Thanks for your response, but you didn't answer my question: "so, human to human, tell me if you think it fair that I suffer for eternity for failing to believe that God exists?"Immanuel Can wrote: ↑Fri Jan 20, 2023 4:46 pmIt's not just the "Does God exist," question, Harbal. It's much more than that.Even so, despite your total faith in God’s judgement, you are human, with a human’s sense of right and wrong, and what is fair or unfair, so, human to human, tell me if you think it fair that I suffer for eternity for failing to believe that God exists?
The Bible says that even the various enemies of God believe He exists. So we get no special status for admitting that. What's important about belief is not believing in mere facts; it's how that faith introduces us to God Himself. When we show even a little willingness to enter into a relationship with Him, God is willing in return. But God is also committed to our individuality, our freedom, our identity, our value...and part of that is that we are choosing beings.
You don't force a person with whom you have an ambition for a love relationship into something he or she doesn't want. You don't break his or her will, and compel him or her to love you, turning him or her into some kind of automaton or being whose will and identity don't matter. You don't dehumanize him or her. Instead, you appeal to them, and leave them to make the decision about whether or not they want to reciprocate. Real relationships are always two-sided, and voluntary on both sides. God's willingness is not even in doubt. But ours is.
We have a choice. We don't have to do much to signal our willingness to have some relationship with God. But we do have to do something -- not just as a signal of our will, but because unless we agree, it's not a real relationship anyway.
The Bible says, "...without faith it is impossible to please [God], for the one who comes to God must believe that He exists, and that He proves to be One who rewards those who seek Him." (Heb. 11:6) Believe that God will reward you, if you seek Him. You will find Him. That's the promise. But it has to come from your choice in the matter.
That's my attempt to explain complicated issues, and respond to very good questions, as clearly as I can. I hope it's as forthcoming as you would like.
If you don't feel able to answer that specific question, please just say that, and I won't push it. I've explained my position regarding my attitude towards belief in God, and I ask that you respect that as a statement of how things are. I'm not susceptible to persuasion; we've been through it before, and it always leaves me completely unmoved. I'm not the sort of person who worships anything, so I don't think God would be fully satisfied with by conduct, even were I ever to change my mind about his existence. It's not just that I don't believe in God; neither do I want all the rigmarole that goes with it. It's just not a lifestyle, or attitude, that appeals to me. My lack of belief in God is genuine, and not something I have control over, but all the rest; the Bible, and the devotion to a deity, that's just not for me, so yes, that is something that I willfully reject. So, given what I have told you about myself, Is it your personal opinion that I deserve to suffer for all eternity for my choice?