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I'd like to think that I'm only partially reprehensible.accelafine wrote: ↑Thu May 08, 2025 8:46 am If that woman asked you for money again you would probably sell your mother into slavery to get it or pawn off your organs. It's so obvious
Because I want the results to change into what I want them to be.accelafine wrote: ↑Thu May 08, 2025 8:38 amYes, but you keep insisting that you will make the SAME 'choices' again if the opportunity arises. So why complain about it then?Gary Childress wrote: ↑Thu May 08, 2025 8:35 amI think it mostly implies that I made all the wrong choices and now I'm screwed. Not that anyone else should care one way or the other.Walker wrote: ↑Thu May 08, 2025 8:23 am https://images.fineartamerica.com/image ... yshire.jpg
- What the link doesn’t say, but what life implies, is that when girls become women they will eventually just want selfless kindness. This implies that for the giver, kindness is its own reward.
- The link could also be about the beginnings of gender dysphoria.
Is it unconditional if one was hoping for a relationship?Gary Childress wrote: ↑Thu May 08, 2025 5:55 amI thought unconditional love would prevail in the end
Murcof, Truffaz, Singh @ MontreuxGary Childress wrote: ↑Thu May 08, 2025 8:30 amI see it as an old man watching as his clock runs out, as he moves further and further away from the happier pursuits of youth. It has a somber meaning to me, perhaps that's no surprise.
Not really true. Complain to those who care what you're complaining about. Most people are not down because of your complaints; it's simply somewhat strange why you continuously advertise your existential dilemmas and always bring god into it as if desperately and deliberately seeking for a scapegoat. This is not new. In the bible there's a ritual for scape-goating.Gary Childress wrote: ↑Thu May 08, 2025 8:00 am I guess I complain too much. I suppose it brings other people down. I should probably hold my tongue and take it to the grave with me, instead of spreading it around.
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Give it some time.Gary Childress wrote: ↑Thu May 08, 2025 8:55 amI have very little idea what any of that means.Walker wrote: ↑Thu May 08, 2025 8:40 amThis gives rise to the concept and manifestation of, refuge.Gary Childress wrote: ↑Thu May 08, 2025 8:35 am I think it mostly implies that I made all the wrong choices and now I'm screwed. Not that anyone else should care one way or the other.
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From what, for what, and how.
I don't regret giving her help; if I did, I wouldn't say that I'd do the same thing over again. If she asks for more and I have the ability to help her out, I will. What you see is disappointment that, in the end, my efforts mean very little as far as I'm aware. The cosmos will do its own thing, and I will live with it whether I like it or not. I care about her and I hope the best for her. I wish she were a larger part of my life and I a larger part of hers. I don't think she's a devious plotting person, I think she's just not as interested in me as I am in her. That's understandable. I probably wouldn't be interested in me either if I were her. If love could move mountains then it would, but the only time mountains move is when there are earthquakes and usually a lot of casualties. Human emotions and feelings don't mean squat. I wish they did.
Great line and so true.Gary Childress wrote: ↑Thu May 08, 2025 3:42 pm
If love could move mountains then it would, but the only time mountains move is when there are earthquakes and usually a lot of casualties.
That's because humans themselves don't mean squat within the greater order of things. Why should it!Gary Childress wrote: ↑Thu May 08, 2025 3:42 pmHuman emotions and feelings don't mean squat. I wish they did.
If she wasn't someone you want to have sex with would you be giving her all your money? FFS. Who are you kidding? A better line to use would be 'Can't buy me love....'Gary Childress wrote: ↑Thu May 08, 2025 3:42 pmI don't regret giving her help; if I did, I wouldn't say that I'd do the same thing over again. If she asks for more and I have the ability to help her out, I will. What you see is disappointment that, in the end, my efforts mean very little as far as I'm aware. The cosmos will do its own thing, and I will live with it whether I like it or not. I care about her and I hope the best for her. I wish she were a larger part of my life and I a larger part of hers. I don't think she's a devious plotting person, I think she's just not as interested in me as I am in her. That's understandable. I probably wouldn't be interested in me either if I were her. If love could move mountains then it would, but the only time mountains move is when there are earthquakes and usually a lot of casualties. Human emotions and feelings don't mean squat. I wish they did.
