carlafeit wrote: ↑Tue Feb 25, 2025 6:55 pm
So I am a girl and I have a number three brush cut and dress like a guy. This sometimes confuses people who are not sure if I am a guy or a girl, and sometimes they act weird about it, and say I would like a lot prettier with longer hair and so forth.
But guys who have long hair and dress like girls get serious hate - i.e. the kind of hate that can get your face stomped on late at night (or even not so late) if you are not careful.
Why is this?
Well, I have always understood, that if I want to know what a tree thinks, I ask a particular tree. Or, if I want to know what a particular rock thinks, I ask a rock. Now, these are inanimate objects, just as much as a general category is actually inanimate simply because one can never get a particular answer from something that is not alive. Generalization always removes the concept of life when not used correctly.
Personally, never thought of dressing like a girl. I look at people as what they are, a mind. Now, I have never had any problem getting laid, so why should I imagine that what is important about women is how the do their hair or cloths, or any decorative work on their body, I take exception to tatoos on anybody, regardless of gender; it is so disrespectful of the body.
So, to make a long story short, How in the hell can anyone actually answer your question, much less honestly?
Relation to self is inadmissible. It is not the body which changes because of our literacy or illiteracy. People lie when they say that we have a life choice, when factually we are born as potentially the most powerful life support system possible.
Personally, a woman who dresses for work, is one of the most beautiful of women.
So, tell us, are you saying that you have a mental problem like male cross dressers, or do you dress because we are born to work?
Male cross dressers are simply an insult to women.
It is not so much what someone does, one must enquire why they do it. Why do people dress this way or that, for example, I imagine that the Kilt, a man's dress, is fashionable because it was designed for the battlefield, I mean, after all, the purpose of battle is to fuck the hell out of the enemy, and a kilt makes that easier.
So, do you dress because of your own behavior, or do you dress to incite a behavior in others? And if it is to incite behavior from others, you have no cause to bitch that it was not a behavior you wanted.
