No One Can Break Your Heart

[accelafine]

No that doesn’t surprise me at all. I’m glad you told me, this confirms my earlier suspicions and doubts about him being genuinely into me personally. Call it women’s intuition, but from the very beginning of our first meeting, I had the nagging feeling that I was just another one of his many acquaintances. Long story short, I knew very early on that our physical encounter was always going to be about a shared and consensual desire for sex, and that it wasn’t going to be anything else.
It was lust at first sight, and that was all there was to it.

So thanks for letting me know you are still in contact, because now I know he lied to me. And that my suspicions were correct, because I literally asked him while he was fucking me if you both were still friends, I wanted him to confirm to me that you’re previous contact with him was over, he said absolutely yes, it was definitely over,he said you wasn’t even his type and he was very clear about that, saying he wouldn’t be seen with someone the likes of you in real life. So obviously he lied to me about that. This is hilarious, I’m so glad you told me the contrary because he told me he literally hates liars, he hates people who tell lies. Haha.




I did it because he deserved it. The guy obviously was lying to me all along. He needed to be called out. He picked on the wrong woman, I don’t regret anything I’ve said about him in public because there is nothing I said that wasn’t the truth. He doesn’t come back because he knows he’s been caught out to be a serial womaniser. I feel nothing but contempt for him. The way he plays around with women’s emotions is disgusting. And that is why his lying seedy reputation needed to be shown the light of day.


You’ve no idea how happy you have made me feel today telling me you and Harbal are still talking off line. This is the best news I’ve been waiting for. It’s really made my day, so thanks for sharing that information with the forum.

Happy days Lacewing.

That's just catty. No need to take it out on other women.

Fuck you, the biggest cat in the jungle here.

When have I been catty?

[Fairy]

So thanks for letting me know you are still in contact, because now I know he lied to me. And that my suspicions were correct

I don't think he was lying to you. We hadn't spoken for years. Not in all the time you two were together. I just recently sent him a personal Hello when I saw the mortifying things you were saying about him on the forum.

But you didn’t say the above to me at first, you said this instead >

Would it surprise you that we're still friends, and talk offline? We have a bond and we have fun.

You made it sound like you’ve always maintained a contact with each other, you tried to deceive me. You wanted to save face because Harbal had told me you had been callous with him when you’re affair ended. So you wanted to take it out on me.

[Lacewing]

I recall when you and Harbal were openly flirting with each other back in the day of the chocolate thread drama.

What's wrong with that?

Once upon a time you loved to mock and gloat and giggle away to yourself at Harbal’s shallow attempt to be funny at other people’s expense

Harbal is not shallow. The insight in his humor is deliciously fun compared to the amount of insanity and actual shallowness on this forum.

you would writhe around with great pleasure at every sarcastic and mean ill will comment he made in response to my desire to share the concept of oneness and nonduality with you both. You both took great delight in mocking me for that. .../... I remember Harbal calling me a poisonous little fucker

Then why did you hook up with him? DAM/Fairy (or whatever name you're going by now), it's no secret that you act like looney tunes half the time... and publicly celebrate your own insanity... yet you're going to act like we were wrong to make fun of all your contradictory word salads? You, yourself, have said it's all fucking nonsense. So, what's with this current trip you're on?

You even found it funny to tell him that you really get turned on and love it when he gets angry. Meaning you loved his mean streak.

No, that is not what it meant. I found it funny when he rarely got angry because he was normally such an easy-going and proper kind of person. Yes, he has a sharp wit... but it's truthful and well-crafted.

You KNOW that all of this drama on the stage of life is just a fucking show. We can play with it or take it seriously. So, WHY are you wigging out about it and trying to blame everyone?

[Fairy]

When have I been catty?

Thinking Harbal is me or that I am Harbal when I’ve already told you that’s just not how it is. That’s just being ridiculous.

