Well 'your life' is NOT ANY one "else's" life. AND NO one could ever the life 'you' had, AGAIN.Dontaskme wrote: ↑Mon Jul 12, 2021 11:39 amThanks for sharing the story that is your experience of pain.AlexW wrote: ↑Mon Jul 12, 2021 10:59 amNow, after telling you this story, I hope you understand better where I am coming from. Yes, pain is unavoidable, suffering is optional, sounds like a pretty dumb thing to say - our history of "suffering pain" seem to be proof against it - yet, once you subtract all thoughts from the pain, the suffering simply vanishes (no matter how intense the pain). Of course, with intense pain happening, its not unlikely that thoughts of suffering will arise, yet, it will diminish and eventually vanish as soon as these thoughts are seen for what they are and caught as soon as they arise.
It still doesn't convince me that life is worth the price we pay for it.
I wouldn't want to live my life all over again knowing what I know now, not ever.
All you, as an adult have to do is just make Life, Itself, BETTER for the children 'you' bring into It.Dontaskme wrote: ↑Mon Jul 12, 2021 11:39 am But no one has the choice to be born. We do have the choice not to impose the unborn to this painful life, but for the unborn, there is zero choice or consent. I just don't think we have the right to drag new life into the world knowing what we know about it, just because we say it's ok, just because we think it's worth it.
And, to do this all you have to is just LEARN WHY 'you' are making Life worse.
To me, saying one is just about NOTHING like saying the other. But there is ACTUALLY Truth in it, now that I thought about it for a second.Dontaskme wrote: ↑Mon Jul 12, 2021 11:39 am We have the intelligence to realise that what we have to experience is not a good idea, and that we can stop it any time we like. Once again I have to repeat, it seems we are ok with pain and suffering, we are ok with making more of it, we love our pain and suffering. And to me, that's really really dumb, but then other people might think my opinion is dumb, so having any opinion at all about the experience of what it is to be alive is hopeless.
Also, to say that pain is unavoidable, but suffering is optional, is like saying: eating a strawberry chocolate cupcake is not an enjoyable experience, the enjoyment is purely optional.
With the power of the Mind, it is ACTUALLY VERY EASY.
If ANY one is interested ALL OF THIS can be EXPLAINED.
What is being SEEN here is a PRIME EXAMPLE of how thee Mind and the brain ACTUALLY WORK.
Dontaskme wrote: ↑Mon Jul 12, 2021 11:39 am
The dinosaur era proved this fact. Millions and millions of years of useless carnage. Humanity then showed up a few seconds ago in relation to how long sentient life has been occurring, and as if by magic, suddenly everything is perfect and sweet and worth it. Everything is known, and we've got it all figured out...and yet no one has ever been alive before, but they seem to know truth.
We invented our knowledge, we made up reasons and meaning, and it is this knowledge that seems to be our only saving grace, except for the word extinction, that seems to be the hardest word to understand, it's like the dirty word.. so be it.
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