Fairy wrote: ↑Wed Sep 24, 2025 12:29 pm
Eodnhoj7 wrote: ↑Wed Sep 24, 2025 10:56 am
Age wrote: ↑Wed Sep 24, 2025 10:54 am
Once again, for the very slow of learners, here, or for those who have not yet read 'my words' where I have already stated, I am not, here, in this forum, to be necessarily understood by you posters, here.
I am, here, to learn how to communicate better, with you human beings.
So being understood is not necessary and yet you desire to communicate better with this communication on your part not being necessary to understand for others?
Communication is a language tool that connects individuals and facilitates the exchange of ideas, it is the depth of understanding that truly enriches these interactions. Communication is good, it can be deep or shallow,but understanding is everything.
Yes, once understanding '
understanding', itself, is obtained, then this is when human beings really 'take off', in evolutionary terms, and really move forward and progress in fulfilling 'the One unified dream' of every human being's want and desire.
And, once 'i' learn how to communicate, better, how 'all of this' can be achieved, and reached, and in its most Truly simple and easy way, with 'you', human beings, then 'you' all can really begin creating, and thus begin living, in peace and harmony with one another together, as a Unified One.
Fairy wrote: ↑Wed Sep 24, 2025 12:29 pm
You either understand what’s being communicated by others or you don’t. You can’t force people to understand your communication techniques. Similarly, you can’t expect people to understand your communication either, they will or they won’t.
What I have found is that it is only through asking questions, from a Truly open perspective, for clarification sake, to the best and most efficient way of communication to Truly understand what another is really meaning.
However, as can be seen and proved throughout this forum getting 'others' to just 'open up' and being 'forth coming' in just providing actual clarification in what they mean is not some thing that 'these people' will readily do. However, because I already fully understand how and why 'they' are 'the way' that 'they are', then it is just a process of 'waiting patiently' until 'they' want to communicate with 'me' better.
Again, 'I' am, here, just wanting to learn how to communicate better. I am just waiting until I present words in the 'Right way' in which people feel totally comfortable to be open and honest when they respond to me and when they just answer 'my questions' to clarify 'their views and positions. in other words I am just 'waiting', here, until I find the 'Right words', and until I find the 'Right way' to present 'those words.
Fairy wrote: ↑Wed Sep 24, 2025 12:29 pm
If one has already made their mind up that Age is not worth talking to then all communication is blocked and made impossible. Only if you really want to communicate with someone will understanding come, or it won’t. Better communication is when people are willing to work together in communication, and not be against the other, or with each other.
Very True. However, and very sadly, through a very ill-gotten 'education system' you people were 'taught' to pick "sides" and 'fight' for and/or against "sides". you were all also 'taught' that 'not yet knowing' things was wrong, bad, and punishable, you were all 'taught' to judge, ridicule, and to humiliate 'those' who were 'different', 'not as good/smart', and who did not 'fit in'. So, you all have a tendency to just not admit when you do not, yet, know some thing, and so you all pretend to 'know' more than you really do, and you all tend to never 'stray away' from what you were 'taught' to believe is true. And, so you all have some level of desire to 'fit in' by 'trying to' form 'groups', creating a 'us' versus 'them' attitude and to just keep believing the 'same words' that you were 'taught' to believe is absolutely true. For example, 'look at' how long it took 'that one' to just communicate, better, the Fact that, actually, the sun did not revolve around the sun, and it was, in fact, the other way around.
Even though 'that one' was just trying to communicate, better, an actual Truth, it was because of people's prior ill-gotten 'teachings', and of being 'taught' to believe some things to be 'absolutely true', why it took so, so long for 'those human beings' to 'catch up' and 'learn' what the actual Truth of things, were/are.
Fairy wrote: ↑Wed Sep 24, 2025 12:29 pm
When two people are only really wanting and willing to work together, only then will understanding come, and it’ll come naturally of it’s own accord.
Again, very, very True.
Fairy wrote: ↑Wed Sep 24, 2025 12:29 pm
Understanding is not something you can teach another until they are ready to understand. It’s something that automatically happens spontaneously, actually.
Once you people, and human beings, learn, and 'understand', who and what 'you' are, exactly, and, how and why 'you' all do exactly what 'you do', then an understanding of '
understanding', itself, is revealed, and from this '
understanding', itself, actual 'wisdom' for everything else also is revealed, and understood, as well.
So, once
'understanding', itself, is fully and Truly understood, then you human beings move out of the 'human being' stage, in Life, and up to the next evolutionary stage, and level, of Life, and living, Itself.
Fairy wrote: ↑Wed Sep 24, 2025 12:29 pm
That’s if you’re open enough to allow others to communicate with you in the first place, instead of just shutting them down, or writing them off as pointless, as many of you do with Age in this forum.
I have noticed you all do it with 'each other' as well, not just with "age", itself.
Fairy wrote: ↑Wed Sep 24, 2025 12:29 pm
Understanding is everything. When one thing is known, everything is known.
It could be said, and argued, that one '
understanding', of "one's" 'Self', Itself, is known, then everything else can and does become known, and much simpler and much easier I will add.