BigMike wrote: ↑Fri Jan 03, 2025 12:12 pm
attofishpi wrote: ↑Fri Jan 03, 2025 11:19 am
BigMike wrote: ↑Fri Jan 03, 2025 9:03 am
Your response is beyond inappropriate and completely irrelevant to the discussion at hand. It’s shocking that you would stoop to such a juvenile and offensive remark, particularly in the context of what was, up until that point, an intellectual exchange. This isn’t just unproductive; it’s downright sickening.
If I had to guess, deterministically speaking, remarks like that may stem from deep-seated issues or formative experiences, perhaps shaped by upbringing in environments where open discussions about sexuality were stigmatized or repressed. Psychological studies have shown correlations between strict, sex-negative environments and higher incidences of unhealthy attitudes toward sex, ranging from shame and guilt to inappropriate or even perverse expressions of it later in life. This isn’t an accusation—it’s an observation grounded in data.
Such environments often set the stage for dysfunction. When sexuality is suppressed, curiosity doesn’t disappear; it often manifests in unhealthy or secretive ways. And while not every individual raised in such circumstances reacts this way, the trend is well-documented. It’s a powerful reminder of how deeply deterministic forces—upbringing, social norms, and cultural narratives—shape even the most personal aspects of human behavior.
If your goal is to engage in serious discussion, then rise to that level. If not, perhaps it’s time to reflect on what compels you to derail conversations with this kind of behavior. This space deserves better, and frankly, so do you.
I can't believe you are so upset with me when since the Big Bang to now I had no choice in the matter. You can't punish me like this BigMike, it truly hurts (ok, that's a lie).
Why you bring sex into the discussion is beyond me.
The fact remains that I don't know whether I have ever been tea-bagged (as a result of The Big Bang). Apparently it usually happens to the victim when one is asleep. Nobody's ever admitted to me that they had tea-bagged me. You are very upset about this, to the extent that perhaps, just maybe you had a bastard of a friend actually admit to doing it to you. If you want to talk about it, we are all here for you Mike. Thank GOD that the Big Bang made me such a considerate, yet extremely immature gentleman.
Your response is a complete deflection, and frankly, it's exhausting to see you persist in avoiding accountability for your own words by resorting to childish humor.
Although "attofishpi's" continual avoiding of responsibility, here, is not exhausting at all, to me, anyway you are absolutely Correct in "attofishpi's" response being a complete (attempt) at DEFLECTION. But this is just what "attofishpi" continually 'tries to do', along with its attempts at humor, again for DEFLECTION, DISTRACTION, and DECEPTION. But, and "attofishpi" Rightly POINTED OUT, to you, it has absolutely NO other choice. Well according to your logic, BELIEF, and CLAIM, here, anyway, correct?
BigMike wrote: ↑Fri Jan 03, 2025 12:12 pm
Let me clarify something: this isn’t about being “upset.” It’s about pointing out behavior that derails meaningful discourse and reduces complex discussions to cheap attempts at humor that do nothing but waste time.
I never 'saw' you as being upset. I just saw a well written response by you. However, what you seem to keep MISSING is that whatever happens and whatever response you get, and write "yourself", absolutely none of you had absolutely ANY choice NOR control over, correct?
BigMike wrote: ↑Fri Jan 03, 2025 12:12 pm
You claim that determinism absolves you of responsibility because, "since the Big Bang," you had no choice in the matter. Let’s address that, too. Determinism explains why people behave as they do based on prior causes—upbringing, environment, experiences—but it doesn’t remove the possibility of introspection, growth, or self-awareness.
This, here, is, EXACTLY, where your views and claims keep FALLING APART and FAILING, ABSOLUTELY, "bigmike".
you can NOT logically keep claiming absolutely EVERY thing is because of 'determinism' BUT people have a choice over whether they CHOOSE to introspect, grow, or become self-aware.
you are FIGHTING and ARGUING AGAINST "yourself", here, sometimes.
But, then again, you have absolutely NO choice in misbehaving 'this way', right?
BigMike wrote: ↑Fri Jan 03, 2025 12:12 pm
Even within a deterministic framework, people have the capacity to reflect on their actions and recognize when they’re crossing boundaries.
But ONLY WHEN the pre-existing conditions have allowed them to. And, OBVIOUSLY, NO two people have had the exact same pre-existing conditions.
BigMike wrote: ↑Fri Jan 03, 2025 12:12 pm
What’s especially troubling is your repeated insistence on introducing perverse or irrelevant commentary into what was intended to be an intellectual discussion.
LOL "bigmike" it was NEVER going to any other way, OBVIOUSLY.
BigMike wrote: ↑Fri Jan 03, 2025 12:12 pm
The fact that this response comes so naturally to you raises serious questions about the forces that shaped your behavior.
And, what about your OWN misgivings and Wrong doings?
Are you raising serious questions about the forces that shaped your Wrong behaviors' here?
Or, are you MISSING and/or 'trying to' DEFLECT AWAY FROM those 'past forces' BECAUSE those 'past forces' actually TAUGHT you to be DEFLECTIVE, DISMISSIVE, and/or DECEPTIVE of 'those forces' that have made you do Wrong and MISBEHAVE?
BigMike wrote: ↑Fri Jan 03, 2025 12:12 pm
Are you trying to deflect attention from your inability to engage seriously,
LOL "bigmike", have you, "yourself", REALLY, been engaging 'seriously', here?
For example, you define the 'free will' words in a way that they could not exist, and so then conclude 'free will' does not exist. Which is about a silly and stupid as defining any other word/s in 'a way' that they could not exist, and then spending the rest of your time claiming that 'it' does not exist, and LOL FIGHTING and ARGUING FOR 'your claim'.
Do you want to focus on your INABILITY to engage seriously, here? Or, are you, also, trying to deflect attention from your inability to engage seriously, as well?
BigMike wrote: ↑Fri Jan 03, 2025 12:12 pm
or are these responses simply what your mind defaults to under pressure?
Once again for the slow of learning, you human beings do BOT have your own minds
BigMike wrote: ↑Fri Jan 03, 2025 12:12 pm
Either way, it’s a clear sign that something in your past—your environment, your social interactions, or your upbringing—has wired you to seek attention through provocation rather than meaningful contribution.
The EXACT SAME can be said and SHOWN about you, here, "bigmike".
you are not REALLY providing meaningful contribution, here. Instead you are just 'trying to' get others to accept and agree with your OWN belief/s, here.
BigMike wrote: ↑Fri Jan 03, 2025 12:12 pm
If you truly want to continue this conversation, then drop the immaturity, stop deflecting, and engage in a way that respects the intellectual effort being put into this exchange.
LOL you want to TELL others that the 'very way' that they are is because of 'determinism', and that they have absolutely NO 'free will' to CHOOSE to CHANGE 'the way' they are, AT ALL, BUT, ALSO, CRITICIZE them for continuing to b 'the very way' that they are, and for NOT being DIFFERENT.
Could you get MORE CONTRADICTORY and/or be MORE HYPOCRITICAL, here, "bigmike"?
BigMike wrote: ↑Fri Jan 03, 2025 12:12 pm
Otherwise, you’re just proving my earlier point: when someone can’t rise to the level of the discussion, they try to bring everyone else down to theirs. Don’t let that be the legacy of your contributions here.
'This' is EXACTLY what you, "bigmike", are DOING, here, "yourself".