Gary Childress wrote: ↑Thu Aug 14, 2025 10:20 pm
seeds wrote: ↑Thu Aug 14, 2025 10:11 pm
Gary Childress wrote: ↑Thu Aug 14, 2025 9:30 pm
I'm grateful for food to eat, a bed to sleep in, and a roof over my head. Does that make you happy? It doesn't seem to have made me happy.
I'm guessing that you'd be wandering around the cruel streets at an even deeper level of unhappiness than you are now if the opposite (as in no roof, no bed, no food) was your status, No?
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Absolutely, yes. What about it? Is survival all that matters?
This isn't rocket science, Gary.
"...What about it?..." is that "it" (having food, a bed, and a roof over your head) has indeed made you happy, or at least "happier" than you would have been without those things.
And I mean you no offense, for I haven't walked a mile in your proverbial moccasins,...
...but if you are hoping to find a woman whom you would love to be around and who would love to be around you, then don't you think it would help if you stopped broadcasting to the world how much you hate being alive?
How attractive do you suppose that might be to the opposite sex (or to anyone, for that matter)?
Even if you can't imagine changing your attitude toward life, then how about for the sake (and sanity) of this adoring woman you hope to find, you simply
pretend that being alive is a good thing? You know, the old
"fake it till you make it" sort of approach.
Anyway, perhaps you should start out by adopting a sweet little puppy dog.

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