Nature of Love

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Anark
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Love is one of the most profound, complex, and debated human experiences. It doesn't have a single definition, because it takes many forms—romantic, familial, platonic, self-love, and even universal or divine love.

Well let's just talk about your first crush who has rejected you but you still like her because of influence which were made by your fantasies and irrational rumour about love that it's something pure .And in the act of chemicals changes u start feeling an attraction about that particular person and...., nevermind the main point is that even if u are acting just as you are in love and you are now really in love. That's what make the love more special even if you in love or not just the more u spend time for that person even just by thinking .you make special place in your brain for that person and then you got the idea about love. In short you got a mix of emotional closeness, physical attraction, and a desire to share life deeply with that person.

Also about familiar love a strong, unconditional bond based on care, protection, and deep-rooted connection. Which were expressed for family and friends.This type of love is something more special ,love without more expectations and with more possession,if you really experienced this type of love for any person so that means you just expect from them to be happy which could make u happy to.The reflection of there happiness which shines into your heart that what the only expection should be.



This are what two types of love i had experience..,

It would be pleasure to mine to know your thoughts about "LOVE "
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Anark wrote: Fri Jun 06, 2025 7:02 pm Love is one of the most profound, complex, and debated human experiences. It doesn't have a single definition, because it takes many forms—romantic, familial, platonic, self-love, and even universal or divine love.

Well let's just talk about your first crush who has rejected you but you still like her because of influence which were made by your fantasies and irrational rumour about love that it's something pure .And in the act of chemicals changes u start feeling an attraction about that particular person and...., nevermind the main point is that even if u are acting just as you are in love and you are now really in love. That's what make the love more special even if you in love or not just the more u spend time for that person even just by thinking .you make special place in your brain for that person and then you got the idea about love. In short you got a mix of emotional closeness, physical attraction, and a desire to share life deeply with that person.

Also about familiar love a strong, unconditional bond based on care, protection, and deep-rooted connection. Which were expressed for family and friends.This type of love is something more special ,love without more expectations and with more possession,if you really experienced this type of love for any person so that means you just expect from them to be happy which could make u happy to.The reflection of there happiness which shines into your heart that what the only expection should be.



This are what two types of love i had experience..,

It would be pleasure to mine to know your thoughts about "LOVE "
The attachment to a percieved identity in oneself or in others and the process and means by which to maintain this percieved identity so to avoid an interior sense of chaos or dissolusionment as to what or even if security and purpose exists.

This is the average subconscious human notion of it.

People need love for things to make sense, without it the percievable world becomes morphing forms of schizophrenia.
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Love is a decision - not an emotion. Lao Tzu
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There are two kinds of love – emotional and rational. Emotional love is the state of deep attachment to a fellow human being caused by a combination of chemicals specifically testosterone, estrogen, adrenalin, dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin, and vasopressin. (Thoughty2 You tube video)

Rational love is the act of doing something for the good of another person.
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Jori wrote: Sun Oct 26, 2025 2:28 am There are two kinds of love – emotional and rational. Emotional love is the state of deep attachment to a fellow human being caused by a combination of chemicals, specifically testosterone, estrogen, adrenaline, dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin, and vasopressin. (Thoughty2 YouTube video)

Rational love is the act of doing something for the good of another person.
I agree, also, it is much easier to discern love when sex is not a consideration. Love, I believe, is close to perfect sympathy for the trials and tribulations of another soul, with or without sex.
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Jori wrote: Sun Oct 26, 2025 2:28 am There are two kinds of love – emotional and rational. Emotional love is the state of deep attachment to a fellow human being caused by a combination of chemicals specifically testosterone, estrogen, adrenalin, dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin, and vasopressin. (Thoughty2 You tube video)

Rational love is the act of doing something for the good of another person.
"Rational love is the act of doing something for the good of another person."

Doing something good for the other person sounds like Platonic love.
Romantic love often knows, during or after the loving, when it’s destructive.
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Love is for bad tennis players

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Impenitent wrote: Wed Nov 05, 2025 1:53 pm Love is for bad tennis players

-Imp
40-15 is a bad score for men.
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Sexuality needs to be considered separately from love, not that they are mutually exclusive, but sex greatly complicates and creates confusion. Sex is basically involuntary; it is the will of the species ensuring the species pattern continues through time, the individual organism the focal point of that process. Love, I would say, is caring deeply for the survival and well-being of another creature; in a healthy family, this happens automatically. Sex and love do not necessarily complement one another. Most relationships that are taken for love have a whole host of preconditions that are met before the decision is made to care for another, and if the conditions met, fall away so does the love. Love is quiet and sympathetic,
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popeye1945 wrote: Mon Apr 13, 2026 12:54 pm
Regarding love: few things in life are as profound as powerful, beautiful, independent, happy and accomplished descendants, children and grandchildren, who compete for the love and attention of their parents by showering them with love and concern. Adult daughters especially, for they know the ways of food and basic comforts for old bones. The point is, these things and their importance is something learned.
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Walker wrote: Mon Apr 13, 2026 2:39 pm
popeye1945 wrote: Mon Apr 13, 2026 12:54 pm
Regarding love: few things in life are as profound as powerful, beautiful, independent, happy, and accomplished descendants, children, and grandchildren, who compete for the love and attention of their parents by showering them with love and concern. Adult daughters especially, for they know the ways of food and basic comforts for old bones. The point is, these things and their importance is something learned.
Walker,
Interesting, I never really thought of them as learned, not sure you're right there, is compassion learned, care learned, not sure myself.
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popeye1945 wrote: Mon Apr 13, 2026 9:59 pm Walker,
Interesting, I never really thought of them as learned, not sure you're right there, is compassion learned, care learned, not sure myself.
Receiving a beloved, adult offspring’s compassion and care can be intellectually learned through need, but it's understood with the addition of the experience.
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waechter418 wrote: Mon Sep 29, 2025 6:18 pm Love is a decision - not an emotion. Lao Tzu
That seems to be true. Too often love is confused with lust. In fact I seem to confuse the two the most often. I suppose lust is much more fun than love is.
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Gary Childress wrote: Wed Apr 15, 2026 2:42 am
waechter418 wrote: Mon Sep 29, 2025 6:18 pm Love is a decision - not an emotion. Lao Tzu
That seems to be true. Too often love is confused with lust. In fact I seem to confuse the two the most often. I suppose lust is much more fun than love is.
The Holy Bible tells you what love is.

As long as you're going to pick and choose from The Holy Bible, pick that.
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