She excites me. So, no, I wouldn't be bending over backwards for her affection if she weren't attractive to me. However, very few women are attractive to me. I'm interested in romantic love. I'm not out to breed children or start a family. I'm not cut out for it, and the world is probably better off with me not doing that. I just want to be able to look forward to someone's company once in a while and have some fun with them.accelafine wrote: ↑Thu May 08, 2025 7:00 pmIf she wasn't someone you want to have sex with would you be giving her all your money? FFS. Who are you kidding? A better line to use would be 'Can't buy me love....'Gary Childress wrote: ↑Thu May 08, 2025 3:42 pmI don't regret giving her help; if I did, I wouldn't say that I'd do the same thing over again. If she asks for more and I have the ability to help her out, I will. What you see is disappointment that, in the end, my efforts mean very little as far as I'm aware. The cosmos will do its own thing, and I will live with it whether I like it or not. I care about her and I hope the best for her. I wish she were a larger part of my life and I a larger part of hers. I don't think she's a devious plotting person, I think she's just not as interested in me as I am in her. That's understandable. I probably wouldn't be interested in me either if I were her. If love could move mountains then it would, but the only time mountains move is when there are earthquakes and usually a lot of casualties. Human emotions and feelings don't mean squat. I wish they did.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=srwxJUXPHvE
Then it's hardly 'unconditional'. You really are a sitting duck.Gary Childress wrote: ↑Thu May 08, 2025 9:31 pmShe excites me. So, no, I wouldn't be bending over backwards for her affection if she weren't attractive to me. However, very few women are attractive to me. I'm interested in romantic love. I'm not out to breed children or start a family. I'm not cut out for it, and the world is probably better off with me not doing that. I just want to be able to look forward to someone's company once in a while and have some fun with them.accelafine wrote: ↑Thu May 08, 2025 7:00 pmIf she wasn't someone you want to have sex with would you be giving her all your money? FFS. Who are you kidding? A better line to use would be 'Can't buy me love....'Gary Childress wrote: ↑Thu May 08, 2025 3:42 pm
I don't regret giving her help; if I did, I wouldn't say that I'd do the same thing over again. If she asks for more and I have the ability to help her out, I will. What you see is disappointment that, in the end, my efforts mean very little as far as I'm aware. The cosmos will do its own thing, and I will live with it whether I like it or not. I care about her and I hope the best for her. I wish she were a larger part of my life and I a larger part of hers. I don't think she's a devious plotting person, I think she's just not as interested in me as I am in her. That's understandable. I probably wouldn't be interested in me either if I were her. If love could move mountains then it would, but the only time mountains move is when there are earthquakes and usually a lot of casualties. Human emotions and feelings don't mean squat. I wish they did.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=srwxJUXPHvE
Yes. That's all true.accelafine wrote: ↑Thu May 08, 2025 10:41 pmThen it's hardly 'unconditional'. You really are a sitting duck.Gary Childress wrote: ↑Thu May 08, 2025 9:31 pmShe excites me. So, no, I wouldn't be bending over backwards for her affection if she weren't attractive to me. However, very few women are attractive to me. I'm interested in romantic love. I'm not out to breed children or start a family. I'm not cut out for it, and the world is probably better off with me not doing that. I just want to be able to look forward to someone's company once in a while and have some fun with them.accelafine wrote: ↑Thu May 08, 2025 7:00 pm
If she wasn't someone you want to have sex with would you be giving her all your money? FFS. Who are you kidding? A better line to use would be 'Can't buy me love....'
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=srwxJUXPHvE
Really? That's possible I suppose. Perhaps others don't vent their shortcomings and end up with repressed frustrations that eat them up inside, maybe? I mean, venting makes me feel more authentic and grounded with reality? That seems beneficial.accelafine wrote: ↑Fri May 09, 2025 12:13 am If the truth be told, you could well be the happiest person on here. Most people don't like to display their misery, or believe that women exist to provide their 'happiness'.
