Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Wed Oct 25, 2023 3:49 pm
A subjective moralist can have all sorts of ways to openly be a subjective moralist and try to convince others. They can point to common values with others. Hey, you and I we don't like when kids suffer PTSD or whatever. So, here's why I want the age of consent to be 18 (or whatever).
That will work for anybody who just happens to share your own values. But if they already share your own values, then you have no need to convince them of anything, since they already believe it.
"Convincing," analytically, is something one does to somebody who does NOT (at least at present) share one's own values and assumptions. And it requires providing them with enough rational incentives (evidence, reasons, proofs, arguments) that they cease to believe in their former values and objectives, and start to share yours.
...one can reason with them based on their values and common values.
That will only be enough if the ONLY thing they lack is a more rational application of the same value-judgments you and they both share. For example, if I already believe it's good to love my neighbour, you can say to me, "Hey, dude: if you love your neighbour you should be willing to cut his grass when he's feeling sick." And I, being somebody who believes in being kind to neighbours, might say, "Hey, you know, you're right...I should."
But that is not the usual situation, obviously; and it doesn't really require so much convincing as helping me to see the rational implications of my own values. What if I don't believe in helping neighbours? What if I have a fiercely competitive view of humanity? And what if, consequently, I see all my own values tied up with a "win at all costs" or "devil take the hindmost" kind of view of the world...maybe I'm a Social Darwinist, a Nietzschean, a Randian, a monopolist, an egoist, a hyper-competitive type...
That's when "convincing" is important. In tamer situations, it's hardly even necessary. Just point me to the best implications of what I already believe, and I'll probably go along.
But try that with Hamas and Israel right now. Try that with Russia and China. Try that as the principle of a justice system:
"Hey, I know you just murdered that shopkeeper by standing on his windpipe, but maybe you were just unaware that that's a bad way to love your neighbour?"
But what use is subjectivism? What use is a "morality" that cannot "convince" anybody?
It's not a useful question.
It sure is.
If the only people you can "convince" are those who already agree with you, and thus have "empathy" with you, then you can't convince anybody who doesn't share your feelings. But even more importantly, you can't explain to yourself why you should, say, approve or disapprove of homosexuality. You may feel sympathy, but there's no why, no reason, no explanation in objective reality for the feeling, and against the contrary feeling.
The consequence will be that you don't believe as deeply as you need to in order to be convinced, yourself, that you are duty bound to act on that conviction. You'll hold it as a mere theory, and won't have the certainty or the sense of obligation to put that sympathy into action; and if you try to, you'll lack the fortitude to fend off even the first objector to your view. You won't have the resources to stand up for anything.
It can't even "convince" the person who believes it, in the sense that it cannot provide him with any good reasons why he has an approving or disapproving feeling about homosexuality.
His approval or disapproval turns out to be a purely subjective, purely personal, purely emotional reaction, one -- by his own account -- untied to any objective facts. How is he supposed to "convince" himself he's right?

This is why many objectivists cannot consider that their sense that their values are objective might be made up. Because then it seems, and it clearly seems so to you, that then one must be passive, not try to make the world the way one wants, which includes how one wants it to be on care and empathy for others, at least for many subjectivists.
That's actually NOT what I think.
What I think is that a subjectivist, contrary to all logic and justification, very often WILL decide to "make the world the way he/she wants," because everybody does that. But for a subjectivist, what one "wants" may be a good or bad thing. Right now, despots and terrorists all over the world are trying to "make the world the way they want." But for you and me, that's a disaster.
You see, when one says to somebody else, "this is the way the world SHOULD be," it's all the more important to have binding reasons, good explantions, rational accounts, and data from the objective world. For what one is then undertaking is not the accepting of things as they are, but the projecting of one's own wishes and values onto a future situation. One is trying to control things: and while it is sometimes possible to "make the world the way we want" and make it better, it's actually historically far more common that when we do that kind of thing, we make the world
worse.
That's because things are complex, and we are comparatively simple in our wishes. So we project imaginatively that we should, say, have "the classless society," and it sounds good to us, and we cut the straightest, simplest path to getting there -- violent revolution. And as a consequence, we have gulags, re-education camps, torture chambers, economic collapse, starvation of millions...all in the name of "making things the way we want."
You assumption: if I don't consider my values objective values, then I cannot try to make the world different. I could not fight against pedophilia or antiremitism or whatever I find abhorrant. I would have to accept it.
Well, you'll find you cannot fight against these things without assuming objective values.
I think the thing you're struggling with is the opposite: you're mistaking your own values and intentions (which I assume to be benign and well-intended, of course) to be the values and intentions of everybody else. Thus, it's a simple matter of calling everybody to see what they already know...that your values and intentions are right, and are harmonous with theirs; and that's the only "convincing" you suppose will be necessary.
Not so,
mon ami. The vast majority of the world has very different values from you and me. And their versions of the future are quite different from yours and mine. To be convincing, we would have to summon the few objective facts that perhaps we and they concede to each other, and argue from those to a point of agreement. But if there are no such objective facts or realities, then we have not one thing to call to our aid in the project of "making the world better." We will, instead, have to resort to force.
Just imagine how strong your feelings of cognitive dissonance must be...
I'm sorry...I can't help you there: I don't have any.
And that's because there's nothing at all "dissonant" about saying that there are objective values and we should all be following them. The two clauses make perfect sense with each other. How can one have "dissonance" from such harmonious beliefs?
"Cognitive dissonance" is the thing that cannot be cured by subjectivism, however, because subjectivism removes the "cognitive" bit, but leaves the "dissonnance in the form of vague feelings of confusion and unanchored guilt. There are no objective reasons in subjectivism; so one has to assume one's values unreasonably...one must simply hope that what one already believes is always the right thing, and that all people will be persuadable to this right thing by nothing more than the pointing out of the best method to get there.
And yet, nothing in the world, life or personal experience gives us hope that that sanguine subjectivist belief is true. So what do we do?