Video: Why Chinese Beautiful Women Ignore Good Men and Are Attracted to the 'Wrong' Ones?

[Eodnhoj7]

The video:

Why Chinese Beautiful Women Ignore Good Men and Are Attracted to the 'Wrong' Ones?

Traditionally, a young Chinese woman would get her family to vet and approve any man interested in her. She would not make this kind of choices alone. Nowadays, a modern Chinese woman makes the choices by herself without family input. Consequently, she typically racks up lots of damaging experiences with a string of "bad boys".

When a modern Chinese woman finally tires of the "bad boys", she often resorts to paying a match maker to find a husband for her. In the video, they interview one of these match makers. The match maker says that the biggest problem she has, is that her typical client finds the "honest men" that she introduces, to be boring. Her client misses the excitement of the "bad boys". She confuses love with emotional chaos. She understands that she should not try to marry a "bad boy". She actually knows that she "needs" an honest man for marriage but in fact she does not "want" one.

Modern Chinese women seem to have many of the same problems as modern western women.

I saw the title and thought "this looks interesting, I have heard people say this before".

My thoughts on the matter, and these are subject to change like all things in life:


The truth is women just want to have fun...they are not that complicated. If you can make them laugh and are interesting in conversation while knowing what to do physically you have 99 percent of it down.

In all the successes and failures I have had in personal relationships with women and what I seen as well in the relationships of others, ranging in the various sorts of relationships types of friends, family and romance, I have had the conclusion, which I will admit is quite subject to change, that women do not realize that the majority of the time they overvalue themselves and are more often than not dramatic burdens that offer little of anything but short term gratification.


To me, I feel bad and pity the majority of them...and I pity the men weak enough to put up with the drama and pity the narcissists for living barren lives.

The video is right in pointing out the deficiencies of honest and dishonest men and I really don't think women are in a good position in regards to the availability of men for them...if both sides of the coin are to be looked at.

Women are f"""ed because honest men are weak and strong men are exploitative.

Men are f"""ed because women are just draining and do not offer much other than a good night out for a short period of time and then become boring because of a repeated predictable need for drama.

Noone wins the game but rather everyone runs a treadmill until the point of collapse. Then time burns everyone away.

From a guy's perspective and lowering the bar to the absolute minimum of just basic interaction with women as a standard, not including friends/family/romance, I have run only into a literal handful of women in my life that where not some form of nightmare.

The first thought that comes to mind when I attract a woman is "what misery am I in for now". I walk into a gym, do some advanced yoga poses, five minutes later women are coming up to me showering me with compliments, I say "thanks" and just ignore them and continue doing what I am doing.


Maybe I am an a""hole...cool than I am an a""hole.

After all the relative successes and relative failures with women I have had over the years I have learned not to take them too seriously like an adult doesn't take the ramblings of a toddler to seriously. Just walk your own path with as little falsity as you can and let the consequences be damned. Whatever happens, happens.

People in general, and this obviously includes women, are a waste of time after a certain point of interaction.

Now this is the part where I get trolled or roasted for whatever...but I don't really care.

So you despise women for being 'kind' to you. When a woman is attracted to a man she doesn't shower him with compliments

I don't despise women at all, I just don't find their love valuable. It comes, it goes, it comes again, it goes again...etc.

I don't think you understand how I expected you to prove my point further, like you just did. Much appreciated for the teamwork. See men and women can work together, don't be so negative.

[godelian]

Perhaps 'godelian' is a bot too. He gives me the exact same responses

You both have exactly the same disease with exactly the same symptoms.

It is not just the previous guy who ghosted you. The next guy will also ghost you.

By incessantly making hateful comments, you incentivize any such romantic connection to stop interacting with you.

He has already had the sex, there are other lots of other women to get sex from, and it is simply not worth it, to keep enduring your unpleasant company.

It is not free of charge to talk shit. When no man wants to stay with you, spend his life with you, or raise children with you, then you are effectively a biological failure. That is why you have to learn to watch your big mouth. Look in the mirror, place a big sticker over your mouth, so that you can no longer open it, and biologically save yourself!

[Eodnhoj7]

Perhaps 'godelian' is a bot too. He gives me the exact same responses

You both have exactly the same disease with exactly the same symptoms.

It is not just the previous guy who ghosted you. The next guy will also ghost you.

By incessantly making hateful comments, you incentivize any such romantic connection to stop interacting with you.

He has already had the sex, there are other lots of other women to get sex from, and it is simply not worth it, to keep enduring your unpleasant company.

