. And that my suspicions were correct, because I literally asked him while he was fucking me if you both were still friends, I wanted him to confirm to me that you’re previous contact with him was over, he said absolutely yes, it was definitely over,he said you wasn’t even his type and he was very clear about that, saying he wouldn’t be seen with someone the likes of you in real life. So obviously he lied to me about that. This is hilarious, I’m so glad you told me the contrary because he told me he literally hates liars, he hates people who tell lies. Haha.
I did it because he deserved it. The guy obviously was lying to me all along. He needed to be called out. He picked on the wrong woman, I don’t regret anything I’ve said about him in public because there is nothing I said that wasn’t the truth. He doesn’t come back because he knows he’s been caught out to be a serial womaniser. I feel nothing but contempt for him. The way he plays around with women’s emotions is disgusting. And that is why his lying seedy reputation needed to be shown the light of day.Despite my compassion for your supposed heartbreak, I think it was awful that you unloaded your private one-sided experience with Harbal in such a public way, which drove him from this forum. I wanted to acknowledge that I (for one) missed him... as his humor was my favorite part of this forum.
You’ve no idea how happy you have made me feel today telling me you and Harbal are still talking off line. This is the best news I’ve been waiting for. It’s really made my day, so thanks for sharing that information with the forum.
Happy days Lacewing.