We can be who we think (or know) we are in any context or circumstance. We can be whoever others want us to be. Or whatever description fits the purpose of the communication. Especially, online.Impenitent wrote: ↑Thu Nov 06, 2025 2:31 pm 'can you be who you think you are, described and understood, in a language you don't speak?' - Imp
I don't understand the question. What do you mean by a 'language you don't speak'?
when you tell yourself (or anyone else) who you think you are, you do so in language you understand.
you are limited to the extent of said language
if you understand more than one language, are you who you are in language A as well as who you are in language B?
the meanings may overlap, but they are not identical- same is true for the audiences
you may be who you think you are (and described and communicated as such) in English or French, but maybe not in Mandarin...
-Imp
It is more difficult to fit into the skin or role of another in real-life. It is not only language that limits how we project or present to an 'audience'.
I can imagine Gary being or acting out various selves in any language. A specific audience would see and hear what they expect to.
As a philosophy or psychology professor teaching students or speaking at a conference, he would use the language and concepts of that field. If there is a chance of misunderstanding, then he might simplify. He is unlikely to describe himself as an undercover cop and killer. Parts of our self are not always revealed. We can even fool ourselves if we adopt the role of victim.
Interesting to discover that the film is based on a true story. Gary existed in real life.
https://www.forbes.com/sites/monicamerc ... y-johnson/
When we learn a foreign language, we first describe ourselves in basic biographical terms. Fairly easy to be that single dimension figure. Meaning can be checked by questions. Then we might get to the point where we not only speak the language but think and dream in it. That might result from full immersion in a foreign culture. Multi-dimensional.
If you stay in Italy long enough, do you become Italian?