Yes it’s Harbal’s account, so fucking what does that make us the same person? What the heck are you on about ? It’s a deliberate attempt to be hurtful keep bringing up the subject that it’s Harbal’s account and then when it was fairy speaking to you ..you then said to me ok I believe you Harbal… I mean, what the fuck is wrong with you?

[Fairy]

You KNOW that all of this drama on the stage of life is just a fucking show. We can play with it or take it seriously. So, WHY are you wigging out about it and trying to blame everyone?

Only Harbal knows the truth about my personal character, not you, nor anyone else on this forum.

Now that you have resumed your contact with each other, obviously because you are so concerned about his welfare, you can find out the actual truth about my character, you can now ask him what I’m really like in real life and see if it matches with your own projected model representation of me. Then if you do choose to find out the actual truth, you’ll be able to blame me for everything and that’ll put everything to rights once and for all.

Whatever, I couldn’t give a flying toss, I’m so done with this human shitshow.

[accelafine]

When have I been catty?

Thinking Harbal is me or that I am Harbal when I’ve already told you that’s just not how it is. That’s just being ridiculous.

Yes it’s Harbal’s account, so fucking what does that make us the same person? What the heck are you on about ? It’s a deliberate attempt to be hurtful keep bringing up the subject that it’s Harbal’s account and then when it was fairy speaking to you ..you then said to me ok I believe you Harbal… I mean, why the fuck is wrong with you?

It was a joke, and it was actually on him, not you.

[Lacewing]

I don't think he was lying to you. We hadn't spoken for years. Not in all the time you two were together. I just recently sent him a personal Hello when I saw the mortifying things you were saying about him on the forum.

But you didn’t say the above to me at first, you said this instead >

Would it surprise you that we're still friends, and talk offline? We have a bond and we have fun.

It's the truth and was in response to you saying: "Would it surprise you to know that the man you’d love to roll around in the grass with, laughing. Actually doesn’t feel the same about you."

We STILL get along just fine.

You made it sound like you’ve always maintained a contact with each other, you tried to deceive me.

You're adding in quite a lot there. I was just giving you back what you were putting out. There's no deception.

You wanted to save face because Harbal had told me you had been callous with him when you’re affair ended. So you wanted to take it out on me.

You are the one blabbing all sorts of shit and taking things out on people. I don't care if Harbal said I was callous... he may have very well felt that way. He was going through a rough time, and we could only connect so much because of that... and being on different continents, and all. It ran its course. There was no affair.

Why don't you stop blaming everyone for your bad attitude and delusional rantings? Take some responsibility for the shit you're creating and slinging around.

[accelafine]

Would it surprise you that we're still friends, and talk offline? We have a bond and we have fun.

No that doesn’t surprise me at all. I’m glad you told me, this confirms my earlier suspicions and doubts about him being genuinely into me personally. Call it women’s intuition, but from the very beginning of our first meeting, I had the nagging feeling that I was just another one of his many acquaintances. Long story short, I knew very early on that our physical encounter was always going to be about a shared and consensual desire for sex, and that it wasn’t going to be anything else.
It was lust at first sight, and that was all there was to it.

So thanks for letting me know you are still in contact, because now I know he lied to me. And that my suspicions were correct, because I literally asked him while he was fucking me if you both were still friends, I wanted him to confirm to me that you’re previous contact with him was over, he said absolutely yes, it was definitely over,he said you wasn’t even his type and he was very clear about that, saying he wouldn’t be seen with someone the likes of you in real life. So obviously he lied to me about that. This is hilarious, I’m so glad you told me the contrary because he told me he literally hates liars, he hates people who tell lies. Haha.

Despite my compassion for your supposed heartbreak, I think it was awful that you unloaded your private one-sided experience with Harbal in such a public way, which drove him from this forum. I wanted to acknowledge that I (for one) missed him... as his humor was my favorite part of this forum.