It is not free of charge to talk shit. When no man wants to stay with you, spend his life with you, or raise children with you, then you are effectively a biological failure. That is why you have to learn to watch your big mouth. Look in the mirror, place a big sticker over your mouth, so that you can no longer open it, and biologically save yourself!

I get the impression she is unhappy....

[accelafine]

I saw the title and thought "this looks interesting, I have heard people say this before".

My thoughts on the matter, and these are subject to change like all things in life:


The truth is women just want to have fun...they are not that complicated. If you can make them laugh and are interesting in conversation while knowing what to do physically you have 99 percent of it down.

In all the successes and failures I have had in personal relationships with women and what I seen as well in the relationships of others, ranging in the various sorts of relationships types of friends, family and romance, I have had the conclusion, which I will admit is quite subject to change, that women do not realize that the majority of the time they overvalue themselves and are more often than not dramatic burdens that offer little of anything but short term gratification.


To me, I feel bad and pity the majority of them...and I pity the men weak enough to put up with the drama and pity the narcissists for living barren lives.

The video is right in pointing out the deficiencies of honest and dishonest men and I really don't think women are in a good position in regards to the availability of men for them...if both sides of the coin are to be looked at.

Women are f"""ed because honest men are weak and strong men are exploitative.

Men are f"""ed because women are just draining and do not offer much other than a good night out for a short period of time and then become boring because of a repeated predictable need for drama.

Noone wins the game but rather everyone runs a treadmill until the point of collapse. Then time burns everyone away.

From a guy's perspective and lowering the bar to the absolute minimum of just basic interaction with women as a standard, not including friends/family/romance, I have run only into a literal handful of women in my life that where not some form of nightmare.

The first thought that comes to mind when I attract a woman is "what misery am I in for now". I walk into a gym, do some advanced yoga poses, five minutes later women are coming up to me showering me with compliments, I say "thanks" and just ignore them and continue doing what I am doing.


Maybe I am an a""hole...cool than I am an a""hole.

After all the relative successes and relative failures with women I have had over the years I have learned not to take them too seriously like an adult doesn't take the ramblings of a toddler to seriously. Just walk your own path with as little falsity as you can and let the consequences be damned. Whatever happens, happens.

People in general, and this obviously includes women, are a waste of time after a certain point of interaction.

Now this is the part where I get trolled or roasted for whatever...but I don't really care.

So you despise women for being 'kind' to you. When a woman is attracted to a man she doesn't shower him with compliments

I don't despise women at all, I just don't find their love valuable. It comes, it goes, it comes again, it goes again...etc.

I don't think you understand how I expected you to prove my point further, like you just did. Much appreciated for the teamwork. See men and women can work together, don't be so negative.

Thanks for reinforcing my point. We all need to work together as a team

[accelafine]

Perhaps 'godelian' is a bot too. He gives me the exact same responses

You both have exactly the same disease with exactly the same symptoms.

It is not just the previous guy who ghosted you. The next guy will also ghost you.

By incessantly making hateful comments, you incentivize any such romantic connection to stop interacting with you.

He has already had the sex, there are other lots of other women to get sex from, and it is simply not worth it, to keep enduring your unpleasant company.

It is not free of charge to talk shit. When no man wants to stay with you, spend his life with you, or raise children with you, then you are effectively a biological failure. That is why you have to learn to watch your big mouth. Look in the mirror, place a big sticker over your mouth, so that you can no longer open it, and biologically save yourself!

I'm devastated that you don't find me attractive

[godelian]

I get the impression she is unhappy....

Well, it is all fine and dandy to be a strong independent woman who needs no man, until she eventually does anyway. That is why that particular life strategy works until it doesn't anymore.

In the meanwhile, they have learned to be obnoxious and to repel men. It is an exercise in sheer arrogance.

Furthermore, it is very hard to unlearn that behavior afterwards.

One single lapse, of saying something hateful, is invariably enough.

The man suddenly sees who she truly is, and quickly draws his conclusions. He is not coming back because he doesn't want to do that stuff all over again. Been there, done that already. One time is enough to learn his lesson. Seriously, never again.

Once the woman has said it, she cannot undo it.

They actually know that from experience. Unfortunately, they can't help it. They will say their obnoxious stuff anyway. The man will then leave, never to come back.

That is what always happens when a woman has a biologically destructive mouth. The shit is just waiting to spill out of that big annoying mouth. It's lurking there.

