No One Can Break Your Heart

[FlashDangerpants]

According to him, most people on this forum are mentally ill.

It is visibly the case that many on this site are mentally ill. And that you are one of them.

[Fairy]

Bollocks. I doubt if he..I mean 'you'... could even get it up.

I assure you that we are not the same person, he’s a man and I’m a woman.

You’re accusations are wildly unfounded.

Seriously it got up no problem and it stayed up for hours. It’s quite remarkable the effect men and women can have on each other.

[Fairy]

According to him, most people on this forum are mentally ill.

It is visibly the case that many on this site are mentally ill. And that you are one of them.

Yes, I take great pride in my mentally ill mind. I’m so crazy that it drives me wild with pleasure at how free I am being totally fucked up and accepting my fucked up poisonous fuckery as being none other than the spawn of the devil himself who I love and adore unconditionally.

[Fairy]

Bollocks. I doubt if he..I mean 'you'... could even get it up.

Bye the way Harbal left me because he realised he couldn’t do the being together loved up couple thing that’s required within ordinary day to day living with another human being, who is separate from yourself, with a mind of its own. Strangely enough I too couldn’t do it either.

We tried it but it was never going to work considering the type of people we are.

Sex on the other hand was different, we were one being during sex, there was never any tension or dissatisfaction.
The problem was trying to be together as two people, it was a difficult thing for us both to execute, he decided it wasn’t worth the effort in the end, so he left me.

It’s a shame it all ended so sour. Maybe we should have just concentrated on using each other for sex only instead of thinking we were in some kind of soulmate relationship with each other. Maybe using each other for sex only and fuck the other shit off would have been a more ideal situation.

Never mind, that’s just life I guess. One simply can’t condemn a human for doing what humans do, not really.

[accelafine]

Bollocks. I doubt if he..I mean 'you'... could even get it up.

I assure you that we are not the same person, he’s a man and I’m a woman.

You’re accusations are wildly unfounded.

Seriously it got up no problem and it stayed up for hours. It’s quite remarkable the effect men and women can have on each other.

Ok Harbal, I believe you

[Fairy]

Bollocks. I doubt if he..I mean 'you'... could even get it up.

I assure you that we are not the same person, he’s a man and I’m a woman.

You’re accusations are wildly unfounded.

Seriously it got up no problem and it stayed up for hours. It’s quite remarkable the effect men and women can have on each other.

Ok Harbal, I believe you

Under his eye

Blessed be the fruit.

[Lacewing]

omg... this topic has gotten hilarous...

I miss Harbal. I would roll around in the grass laughing with him anytime.

People are too fucking serious these days.

We're all just travelers passing through... looking to share some joy and connection, yes?

It doesn't have to be so hard.

Would it surprise you to know that the man you’d love to roll around in the grass with, laughing. Actually doesn’t feel the same about you.

Would it surprise you that we're still friends, and talk offline? We have a bond and we have fun.

And why did you think it was necessary to tell everyone you’re guilty pleasure, already knowing the heartbreak I’ve experienced with Harbal.

What guilty pleasure? Chocolate or rolling in the grass?

You swing so wildly from one day to the next, it's impossible to know what actually matters to you at any given moment.

Despite my compassion for your supposed heartbreak, I think it was awful that you unloaded your private one-sided experience with Harbal in such a public way, which drove him from this forum. I wanted to acknowledge that I (for one) missed him... as his humor was my favorite part of this forum.

I spent glorious hours with Harbal, his sex was on fire, other worldly, in fact.

Terrific. Too bad you don't know how to love and respect a person despite a breakup.

We discussed the connection you both shared in the past lacewing. But things are not always what they seem are they lacewing.

What do you think I thought it was?

He also told me that in real life, you lacewing, were never going to be his cup of tea.

The California girl and the Englishman... hmm. We have a sweet bond.

He actually told me he loved me while we lay in bed together.

They do that. Sometimes they propose marriage too.

That’s all people do, they use each other for their own self gratification, it’s human junkie behaviour.

We do our best, and it's not all bad.

According to him, most people on this forum are mentally ill.

They are... and you're one of them. (Oops, Mr. Dangerpants beat me to that response.)

I’m so done with this shitshow.

Until you're not again. This is what we do... and hopefully we get better at it.

[accelafine]

[Lacewing]

Bye the way Harbal left me because he realised he couldn’t do the being together loved up couple thing that’s required within ordinary day to day living with another human being,

Nice of him to be honest.

Strangely enough I too couldn’t do it either.