I did it because he deserved it. The guy obviously was lying to me all along. He needed to be called out. He picked on the wrong woman, I don’t regret anything I’ve said about him in public because there is nothing I said that wasn’t the truth. He doesn’t come back because he knows he’s been caught out to be a serial womaniser. I feel nothing but contempt for him. The way he plays around with women’s emotions is disgusting. And that is why his lying seedy reputation needed to be shown the light of day.


You’ve no idea how happy you have made me feel today telling me you and Harbal are still talking off line. This is the best news I’ve been waiting for. It’s really made my day, so thanks for sharing that information with the forum.

Happy days Lacewing.

Are you saying there was only one 'encounter'? Not being nosy but it would rather put this into perspective if it was just a 'one night stand' situation.

[Fairy]

When have I been catty?

Thinking Harbal is me or that I am Harbal when I’ve already told you that’s just not how it is. That’s just being ridiculous.

Yes it’s Harbal’s account, so fucking what does that make us the same person? What the heck are you on about ? It’s a deliberate attempt to be hurtful keep bringing up the subject that it’s Harbal’s account and then when it was fairy speaking to you ..you then said to me ok I believe you Harbal… I mean, why the fuck is wrong with you?

It was a joke, and it was actually on him, not you.

Jokes are a covert way to make fun of people. You are talking to me, not Harbal. So you’re confusing yourself. The joke is pathetic and if that’s how you entertain yourself these days then good for you weirdo.

[Fairy]

Would it surprise you that we're still friends, and talk offline? We have a bond and we have fun.

No that doesn’t surprise me at all. I’m glad you told me, this confirms my earlier suspicions and doubts about him being genuinely into me personally. Call it women’s intuition, but from the very beginning of our first meeting, I had the nagging feeling that I was just another one of his many acquaintances. Long story short, I knew very early on that our physical encounter was always going to be about a shared and consensual desire for sex, and that it wasn’t going to be anything else.
It was lust at first sight, and that was all there was to it.

So thanks for letting me know you are still in contact, because now I know he lied to me. And that my suspicions were correct, because I literally asked him while he was fucking me if you both were still friends, I wanted him to confirm to me that you’re previous contact with him was over, he said absolutely yes, it was definitely over,he said you wasn’t even his type and he was very clear about that, saying he wouldn’t be seen with someone the likes of you in real life. So obviously he lied to me about that. This is hilarious, I’m so glad you told me the contrary because he told me he literally hates liars, he hates people who tell lies. Haha.

Despite my compassion for your supposed heartbreak, I think it was awful that you unloaded your private one-sided experience with Harbal in such a public way, which drove him from this forum. I wanted to acknowledge that I (for one) missed him... as his humor was my favorite part of this forum.

I did it because he deserved it. The guy obviously was lying to me all along. He needed to be called out. He picked on the wrong woman, I don’t regret anything I’ve said about him in public because there is nothing I said that wasn’t the truth. He doesn’t come back because he knows he’s been caught out to be a serial womaniser. I feel nothing but contempt for him. The way he plays around with women’s emotions is disgusting. And that is why his lying seedy reputation needed to be shown the light of day.


You’ve no idea how happy you have made me feel today telling me you and Harbal are still talking off line. This is the best news I’ve been waiting for. It’s really made my day, so thanks for sharing that information with the forum.

Happy days Lacewing.

Are you saying there was only one 'encounter'? Not being nosy but it would rather put this into perspective if it was just a 'one night stand' situation.

What do you mean by saying there was only one encounter? Please elaborate.

[Fairy]

I don't think he was lying to you. We hadn't spoken for years. Not in all the time you two were together. I just recently sent him a personal Hello when I saw the mortifying things you were saying about him on the forum.

But you didn’t say the above to me at first, you said this instead >

Would it surprise you that we're still friends, and talk offline? We have a bond and we have fun.

It's the truth and was in response to you saying: "Would it surprise you to know that the man you’d love to roll around in the grass with, laughing. Actually doesn’t feel the same about you."

We STILL get along just fine.

You made it sound like you’ve always maintained a contact with each other, you tried to deceive me.