[Eodnhoj7]

So you despise women for being 'kind' to you. When a woman is attracted to a man she doesn't shower him with compliments

I don't despise women at all, I just don't find their love valuable. It comes, it goes, it comes again, it goes again...etc.

I don't think you understand how I expected you to prove my point further, like you just did. Much appreciated for the teamwork. See men and women can work together, don't be so negative.

Thanks for reinforcing my point. We all need to work together as a team

No thanks necessary, I am more than happy to give you a point your life never had.

[Eodnhoj7]

I get the impression she is unhappy....

Well, it is all fine and dandy to be a strong independent woman who needs no man, until she eventually does anyway. That is why that particular life strategy works until it doesn't anymore.

In the meanwhile, they have learned to be obnoxious and to repel men. It is an exercise in sheer arrogance.

Furthermore, it is very hard to unlearn that behavior afterwards.

One single lapse, of saying something hateful, is invariably enough.

The man suddenly sees who she truly is, and quickly draws his conclusions. He is not coming back because he doesn't want to do that stuff all over again. Been there, done that already. One time is enough to learn his lesson. Seriously, never again.

Once the woman has said it, she cannot undo it.

They actually know that from experience. Unfortunately, they can't help it. They will say their obnoxious stuff anyway. The man will then leave, never to come back.

That is what always happens when a woman has a biologically destructive mouth. The shit is just waiting to spill out of that big annoying mouth. It's lurking there.

Don't be so hard on her...there is nothing in her of value to be hard on.

[accelafine]

I don't despise women at all, I just don't find their love valuable. It comes, it goes, it comes again, it goes again...etc.

I don't think you understand how I expected you to prove my point further, like you just did. Much appreciated for the teamwork. See men and women can work together, don't be so negative.

Thanks for reinforcing my point. We all need to work together as a team

No thanks necessary, I am more than happy to give you a point your life never had.

[LuckyR]

Perhaps 'godelian' is a bot too. He gives me the exact same responses

You both have exactly the same disease with exactly the same symptoms.

It is not just the previous guy who ghosted you. The next guy will also ghost you.

By incessantly making hateful comments, you incentivize any such romantic connection to stop interacting with you.

He has already had the sex, there are other lots of other women to get sex from, and it is simply not worth it, to keep enduring your unpleasant company.

It is not free of charge to talk shit. When no man wants to stay with you, spend his life with you, or raise children with you, then you are effectively a biological failure. That is why you have to learn to watch your big mouth. Look in the mirror, place a big sticker over your mouth, so that you can no longer open it, and biologically save yourself!

If dudes have it all figured out, why does the incel thing exist?

[godelian]

If dudes have it all figured out, why does the incel thing exist?

There are lots of dudes who are complete failures at life.

In fact, dudes liberally admit this.

Absolutely no man will feel attacked if you say that lots of men are completely unsuitable for anything serious. In fact, men are the first ones to point out that there are lots of men that they would not like to see with their sister or with their daughter.

What is new in modern times, is the incredibly large number of women that I would not want to see with my brother or with my son.

Concerning incels, there are large numbers of men who fail in the sexual marketplace, because they can't get hold of sex.

There are also large numbers of women who fail in the sexual marketplace, because they cannot hold of commitment from a man.

Men and women chase different things in the sexual marketplace. Men want sex while women want a ring. Lots of men are not getting sex and lots of women are not getting a ring. In the West, the current level of failure is around 50% already, rapidly getting worse.

[Atla]

Perhaps 'godelian' is a bot too. He gives me the exact same responses

You both have exactly the same disease with exactly the same symptoms.

Not once in my entire life did I have a real man for a boyfriend. I wonder why that is.

[accelafine]

Creepy, degenerate, misogynistic muslim man can't attract women so assumes it's because he's 'too good'

How unattractive would someone need to be that they have to leave their own country just to find a sexual partner?

[godelian]

Don't be so hard on her...there is nothing in her of value to be hard on.

Creepy, degenerate, misogynistic muslim man can't attract women so assumes it's because he's 'too good'
How unattractive would someone need to be that they have to leave their own country just to find a sexual partner?

Am I hard on her? She has an utmost detestable mouth. That is why no man can suffer her for longer than the time it takes to figure that out. There is indeed nothing in her of value.

[Alexiev]

Am I hard on her? She has an utmost detestable mouth. That is why no man can suffer her for longer than the time it takes to figure that out. There is indeed nothing in her of value.

Message to godelian and accelefine: This is philosophy forum. Quit the shameless flirting!