Are men jealous of women?

[Atla]

The mother claims to have lost her 'self' when she was a child, 'she' basically went through life as an empty automaton. Real love, if it exists, isn't possible without the coming together of two selves, because that's what real love basically is, a coming together of two selves. What the mother calls love, isn't love, it's just a general attitude aimed at no one in particular - anyone can do that.

[Fairy]

You're always sucking up to the men on here. You are pathetic. He's a fucking monster.

That says more about you than it does him.

Sorry, but that comment is projection. It's your projection at the world as if it's their hatred, and not yours, because you can't deal with your own hatred. So you project on to the world in a projected rejection.

I don't reject people, just because someone else does, I make up my own mind about people.

[accelafine]

You're always sucking up to the men on here. You are pathetic. He's a fucking monster.

That says more about you than it does him.

Sorry, but that comment is projection. It's your projection at the world as if it's their hatred, and not yours, because you can't deal with your own hatred. So you project on to the world in a projected rejection.

I don't reject people, just because someone else does, I make up my own mind about people.

Yeah, and you are the worst judge I have ever seen. How do you even function in the real world? Do you have a nurse come, or are you posting from one of the few remaining insane asylums? Go away. You hurt my brain. No wonder Harbal took off like a bat out of (literal) hell. He probably only just managed to escape with his sanity (or his life).

[Fairy]

What does 'unconditional' love mean anyway? Corny cliche. Love is 'unconditional' by definition FFS!

Try the subtle underrated often ignored art of introspection, if you want to know the answer to what does unconditional love mean. Don't just expect to find the answer as if the answer is external to you. Because then you'd have to ask, where did the external answer come from?

Have you ever lived externally outside of your own mind? or do you always take your mind with you wherever you wander?

Nothing can define what is, or, everything defines what is, that's just how it works, so you choose your answer, if you are going to ask the question. Like being on vacation without leaving home.

I don't know how to move forward either. It can be challenging to 'bring it back to yourself'.

[Fairy]

You're always sucking up to the men on here. You are pathetic. He's a fucking monster.

That says more about you than it does him.

Sorry, but that comment is projection. It's your projection at the world as if it's their hatred, and not yours, because you can't deal with your own hatred. So you project on to the world in a projected rejection.

I don't reject people, just because someone else does, I make up my own mind about people.

Yeah, and you are the worst judge I have ever seen. How do you even function in the real world? Do you have a nurse come, or are you posting from one of the few remaining insane asylums? Go away. You hurt my brain. No wonder Harbal took off like a bat out of (literal) hell. He probably only just managed to escape with his sanity (or his life).

What's wrong with judging? aren't you doing it right now? is your judging holier and more gold plated than mine, is my judging just rusty and unworthy or something?

H took off, because he doesn't know how to love unconditionally, like I do.

H only wanted half of me not the full me. It's his loss not mine. I'm just back to where I was before he interrupted my life, back to the bliss of solitude.

I don't mind being out of my bliss. Like when I was with H ... as I know my bliss never leaves me. Only my hell can leave me, never my bliss.

[Fairy]

No wonder Harbal took off like a bat out of (literal) hell. He probably only just managed to escape with his sanity (or his life).

Is that why you left Harbal?

He told me you and he were once friends.

I've heard you say on this forum not so nice things about him. I guess that's the nature of every human being alike, to judge.

The difference between you and I accelafine, is that you try to break people, where as I try to make them whole again.

H left me because he only wanted half of me not the whole of me. He is the broken one. Not me.

[accelafine]

No wonder Harbal took off like a bat out of (literal) hell. He probably only just managed to escape with his sanity (or his life).

Is that why you left Harbal?

He told me you and he were once friends.

I've heard you say on this forum not so nice things about him. I guess that's the nature of every human being alike, to judge.

The difference between you and I accelafine, is that you try to break people, where as I try to make them whole again.

H left me because he only wanted half of me not the whole of me. He is the broken one. Not me.

Yes. You're a veritable Pollyanna

[accelafine]

Nothing you say makes any sense. One craves for even ONE sentence that's coherent. Not quite as bad as Walker but close.

[Fairy]

No wonder Harbal took off like a bat out of (literal) hell. He probably only just managed to escape with his sanity (or his life).

Is that why you left Harbal?

He told me you and he were once friends.

I've heard you say on this forum not so nice things about him. I guess that's the nature of every human being alike, to judge.

