AlexW wrote: ↑Tue Jul 13, 2021 12:33 am
Dontaskme wrote: ↑Mon Jul 12, 2021 11:39 am
Also, to say that pain is unavoidable, but suffering is optional, is like saying: eating a strawberry chocolate cupcake is not an enjoyable experience, the enjoyment is purely optional. It's irrational, because a cupcake is usually very enjoyable.
Yes, good point - but only to a degree...
I think catching thoughts that lead to suffering (and as such diminishing or avoiding suffering) works in a similar way as wild animals catch the scent of a lurking predator... they are constantly aware of any signs of a predator approaching (but not in an unnatural, forced way, no, its simply natural functioning to be aware of this threat) and, when spotted react accordingly.
Humans do not have many predators to be aware of, most physical threats and enemies have vanished from our daily lives, yet, all is not good... the "enemy" has moved closer, it now hides in our own head - it is our thoughts that can hurt us, often much more deeply than any physical threat ever could.
Being aware of this internal enemy - of negative chains of thought - is what makes it possible to react swiftly to an "attack" and defuse it before a small spark turns into a wildfire.
This is also why the enjoyable experience of "eating a strawberry chocolate cupcake" is still enjoyable - the thoughts arising from this experience do not set off the alarm bells like negative thoughts would (its the same with wild animals, they still "enjoy" to play, eat fresh grass or have a good mud-bath, but this doesn't keep them from being alert in case a croc jumps out of the swamp, trying to eat them alive...)
While being aware of external danger seems like something logical to do, being aware of internal danger is something most people have no clue about (most don't even know that this danger exists)... they are, as such, easy prey to negative thoughts and this is also why suffering, depression, anxiety, anger, fear etc etc are so prevalent in todays world.
But this internal awareness - like anything else - can be practised and it can be integrated into how one functions - and over time it becomes the new normal (on looking back: this has been one of the best things ever happening to me).
I get what you are saying. But what you are pointing to is all based on the knowledge of conceptual understanding via association with meaning based on human belief systems that have been artificially formed over decades and decades of mental conditioning and programming that are past on from generation to generation.. All of which is nothing more than a fiction upon the real world which is without any concept or story about it. That's the real world, the real world is the world prior to any artificially imposed story about it. Artificial because words are just empty sound believed to be real, when in reality, the reality of belief, is emptiness at it's very core.
The real world doesn't need a language to interpret it ... The real world is experienced as and though sensation and feeling. The real world of sensation and feeling cannot be ignored, reality for sentient creature is gross, barbaric and crude, it's a pointless, mindless battle for survival. A dog eat dog reality. The dinosaur period is still here, nothing has changed in the nature of nature, just because humans have showed up, in fact nature has gotten a whole lot worse because of humanity, not better.
So even the idea that we can just disassociate with our sensation and thoughts and feelings, and know they are like passing ships in the night with no significant significance, because they have no impact on the awareness that is aware of them, is not helpful.
I came to realise the Gurus who preach this nondual knowledge are also as deluded as the religious kooks. They too, the advaita vedanta gurus are all part of the same problem, they have an agenda, to be worshipped, they are in for the money, they are trying to sell you something. It's all very corrupt and gross, because nothing is for sale here. There really is no hope for conscious sentinet life, we just need to learn to let go and stop flogging dead horses, just so they can live a little longer just to die at a later date. We need to accept death, and stop trying to avoid the inevitable by making up bullshit stories about living eternal lives in bliss and peace...it's all bollocks, and most intelligent people already know this.
I used to think like you, I used to think like IC...but something happened to me, I realised once and for all that I was just pretending, I was living a pretentious life. And that is when I decided to stop living a pretentious life, and live in the real world, and to my delight, I discovered I was ok with that.
I was ok with it, because I have no other choice but to endure life, until nature decides it's time to erase me from existence.
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