Dontaskme wrote: ↑Tue Nov 22, 2022 8:39 am
Age wrote: ↑Sun Nov 20, 2022 4:02 am
But I do NOT 'fall in love' with people.
Obviously not.
LOL
If 'you' EVER SEEK OUT CLARIFICATION what WILL BE FOUND is that what 'you' ASSUMING here is the EXACT OPPOSITE of what thee ACTUAL Truth of 'things' IS here.
Unless, OF COURSE, 'you' happen to PROVE otherwise.
Dontaskme wrote: ↑Tue Nov 22, 2022 8:39 am
Age wrote: ↑Sun Nov 20, 2022 4:02 amI asked a person who DOES HATE Life, that IF they were a sane adult human being what they would really expect.
We are STILL waiting for their answer.
Hating life is not a crime, some people hate the taste of beetroot, and that's not a crime either.
I KNOW.
'you' REALLY can NOT YET READ what I WRITE WITHOUT PRESUMING 'things', which USUALLY ARE False, Wrong, and/or Incorrect.
I NEVER even thought HATING Life was a crime, let alone EVER suggest absolutely ANY thing like this.
Dontaskme wrote: ↑Tue Nov 22, 2022 8:39 am
Being up close and intimate with the things we do love in life is what we love about life. Some aspects of life are to be hated, like having a roaring gum abscess toothache in the middle of night only to find you've run out of painkillers. On the other hand some aspects of life are to be loved like eating Ben & Jerry's icecream on a hot summers day, or your lover giving you an orgasm, that's pretty worth being alive for, but all these things are fleeting and temporal and short lived, these are pleasures that do not seem to last as long as pain and suffering, which is in my opinion the most dominant feature a sentient organism had to endure throughout their life span, pain will always dominate the pleasure part of life, that's a fact.
That is a 'fact', FOR 'you'.
Also, ONLY when one has been ABUSED do they then turn to 'loving things', as well as 'hating things'.
See, when one IS Truly content AND happy, then there are NO aspects of Life that they HATE nor LOVE. SEE, absolutely EVERY thing IN Life is PERFECT, EXACTLY how they ARE at ANY given moment.
To REACH and ACHIEVE what is about to SOON BE-come, relative to 'you', people, in the days when this was being written, how EVERY thing IS, to 'you' is ABSOLUTELY PERFECT.
Dontaskme wrote: ↑Tue Nov 22, 2022 8:39 am
Like when your lover whom you have invested so much of your time and love energy suddenly cuts you out of their life, that's really painful and the grief can last a very long time. No pleasure can last as long as grief and mental anguish does.
Grief and mental anguish only persist in those who have been ABUSED. 'you', "dontaskme", are LIVING PROOF of this.
Dontaskme wrote: ↑Tue Nov 22, 2022 8:39 am
I guess I hate some aspects of life, and love others.
So, Life REALLY is NOT as bad as you sometimes make It out to be, correct?
Dontaskme wrote: ↑Tue Nov 22, 2022 8:39 am
For me personally, I guess I'm saying if I had ever had the choice to be born at all, already knowing what it is to be alive, I simply would not have choosen to be born. But no one knows what it is like to be born until they are born.
How MANY TIMES are you going to REPEAT 'this' BEFORE you come to REALIZE we ALREADY KNOW and UNDERSTAND this about you?
Also, NOT sure how this FITS IN with what you quoted me saying and writing above here.
Dontaskme wrote: ↑Tue Nov 22, 2022 8:39 am
So this is all I am trying to say when I say I hate being alive.
But I KNOW and UNDERSTAND that this is 'all that you are trying to say', and have KNOWN and UNDERSTOOD this EVERY one of the maybe 50 times that you have continually stated this.
Dontaskme wrote: ↑Tue Nov 22, 2022 8:39 am
The fact that I am alive through a process that I have had no consent or control over just means I am in a position where I can now choose to like it or not, but that's just something I have the capacity to do being born as a talking conceptual animal, who is able to project conceptual meaning into the world, a world that I just suddenly woke up to, and had no hand in making that appearance happen whatoever. So it's not like I am forced or obliged to say to myself, ok this is amazing thanks universe I am so grateful and honored and humbled to be here, thanks for making me I am forever in your debt. No, I can say no thanks, this is not for me...but does that make me an insane person, no, it makes me me, and there's nothing wrong with being me, and if others have a problem with me, then that's their problem not mine.
WHEN, and IF, 'you' EVER STOP making ASSUMPTIONS and PRESUMING 'things', then, one day, 'you' MIGHT just come to ACTUALLY UNDERSTAND what I am ACTUALLY SAYING, and MEANING.
Dontaskme wrote: ↑Tue Nov 22, 2022 8:39 am
I just live life my way, and that's all that matters to me. I'm the one who has to live my life no one else, and how I live my life is of no one elses business.
If 'you' are ABUSING "others", then how 'you' are living so-called 'your life' IS the business of "others".
Dontaskme wrote: ↑Tue Nov 22, 2022 8:39 am
I'm only insane if I give myself permission to be so.
Is this clarification enough for you, or would you like more clarification?
LOL
'you' are NOT even CLOSE to what I was TALKING ABOUT and MEANING.