You're adding in quite a lot there. I was just giving you back what you were putting out. There's no deception.

You wanted to save face because Harbal had told me you had been callous with him when you’re affair ended. So you wanted to take it out on me.

You are the one blabbing all sorts of shit and taking things out on people. I don't care if Harbal said I was callous... he may have very well felt that way. He was going through a rough time, and we could only connect so much because of that... and being on different continents, and all. It ran its course. There was no affair.

Why don't you stop blaming everyone for your bad attitude and delusional rantings? Take some responsibility for the shit you're creating and slinging around.

You might be still getting along. But he’s a liar. Don’t you understand what I’m trying to tell you, people get along but they’ll only show you the side of them that they want you to see. They hide their shadow side. I’m not that kind of person, I show both my dark and light side to people, I’m not ashamed of who I am.

[Lacewing]

Only Harbal knows the truth about my personal character, not you, nor anyone else on this forum.

Now that you have resumed your contact with each other, obviously because you are so concerned about his welfare, you can find out the actual truth about my character, you can now ask him what I’m really like in real life and see if it matches with your own projected model representation of me.

I don't care.

And he is too much of a gentleman to trash you or go into it (and I didn't ask). Which absolutely fits with the personality of the Harbal I've experienced.

I'm honestly glad that you two had a good time together. We should all have good times with each other when we can.

I'm sorry you are so worked up about this. Tomorrow will be a new day, and you'll have a new personality to go with it. Everything is okay.

[accelafine]

I knew very early on that our physical encounter was always going to be about a shared and consensual desire for sex, and that it wasn’t going to be anything else.
It was lust at first sight, and that was all there was to it.




What do you mean by saying there was only one encounter? Please elaborate.

You wrote 'encounter' singular, not plural. I didn't say that was the case. I was just asking.

[Fairy]

I don't think he was lying to you. We hadn't spoken for years. Not in all the time you two were together. I just recently sent him a personal Hello when I saw the mortifying things you were saying about him on the forum.

But you didn’t say the above to me at first, you said this instead >

Would it surprise you that we're still friends, and talk offline? We have a bond and we have fun.

It's the truth and was in response to you saying: "Would it surprise you to know that the man you’d love to roll around in the grass with, laughing. Actually doesn’t feel the same about you."

We STILL get along just fine.

You made it sound like you’ve always maintained a contact with each other, you tried to deceive me.

You're adding in quite a lot there. I was just giving you back what you were putting out. There's no deception.

You wanted to save face because Harbal had told me you had been callous with him when you’re affair ended. So you wanted to take it out on me.

You are the one blabbing all sorts of shit and taking things out on people. I don't care if Harbal said I was callous... he may have very well felt that way. He was going through a rough time, and we could only connect so much because of that... and being on different continents, and all. It ran its course. There was no affair.

Why don't you stop blaming everyone for your bad attitude and delusional rantings? Take some responsibility for the shit you're creating and slinging around.

Yes, he was going through a rough time. You are telling me things I already know about him.

I too am going through a rough time right now with a family member. We all go through rough times. No big deal.

Why don’t you just find out the truth about my character before you sling mud at me, you’re condescending attitude that it’s all about me not taking responsibility and telling me that I’m blaming everyone but myself. Find out the other side of the story before you get on your high horse poking fingers at me all the time. Now you’re back in contact you have your chance to see both sides of the story, so what are you waiting for. Get back to me with the truth, then we can finally know both sides of the shitshow. Ok.

[Fairy]

I knew very early on that our physical encounter was always going to be about a shared and consensual desire for sex, and that it wasn’t going to be anything else.
It was lust at first sight, and that was all there was to it.




What do you mean by saying there was only one encounter? Please elaborate.

You wrote 'encounter' singular, not plural.

Ok, yeah I did, it’s because I’m illiterate, dyslexic and have poor writing skills and grammar.

We had many encounters. I’ve already stated here before Harbal and I encountered each other for two years.