The difference between you and I accelafine, is that you try to break people, where as I try to make them whole again.

H left me because he only wanted half of me not the whole of me. He is the broken one. Not me.

Yes. You're a veritable Pollyanna

Well that's the nature of solipsism it empowers the absolute.

I absolutely cannot lie, I live the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth.

[Fairy]

Nothing you say makes any sense. One craves for even ONE sentence that's coherent. Not quite as bad as Walker but close.

No one makes sense.

If one could make sense, then they could unmake sense, for example: if one were making sense, one would also be able to unmake sense, by turning the sense of pain off.

Have you ever trying to stop sensation of pain from ever happening again? No, because it's not your pain.

Just as no one can hurt your brain, because if it was your brain, you'd be able to stop incoming missiles from hurting it, you would be able to protect it with an iron dome.

But it seems your iron dome would be useless anyway. See what I mean?

[Fairy]

You're always sucking up to the men on here. You are pathetic.

What like Harbal was always sucking up to, flirting with women on here, including you.

I guess that makes us both two peas of the same pod.

No wonder H left me, he didn't like knowing he'd met his match made in heaven. His words, not mine. I have proof.

And what's wrong with talking to men, seems like men are the dominant presence on this forum anyway.

I talk to women when women talk to me, same as I do with men. What's pathetic about that?

[accelafine]

You're always sucking up to the men on here. You are pathetic.

What like Harbal was always sucking up to, flirting with women on here, including you.

I guess that makes us both two peas of the same pod.

No wonder H left me, he didn't like knowing he'd met his match made in heaven. His words, not mine. I have proof.

And what's wrong with talking to men, seems like men are the dominant presence on this forum anyway.

I talk to women when women talk to me, same as I do with men. What's pathetic about that?

Flirt with Harbal? WTF? I don't flirt with anyone on here. I leave that for the likes of you and Lacewing (when she was around). Flirting around others is such bad manners.

[accelafine]

You're always sucking up to the men on here. You are pathetic.

What like Harbal was always sucking up to, flirting with women on here, including you.

I guess that makes us both two peas of the same pod.

No wonder H left me, he didn't like knowing he'd met his match made in heaven. His words, not mine. I have proof.

And what's wrong with talking to men, seems like men are the dominant presence on this forum anyway.

I talk to women when women talk to me, same as I do with men. What's pathetic about that?

It's possible to talk to men without fawning all over them, or defending the indefensible.

[Fairy]

You're always sucking up to the men on here. You are pathetic.

What like Harbal was always sucking up to, flirting with women on here, including you.

I guess that makes us both two peas of the same pod.

No wonder H left me, he didn't like knowing he'd met his match made in heaven. His words, not mine. I have proof.

And what's wrong with talking to men, seems like men are the dominant presence on this forum anyway.

I talk to women when women talk to me, same as I do with men. What's pathetic about that?

Flirt with Harbal? WTF? I don't flirt with anyone on here. I leave that for the likes of you and Lacewing (when she was around). Flirting around others is such bad manners.

I never said you was flirting with Harbal. I said he told me you and he were once friends. You even said to us all that you thought Harbal was the forum Casanova.

If he wasn't flirting with you, then I'll believe that. I was only assuming he was flirting with you. I wasn't assuming you were flirting with him. But you and him were once friends, he told me.

[Fairy]

You're always sucking up to the men on here. You are pathetic.

What like Harbal was always sucking up to, flirting with women on here, including you.

I guess that makes us both two peas of the same pod.

No wonder H left me, he didn't like knowing he'd met his match made in heaven. His words, not mine. I have proof.

And what's wrong with talking to men, seems like men are the dominant presence on this forum anyway.

I talk to women when women talk to me, same as I do with men. What's pathetic about that?

It's possible to talk to men without fawning all over them, or defending the indefensible.

Yes I agree.

I don't defend anyone, or fawn over them, I simply disagree or I agree with the message, and try to refrain from shooting the messenger at all cost to the messenger.

I agree with the message who ever sends it, or I disagree with the message who ever sends it. That's all I do.

I agree with godelian's message.
I disagree with Walkers message.
I sometimes agreed and disagreed with Harbal's message.



That's not flirting as you have already outlined. I have no interest in forming relationships with men on this forum. However, it seems they are interested in forming relationships with me, which a few men have done on this forum. And when that happens I simply make up my own mind about whether or not I'm interested in them.

With H ..yes, I showed an interest in him. So what? What's wrong with that?