Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Tue Nov 12, 2024 3:00 am
Alexiev wrote: ↑Mon Nov 11, 2024 5:47 pm
I wonder what the "ignore" function accomplishes. Are people here incapable of ignoring some posts without using the function? It reminds me of small children putting their fingers in their ears and shouting, "I can't hear you! I can't hear you!"
Yes, people often have judgments of this, but perhaps they don't notice that IRL we use all sorts of ignore functions to streamline. I'd rather not see posts by certain people, even catch glimpses of phrases or toxic responses.
So, just IGNORE them, like others do in so-called 'real life'.
LOL Does this one LISTEN to EVERY conversation within 'ear shot', and/or READ EVERY book at 'arms length'?
If no, then it could just CHOOSE to skip past posts, as well. And, as ALREADY NOTED posting or bragging about 'ignoring' one or another is nothing more than being 'egotistical', and PROVING just how Truly CLOSED one IS.
Also, noticed is the BLAMING of 'the other', here.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Tue Nov 12, 2024 3:00 am
Yes, I could develop a discipline and carefully engage with the names first and jump over posts, but the ignore or really foe function streamlines this.
GREAT. But, WHY does this one 'harp on' SO MUCH?
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Tue Nov 12, 2024 3:00 am
I don't have to see some idiotic or mean-spirited or toxic phrase or response and then feel the urge to respond. IRL I can generally avoid toxic acquaintances and not hear or see their responses to me.
LOL AGAIN, further PROOF of just how CLOSED this one REALLY IS.
LOL HOW would it KNOW where, when, and what to AVOID, if it has not FIRST HEARD and/or SEEN?
And, AGAIN, this one is showing prime examples of APE thinking.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Tue Nov 12, 2024 3:00 am
With really persistent types, I can hold up a hand and say
not interested.
Has this one NOTICED just how PERSISTENT it IS when it comes to talking ABOUT 'me'?
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Tue Nov 12, 2024 3:00 am
Very few people ever try to push past that.
Which is, EXACTLY, what you are doing here AGAIN, now.
What 'we' have here is another one who if it just STOPPED talking ABOUT me or referring TO me, then it would NOT get notifications that I have replied to its words here.
Also, let 'us' not forget that this is a public philosophy forum where ANY and ALL ideas, views, perspectives are OPEN to being questioned, challenged, and/or critiqued,
But, of course, if one has CHOSEN to IGNORE others, then they have MADE SURE that they do not have to answer, clarify, nor elaborate on their views, ideas, and/or perspectives. Which is, REALLY, quite convenient when they KNOW that what they are saying cannot be backed up nor supported.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Tue Nov 12, 2024 3:00 am
But due to the nature of this medium toxic bs can arrive from that person, so the foe function works rather well at holding up a hand and saying not interested.
Great. Then just USE IT.
And, let 'us' not forget that the 'foe function' can be USED, without having to 'brag about' USING it.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Tue Nov 12, 2024 3:00 am
In addition, the public announcement ("I'm putting so and so on ignore!") Is egotistical. Who cares?
And what you are doing here isn't egotistical, how's that. Aren't you putting me in my place and judging me? But you are literally correct: the ego is about boundaries. The pejorative part of egotistical.... nah, I don't buy it. Unless you simply, IRL, just ghost everyone you no longer want contact with.
ONCE MORE this one BELIEVES, ABSOLUTELY, that it does NOTHING Wrong here, and so, ONCE AGAIN, 'tries' to' 'justify' its, obviously, egoistical ways.
It is like this one, actually, BELIEVES that it does not do Wrong, while it is continually JUDGING others at the same time for doing WRONG.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Tue Nov 12, 2024 3:00 am
If you want to ignore someone, feel free. No need to use the function or make a public announcement.
I don't need to. I wanted to.
AGAIN, as a Truly "egotistical" one would.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Tue Nov 12, 2024 3:00 am
Just as in other facets of my life I've wanted to tell certain people that because of their behavior I was choosing to_________________.
And, just like when this one wants to tell others things, because of their behaviors, which it is judging those others on, this is being told some thing, because of the behaviors it is doing here, because of its ego, here.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Tue Nov 12, 2024 3:00 am
And what I chose to do was a response to what I did not like.
And, the response/s this one is getting is because of what others do not like.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Tue Nov 12, 2024 3:00 am
And here in this thread this is also a reaction to two other people who found the behavior of someone, yes, that bad, that they wanted to not see their posts.
LOL
LOL
LOL
SO, just STOP 'looking at' those posts.
AGAIN, how much more SIMPLER and EASIER could this get?
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Tue Nov 12, 2024 3:00 am
Just as IRL the behavior of some people makes us want to shut them out or not hang out with them or whatever measures we take.
BUT, this one, and others, just LOVE and WANT TO keep talking ABOUT 'one'.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Tue Nov 12, 2024 3:00 am
Sure, you can ghost people. You can just disappear. That has plusses and minuses. It's probably the right move in many situations, especially if the other person is a threat, such as a physical one. But sometimes for yourself, sometimes even for the other person, it's got plusses to say why you are shutting them out, or to confirm for others that you understand why they are shutting someone out.
Yes, 'banding a group together', to 'shut another out', was a very common habit, among the human population, back in the 'olden days' when this was being written.
And, this phenomena happened and occurred more frequently when people's views and beliefs were being questioned and challenged, but they were completely incapable of backing up and supporting those Truly False, Wrong, Inaccurate, and/or Incorrect perspectives.
As can be clearly seen throughout this forum, at least.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Tue Nov 12, 2024 3:00 am
And, of course, since we are all fallible, any choices here might be not the best ones. But I, obviously, see no need for a rule.
Just silently disappear.
LOL 'silently'.
I wonder if this one thinks that its continual posts are not being READ, and HEARD.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Tue Nov 12, 2024 3:00 am
You're an immature person if you announce you are going to ignore someone. Nah, I disagree.
OF COURSE this one WOULD.
It is one of the LOUDEST when it comes to EXPRESSING who it, supposedly, will not 'hear out', and IGNORE
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Tue Nov 12, 2024 3:00 am
And I think it's a very rare person who lives by that rule IRL.
I wonder how many 'lives' and/or how many 'unreal lives' there, really, are.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Tue Nov 12, 2024 3:00 am
And as someone who has been on the other end of both being ghosted and having someone tell me that and why they were ending contact, I tend to prefer the latter. I am not making a claim that I am being benevolent.
AGAIN, another clear example of the 'ego' at work, and at play, here.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Tue Nov 12, 2024 3:00 am
But I note that it actually can be valuable feedback for the person being closed out of at least one person's contact.
Yes, it is INVALUABLE information that this one is providing here. Saying, and SHOWING, how it, and others, will Truly IGNORE others COMPLETELY, PROVES just how CLOSED some human beings REALLY WERE, back in the 'olden days' when this was being written. Which EXPLAINS WHY those human beings, 'back then', took SO LONG to CATCH UP, here.
The VERY REASON WHY ALL 'new or opposing knowledge', which is ACTUALLY True, and Right, takes SO LONG to be comprehend and understood is because of people's CHOICE to IGNORE it, and others. That it is the earth that revolves around the sun would have become 'common knowledge' much earlier if only people did not IGNORE 'that information' nor 'the one' who was just expressing the Truth, for example.