Why do guys who dress as girls get so much hate but not the other way around?

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Phil8659 wrote: Mon Mar 31, 2025 4:08 pm So, to make a long story short, How in the hell can anyone actually answer your question, much less honestly?
I can. But must wait till the proper moon 🌖 sign.
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Alexis Jacobi wrote: Mon Mar 31, 2025 4:37 pm
Phil8659 wrote: Mon Mar 31, 2025 4:08 pm So, to make a long story short, How in the hell can anyone actually answer your question, much less honestly?
I can. But must wait till the proper moon 🌖 sign.
Just like I said, you are waiting for a big talking rock.
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Phil8659 wrote: Mon Mar 31, 2025 4:08 pm
carlafeit wrote: Tue Feb 25, 2025 6:55 pm So I am a girl and I have a number three brush cut and dress like a guy. This sometimes confuses people who are not sure if I am a guy or a girl, and sometimes they act weird about it, and say I would like a lot prettier with longer hair and so forth.

But guys who have long hair and dress like girls get serious hate - i.e. the kind of hate that can get your face stomped on late at night (or even not so late) if you are not careful.

Why is this?
Well, I have always understood, that if I want to know what a tree thinks, I ask a particular tree. Or, if I want to know what a particular rock thinks, I ask a rock. Now, these are inanimate objects, just as much as a general category is actually inanimate simply because one can never get a particular answer from something that is not alive. Generalization always removes the concept of life when not used correctly.

Personally, never thought of dressing like a girl. I look at people as what they are, a mind. Now, I have never had any problem getting laid, so why should I imagine that what is important about women is how the do their hair or cloths, or any decorative work on their body, I take exception to tatoos on anybody, regardless of gender; it is so disrespectful of the body.

So, to make a long story short, How in the hell can anyone actually answer your question, much less honestly?

Relation to self is inadmissible. It is not the body which changes because of our literacy or illiteracy. People lie when they say that we have a life choice, when factually we are born as potentially the most powerful life support system possible.

Personally, a woman who dresses for work, is one of the most beautiful of women.

So, tell us, are you saying that you have a mental problem like male cross dressers, or do you dress because we are born to work?
Male cross dressers are simply an insult to women.

It is not so much what someone does, one must enquire why they do it. Why do people dress this way or that, for example, I imagine that the Kilt, a man's dress, is fashionable because it was designed for the battlefield, I mean, after all, the purpose of battle is to fuck the hell out of the enemy, and a kilt makes that easier.
Good points. Transvestites are only interested in mocking, parodying and 'superseding' women. They have no interest in wearing kilts--a very male garment.
Carlafeit is known in the industry as a handmaiden. A female who feels that it's more important to pander to the demands of entitled male perverts than it is to stand up for her own rights as a woman.
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accelafine wrote: Mon Mar 31, 2025 4:47 pm
Good points. Transvestites are only interested in mocking and parodying women. They have no interest in wearing kilts--a very male garment.
Carlafeit is known in the industry as a handmaiden. A female who feels that it's more important to pander to the needs of entitled male perverts than it is to stand up for her own rights as a woman.
I would agree with you except for the fact that humans are defined by the mind, and there is no such thing in the definition of mind, which recognizes gender, nationality, geographic location, religion or belief. What may be predicated of anything is wholly determined by the definition of that things.

Women's rights, marshmallow rights, etc, is just as delusional.
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Imagine being on this site and expecting a sane and reasonable response. You are going to be sorely disappointed every time. A flicker of light will be extinguished immediately after it appears. Hope becomes resignation in the blink of an eye. Sigh.
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accelafine wrote: Mon Mar 31, 2025 5:00 pm Imagine being on this site and expecting a sane and reasonable response. You are going to be sorely disappointed every time. A flicker of light will be extinguished immediately after it appears. Hope becomes resignation in the blink of an eye. Sigh.
I am now 75 years old. Humans have always disappointed me when I expect more than what I get, but the same is living with children, you don't give up trying to raise them.

For example, take our Constitution, by the people and for the people.
What it means is that no government law, by any official, can divide the meaning of the word person, yet they do it anyway.

every amendment to the constitution has, by definition, been an act of treason.
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Yeah, whatever you say old timer :|
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accelafine wrote: Mon Mar 31, 2025 5:12 pm Yeah, whatever you say old timer :|
Still using emoticons, like a child?
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Phil8659 wrote: Mon Mar 31, 2025 5:14 pm
accelafine wrote: Mon Mar 31, 2025 5:12 pm Yeah, whatever you say old timer :|
Still using emoticons, like a child?
Children use this site? I thought it was mostly senile old men like you. Oops. Apparently I have to be nice to you because you're a man and I'm a woman :shock:
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accelafine wrote: Mon Mar 31, 2025 5:19 pm
Phil8659 wrote: Mon Mar 31, 2025 5:14 pm
accelafine wrote: Mon Mar 31, 2025 5:12 pm Yeah, whatever you say old timer :|
Still using emoticons, like a child?
Children use this site? I thought it was mostly senile old men like you. Oops. Apparently I have to be nice to you because you're a man and I'm a woman :shock:
Senility is the loss of mental ability. That can never be applied to people who, like you, never had any.
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Phil8659 wrote: Mon Mar 31, 2025 5:27 pm
accelafine wrote: Mon Mar 31, 2025 5:19 pm
Phil8659 wrote: Mon Mar 31, 2025 5:14 pm

Still using emoticons, like a child?
Children use this site? I thought it was mostly senile old men like you. Oops. Apparently I have to be nice to you because you're a man and I'm a woman :shock:
Senility is the loss of mental ability. That can never be applied to people who, like you, never had any.
Whatever you say, old timer ❤️
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accelafine wrote: Mon Mar 31, 2025 5:31 pm
Phil8659 wrote: Mon Mar 31, 2025 5:27 pm
accelafine wrote: Mon Mar 31, 2025 5:19 pm

Children use this site? I thought it was mostly senile old men like you. Oops. Apparently I have to be nice to you because you're a man and I'm a woman :shock:
Senility is the loss of mental ability. That can never be applied to people who, like you, never had any.
Whatever you say, old timer❤️
giving a ❤️ to me is a total waste of your time. Better women than you learnt this.
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Phil8659 wrote: Mon Mar 31, 2025 5:34 pm
accelafine wrote: Mon Mar 31, 2025 5:31 pm
Phil8659 wrote: Mon Mar 31, 2025 5:27 pm

Senility is the loss of mental ability. That can never be applied to people who, like you, never had any.
Whatever you say, old timer❤️
giving a ❤️ to me is a total waste of your time. Better women than you learnt this.
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accelafine wrote: Mon Mar 31, 2025 4:47 pm Good points. Transvestites are only interested in mocking, parodying and 'superseding' women. They have no interest in wearing kilts--a very male garment.
Carlafeit is known in the industry as a handmaiden. A female who feels that it's more important to pander to the demands of entitled male perverts than it is to stand up for her own rights as a woman.
Is that what the famous Canadian fentanyl does to the brain?

Or just regular all-American glue?
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Age wrote: Sun Mar 30, 2025 2:16 pm Why did you use the 'unsolicited' word, here?

It could come across as you were not open to the 'friendly feedback' from others.
What would be an appropriate word?

I am open to some feedback, from some people, some of the time - which is true of just about anyone.

Strange men telling me that if dressed more feminine and grew out my hair I would look very pretty - not really open to that very much. If I am work I will maintain a professional demeanor and try to redirect the conversation towards them buying a circular saw or something.
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