Then why have you been trashing him on this forum? Can't two people decide what their limits are, and accept/support what the other person's limits are?

[Fairy]

Would it surprise you that we're still friends, and talk offline? We have a bond and we have fun.

No that doesn’t surprise me at all. I’m glad you told me, this confirms my earlier suspicions and doubts about him being genuinely into me personally. Call it women’s intuition, but from the very beginning of our first meeting, I had the nagging feeling that I was just another one of his many acquaintances. Long story short, I knew very early on that our physical encounter was always going to be about a shared and consensual desire for sex, and that it wasn’t going to be anything else.
It was lust at first sight, and that was all there was to it.

So thanks for letting me know you are still in contact, because now I know he lied to me. And that my suspicions were correct, because I literally asked him while he was fucking me if you both were still friends, I wanted him to confirm to me that you’re previous contact with him was over, he said absolutely yes, it was definitely over,he said you wasn’t even his type and he was very clear about that, saying he wouldn’t be seen with someone the likes of you in real life. So obviously he lied to me about that. This is hilarious, I’m so glad you told me the contrary because he told me he literally hates liars, he hates people who tell lies. Haha.

Despite my compassion for your supposed heartbreak, I think it was awful that you unloaded your private one-sided experience with Harbal in such a public way, which drove him from this forum. I wanted to acknowledge that I (for one) missed him... as his humor was my favorite part of this forum.

I did it because he deserved it. The guy obviously was lying to me all along. He needed to be called out. He picked on the wrong woman, I don’t regret anything I’ve said about him in public because there is nothing I said that wasn’t the truth. He doesn’t come back because he knows he’s been caught out to be a serial womaniser. I feel nothing but contempt for him. The way he plays around with women’s emotions is disgusting. And that is why his lying seedy reputation needed to be shown the light of day.


You’ve no idea how happy you have made me feel today telling me you and Harbal are still talking off line. This is the best news I’ve been waiting for. It’s really made my day, so thanks for sharing that information with the forum.

Happy days Lacewing.

[Lacewing]

So thanks for letting me know you are still in contact, because now I know he lied to me. And that my suspicions were correct

I don't think he was lying to you. We hadn't spoken for years. Not in all the time you two were together. I just recently sent him a personal Hello when I saw the mortifying things you were saying about him on the forum. I felt bad for him. He responded, and we exchanged some messages. We wish each other well... and happiness with whoever we're with. In our earlier interactions several years ago, I never saw Harbal as a liar or a user of women. He seems like a genuine person. It's not a lie to say that he and I are different types of people. That doesn't mean we can't joke around and share things.

I think you're taking out way too much on Harbal... stuff that you're imagining and that you're furious about... but he really hasn't done anything wrong. I don't think he means to hurt anyone. He's just living moment to moment like we all are... and I'm sure what he told you in the moment was true.

[Fairy]

Then why have you been trashing him on this forum? Can't two people decide what their limits are, and accept/support what the other person's limits are?

Because that’s what fucking selfish people do to each other.

I recall when you and Harbal were openly flirting with each other back in the day of the chocolate thread drama.
Once upon a time you loved to mock and gloat and giggle away to yourself at Harbal’s shallow attempt to be funny at other people’s expense, you would writhe around with great pleasure at every sarcastic and mean ill will comment he made in response to my desire to share the concept of oneness and nonduality with you both. You both took great delight in mocking me for that.

I remember Harbal calling me a poisonous little fucker, it’s all written down for everyone to read and you of all hypocrites found that comment and many other Harbal comments deliciously funny that he would say that to another woman.
You even found it funny to tell him that you really get turned on and love it when he gets angry. Meaning you loved his mean streak.

Well now, it’s just so Nice of the both of you to trash other people openly on the forum. It’s what selfish monkeys do, it’s called animal nature don’t you know. It’s evolution baby.

So fuck you too.

[accelafine]

Would it surprise you that we're still friends, and talk offline? We have a bond and we have fun.

No that doesn’t surprise me at all. I’m glad you told me, this confirms my earlier suspicions and doubts about him being genuinely into me personally. Call it women’s intuition, but from the very beginning of our first meeting, I had the nagging feeling that I was just another one of his many acquaintances. Long story short, I knew very early on that our physical encounter was always going to be about a shared and consensual desire for sex, and that it wasn’t going to be anything else.
It was lust at first sight, and that was all there was to it.

