Re: Body Language
Posted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 3:47 pm
Great, AS, let me know if you come across it stateside.artisticsolution wrote:Interesting about the repeating pattern Pluto, I will be more aware of it now and get back to you. Perhaps the sniffing thing is just a guy thing or maybe not done here? I dunno...but I will look out for it. One thing I have noticed about men here is they seem to take up alot of room as opposed to women. Like when you see a guy sitting he usually has his legs spread wide and arms out to take up the most amount of seat available....esp is it is a bench. When you see a woman sitting in the US she usually sits with her hands folded and her legs crossed...she appears to just take up less space.
In my youth...when I was looking to mate with a man in order to have my babies...I would sit in a feminine way...arms folded on my lap and legs crossed...but I was not aware I was doing it at the time...perhaps I was more timid. Now I am more confident in my place in the world. I have had my children, I have my wonderful husband (who is the only man alive who could put up with me) and I am not really aware of a "force" driving me...but I have to admit this is all in hindsight...I did not know this to be the case when I was young...meaning I was unaware that is what I was doing...i.e. being on my 'best' behavior actively looking for a "good" father for my future children.
I am definitely more aggressive now...and I do believe it is because I am not trying to impress anyone into loving me. In fact, I think I will try the sniffing thing...as I have already done the winking thing in my life...lol. I will see how a man reacts when a WOman passing by gives him a sniff...lol. I will let you know what happens...might be fun.
maybe, perhaps, it's a pathetic habbit to some but, i sniff my children. i sniff the top of their heads. i've always sniffed my sniiffy's.
