BigMike wrote: ↑Sun Nov 10, 2024 11:45 pm
Age wrote: ↑Sun Nov 10, 2024 11:04 pm
And it is responses like these here which is, exactly, WHY human beings, back in the days when this was being written, took so very long to catch up. These responses SHOW and PROVE WHY 'the process' took so long
Have you noticed that you spend more time 'trying to' argue/fight for what you, 'currently', believe is true, while 'trying to' argue/fight against what is an actual impossibility anyway?
And, have you noticed that you, like every other adult human being in the days this is being written, who can communicate, does this also?
Instead of just focusing in finding and locating the 'root causes' to all of 'your issues and problems', you adult human beings much prefer to argue and fight for what you 'currently' presume and/or believe is true, rather than just uncovering the very things that are stopping and preventing you all from making 'the change', which all of you Truly want, and desire, anyway.
Instead of you adult human beings just 'choosing to make the change', which ALL children deserve, you adult human beings would prefer to argue, fight, and even KILL each other over nothing more than just your own unsubstantiated thoughts and 'beliefs', themselves.
Find 'the cause/s' of 'this very unhealthy and ill world', then you will have 'the solution/s' and 'formula/s' to making and creating a 'much better and healthier world', for every one, and especially for 'you adult human being's children's.
Located and find the 'root cause', and then you will, once and for ALL, have 'the remedy' to stop and prevent 'the sickness' from ever ever returning.
I understand the frustration with how deeply people hold onto their beliefs and how difficult it can be to make substantial changes in behavior and perspective. You’re pointing out a critical problem: people often focus on defending their current beliefs instead of questioning them and addressing the underlying causes of societal issues.
you speak and write here as though only 'others' often do this, and that you do not.
So, the frustration continues.
BigMike wrote: ↑Sun Nov 10, 2024 11:45 pm
On Arguing vs. Solving Problems
I see your point about how much energy we invest in defending our beliefs. It’s common because we’re wired to protect the views we’ve developed based on our experiences and conditioning.
Once more you do NOT 'need to' AT ALL. Although you obviously 'want to'.
Which, again, is because if your past experiences. But, once again, this is 'a reason', and NEVER 'an excuses'. As, again, there is NEVER EVER 'an excuse' for doing what is Wrong, in Life
BigMike wrote: ↑Sun Nov 10, 2024 11:45 pm
However, in order to solve societal issues, we need to shift focus from defending personal beliefs to investigating the roots of our behaviors and their larger impacts.
Exactly what I was more or less saying. But, 'blaming' any one thing for what you do, or do not do, except for 'self', as an adult human being, of course, is NOT the Right thing to do, in Life
BigMike wrote: ↑Sun Nov 10, 2024 11:45 pm
The Need for Radical Honesty and Inquiry
A healthier society would indeed benefit from people openly examining and admitting the root causes of behaviors—our fears, biases, and learned behaviors.
you, REALLY ARE, making this much, much slower than is necessary.
1. Every society just becomes naturally healthier if, and when, the adult human beings are being open and honest while seeking to change, for the better..
2. The 'root cause' for WHY all of you human beings 'are the way you all are', 'think the way that you all do', and 'behave the way you all do' is BECAUSE of past events, which are always pre-determining 'the future'.
Now, is there absolutely ANY one who just cannot admit 'the root cause', here?
If yes, then why can you not just admit this?
BigMike wrote: ↑Sun Nov 10, 2024 11:45 pm But this kind of honesty isn’t easy when society conditions us to avoid vulnerability and admit mistakes.
Once again, what can be seen here is another example of another adult human being 'trying to' 'blame' what human beings, alone, do in something else.
'Society', itself, is not some separate entity that can do any thing. 'Society' is solely because of and due to adult human beings, only.
Si, if 'society' is 'conditioning' you human beings to act or misbehave in Wrong ways, then this is, solely, because of what adult human beings have already created and/or are doing.
BigMike wrote: ↑Sun Nov 10, 2024 11:45 pm
The real challenge lies in creating an environment that allows for this openness without fear of judgment or punishment.
But this is not a 'challenge' at all.
Once you adult human beings learn WHY you Wrongly and unnecessarily judge and punish each other and the 'root cause' of WHY you do it, then you will know HOW to STOP doing it, and HOW to PREVENT "yourselves" from EVER doing it, again
BigMike wrote: ↑Sun Nov 10, 2024 11:45 pm
Finding Root Causes
You’re absolutely right that to create a genuinely healthier world, we must locate and understand the root causes of harmful behaviors.