So thanks for letting me know you are still in contact, because now I know he lied to me. And that my suspicions were correct, because I literally asked him while he was fucking me if you both were still friends, I wanted him to confirm to me that you’re previous contact with him was over, he said absolutely yes, it was definitely over,he said you wasn’t even his type and he was very clear about that, saying he wouldn’t be seen with someone the likes of you in real life. So obviously he lied to me about that. This is hilarious, I’m so glad you told me the contrary because he told me he literally hates liars, he hates people who tell lies. Haha.

Despite my compassion for your supposed heartbreak, I think it was awful that you unloaded your private one-sided experience with Harbal in such a public way, which drove him from this forum. I wanted to acknowledge that I (for one) missed him... as his humor was my favorite part of this forum.

I did it because he deserved it. The guy obviously was lying to me all along. He needed to be called out. He picked on the wrong woman, I don’t regret anything I’ve said about him in public because there is nothing I said that wasn’t the truth. He doesn’t come back because he knows he’s been caught out to be a serial womaniser. I feel nothing but contempt for him. The way he plays around with women’s emotions is disgusting. And that is why his lying seedy reputation needed to be shown the light of day.


You’ve no idea how happy you have made me feel today telling me you and Harbal are still talking off line. This is the best news I’ve been waiting for. It’s really made my day, so thanks for sharing that information with the forum.

Happy days Lacewing.

That's just catty. No need to take it out on other women.

[Fairy]

So thanks for letting me know you are still in contact, because now I know he lied to me. And that my suspicions were correct

I don't think he was lying to you. We hadn't spoken for years. Not in all the time you two were together. I just recently sent him a personal Hello when I saw the mortifying things you were saying about him on the forum. I felt bad for him. He responded, and we exchanged some messages. We wish each other well... and happiness with whoever we're with. In our earlier interactions several years ago, I never saw Harbal as a liar or a user of women. He seems like a genuine person. It's not a lie to say that he and I are different types of people. That doesn't mean we can't joke around and share things.

I think you're taking out way too much on Harbal... stuff that you're imagining and that you're furious about... but he really hasn't done anything wrong. I don't think he means to hurt anyone. He's just living moment to moment like we all are... and I'm sure what he told you in the moment was true.

You know absolutely fuck all about Harbal. You are simply projecting your ideal model representation onto him of what you want him to be, that’s all.

I don’t believe anything you say anymore. Neither do I believe anything Harbal says anymore.

Humans are simply two faced lying kunts. Only interested in their own selfish desires and what they can get out of each other for their own self gratification and survival purposes only, when things get awkward or uncomfortable they drop you like a ton of bricks, it’s a mugs game I’m never going to play ever again.

[Fairy]

Would it surprise you that we're still friends, and talk offline? We have a bond and we have fun.

No that doesn’t surprise me at all. I’m glad you told me, this confirms my earlier suspicions and doubts about him being genuinely into me personally. Call it women’s intuition, but from the very beginning of our first meeting, I had the nagging feeling that I was just another one of his many acquaintances. Long story short, I knew very early on that our physical encounter was always going to be about a shared and consensual desire for sex, and that it wasn’t going to be anything else.
It was lust at first sight, and that was all there was to it.

So thanks for letting me know you are still in contact, because now I know he lied to me. And that my suspicions were correct, because I literally asked him while he was fucking me if you both were still friends, I wanted him to confirm to me that you’re previous contact with him was over, he said absolutely yes, it was definitely over,he said you wasn’t even his type and he was very clear about that, saying he wouldn’t be seen with someone the likes of you in real life. So obviously he lied to me about that. This is hilarious, I’m so glad you told me the contrary because he told me he literally hates liars, he hates people who tell lies. Haha.

Despite my compassion for your supposed heartbreak, I think it was awful that you unloaded your private one-sided experience with Harbal in such a public way, which drove him from this forum. I wanted to acknowledge that I (for one) missed him... as his humor was my favorite part of this forum.

I did it because he deserved it. The guy obviously was lying to me all along. He needed to be called out. He picked on the wrong woman, I don’t regret anything I’ve said about him in public because there is nothing I said that wasn’t the truth. He doesn’t come back because he knows he’s been caught out to be a serial womaniser. I feel nothing but contempt for him. The way he plays around with women’s emotions is disgusting. And that is why his lying seedy reputation needed to be shown the light of day.


You’ve no idea how happy you have made me feel today telling me you and Harbal are still talking off line. This is the best news I’ve been waiting for. It’s really made my day, so thanks for sharing that information with the forum.

Happy days Lacewing.

That's just catty. No need to take it out on other women.

Fuck you, the biggest cat in the jungle here.