And, obviously you can only fix 'a problem' after you firstly admit you have one. Just like you can only find the 'root cause' of your Wrong, abusive, and harmful behaviors' only after you firstly admit that you do Wrong, abusive, and harmful behaviors'.
BigMike wrote: ↑Sun Nov 10, 2024 11:45 pm
This means investigating not only individual influences but also the structures that shape and reinforce these behaviors.
There is absolutely nothing hard nor complex here.
1. The reason you do absolutely every thing you do, Right or Wrong, is because of the 'thought', itself
2. The reason you choose what you do is because that is what you 'want'.
3. The choices you make is because of, or due to, 'past experiences'.
Now, you are absolutely free to make 'a choice', however, and obviously, what you are able to choose from is limited by your own 'past experiences'.
So, if you have not yet experienced what it is like living in 'a Truly peaceful and harmonious world', for example, then you cannot be expected to, yet, know how to live 'hat way', and you cannot be justly nor legitimately 'judged' and 'punished' for not doing what it takes to help to create and make 'that world/society'.
If you adult human beings just stopped judging and punishing "others/yourselves", then you can begin uncovering 'root causes', and then working together in preventing what is causing 'the Truly sick and unhealthy world' that you are all living in, and which was, and still is, when this is being written, being created, solely, by you adult human beings alone.
BigMike wrote: ↑Sun Nov 10, 2024 11:45 pm
These structures, shaped by past generations, are deeply ingrained, making change slow and difficult.
1. Once again you are 'trying to' 'blame' others here.
2. Changing, for the better, is exponentially millions of times faster than how long it took to get to, when this was being written. This is mostly just because human beings are, finally, heading in the Right direction, and towards the EXACT SAME goal, and in and towards the complete opposite direction.
3. There is absolutely nothing hard, complex, nor difficult here in fact creating and making a Truly loving, peaceful, and peaceful world, for every one, as One, is about one of the most simplest and easiest things to do, as well as being one of the most natural things to do also.
BigMike wrote: ↑Sun Nov 10, 2024 11:45 pm
The Path Forward
Changing these deeply rooted structures requires that we start with small but cumulative shifts in cultural and social norms—teaching the next generation the value of critical thinking, compassion, and cooperation.
When, and if, you adult human beings learn and start practising and being critical thinkers, compassionate, and working in cooperation towards the exact same goal/s, the children will just copy and follow these things, NATURALLY. But, obviously while you adults continue to do the opposite, then children will, still, keep just, NATURALLY, copying and following those Wrong behaviours.
So, once again, when, and if, you adult human beings start accepting and start taken actual responsibility, then children will grow up copying and following those Truly Right, and good, behaviors.
BigMike wrote: ↑Sun Nov 10, 2024 11:45 pmThe challenge is immense, and it may feel like we’re moving slowly, but as we continue to peel back the layers of conditioning, we gradually lay the foundation for a society more focused on truth, empathy, and responsibility.
It is as simple and easy as absolutely EVERY individual does absolutely EVERY thing that they do because tof their own personal and individual different past experiences. And, if absolutely ANY of you had the EXACT SAME past experiences as another, then you would be doing EXACTLY what 'the other' has done and is doing doing.
Knowing, and comprehending, fully, this IRREFUTABLE Fact means that you WILL STOP 'judging' and 'punishing' others for absolutely ANY that they do. And, after obtaining and gaining the full '
understanding' of this irrefutable Fact you will also obtain and gain the full and True '
forgiveness' for absolutely EVERY thing that EVERY one has done, and will do.
For how could any one Truly 'forgive' another if they had not yet come to understand and realise the very reason WHY they have done what they have or WHY they will do what they do.
BigMike wrote: ↑Sun Nov 10, 2024 11:45 pm
Would you agree that building this environment starts with fostering openness and empathy within the structures we currently have?
What are the 'structures', exactly, which you are alluding to here?
And, people have empathy for 'living things', structures and/or buildings are not usually considered 'living things' worthy of having 'empathy' for, now with
BigMike wrote: ↑Sun Nov 10, 2024 11:45 pm
Or do you see a different starting point?
Since 'the environment' being talked about and discussed here is created, and built fully, by you adult human beings, ALONE, this then means, absolutely, that the 'starting point' starts with you adult beings, ALONE. And, this starts 'individually' because one can only, really, Truly work on "them" 'self', ONLY.
No one can make another learn, nor change, if they do not 'want' to.
So, the "starting point' is with you individual adult human beings.
When, and if, any one of i you seriously 'Wants' to change, for the better, and is really Honest and Open about, then besides just discovering WHO 'you' Truly are 'you' will also learn HOW to make and create 'the world' that absolutely EVERY one 'wants' to live in, and desires.