Questions to Christians

[Fairy]

I'm siding with Fairy anyway. If he's going around telling women he loves them without meaning it then he's a manipulative ****. From experience, when a man falls in love with you he's IMPOSSIBLE to shake off-- for the rest of your life (or his life--whoever's death comes first). They NEVER accept that it's over. If HairyBalls actually loved her then he would be sobbing on her doorstep as we speak.

Thank you accelafine. I agree with you. The thing is, only H and I know what really went wrong. No one but us know the truth.

He told actually said to my face, that he loved me, after we had been together for a few months or so. So I must have been lovable to him.

Not that I needed to know I was lovable, I didn’t, I’m perfectly happy in my own skin, living on my own, in my own home, with myself.

He pursued me, I just went along with the adventure. Then he dumped me after two years, he couldn’t even tell me to my face that he’d fallen out of love with me, he’s a coward and a liar. People who genuinely love each other don’t leave.

He left me, I did not leave him…when I love a man, I stick with them through thick and thin, that’s just my character. But H couldn’t accept me for who I am, it was like I simply wasn’t good enough for him.

I genuinely hope he finds the right woman he deserves and lives happily ever after.

[accelafine]

I'm siding with Fairy anyway. If he's going around telling women he loves them without meaning it then he's a manipulative ****. From experience, when a man falls in love with you he's IMPOSSIBLE to shake off-- for the rest of your life (or his life--whoever's death comes first). They NEVER accept that it's over. If HairyBalls actually loved her then he would be sobbing on her doorstep as we speak.

Thank you accelafine. I agree with you. The thing is, only H and I know what really went wrong. No one but us know the truth.

He told actually said to my face, that he loved me, after we had been together for a few months or so. So I must have been lovable to him.

Not that I needed to know I was lovable, I didn’t, I’m perfectly happy in my own skin, living on my own, in my own home, with myself.

He pursued me, I just went along with the adventure. Then he dumped me after two years, he couldn’t even tell me to my face that he’d fallen out of love with me, he’s a coward and a liar. People who genuinely love each other don’t leave.

He left me, I did not leave him…when I love a man, I stick with them through thick and thin, that’s just my character. But H couldn’t accept me for who I am, it was like I simply wasn’t good enough for him.

I genuinely hope he finds the right woman he deserves and lives happily ever after.

I think he only wants a woman when it suits him. He prefers being alone. I'm assuming you never lived together. He takes as much as he wants and then discards the rest, cashing in on the 'I want to be alone' card. Don't think you did anything wrong. You didn't.

[Fairy]

I'm siding with Fairy anyway. If he's going around telling women he loves them without meaning it then he's a manipulative ****. From experience, when a man falls in love with you he's IMPOSSIBLE to shake off-- for the rest of your life (or his life--whoever's death comes first). They NEVER accept that it's over. If HairyBalls actually loved her then he would be sobbing on her doorstep as we speak.

Thank you accelafine. I agree with you. The thing is, only H and I know what really went wrong. No one but us know the truth.

He told actually said to my face, that he loved me, after we had been together for a few months or so. So I must have been lovable to him.

Not that I needed to know I was lovable, I didn’t, I’m perfectly happy in my own skin, living on my own, in my own home, with myself.

He pursued me, I just went along with the adventure. Then he dumped me after two years, he couldn’t even tell me to my face that he’d fallen out of love with me, he’s a coward and a liar. People who genuinely love each other don’t leave.

He left me, I did not leave him…when I love a man, I stick with them through thick and thin, that’s just my character. But H couldn’t accept me for who I am, it was like I simply wasn’t good enough for him.

I genuinely hope he finds the right woman he deserves and lives happily ever after.

I think he only wants a woman when it suits him. He prefers being alone. I'm assuming you never lived together. He takes as much as he wants and then discards the rest, cashing in on the 'I want to be alone' card. Don't think you did anything wrong. You didn't.

Thank you…I agree.

No we never lived together. I live alone in my own 4 bedroom house, that I single handedly paid for myself. While he lives in a poky rented flat.

Yes, I now know he used me for his own selfish reasons. . as soon as the raw reality of what it truly means to commit to other people hit home, he went crying back to his preferred solitude. He was just too damn lazy to make it work out. It was all too much effort for him..

He played with my emotions and feelings. It was awful loving a man who was emotionally unavailable. He’s a serial avoidant just playing games with women’s hearts.

I’m so thankful for the experience though it was something I had to learn I guess.

The crazy thing of all is that he didn’t even want to be just friend zoned. After telling me previously he did want to be a very good friend to me. That’s what he told me and yet lied about that. I actually feel sorry for him he must be such a mess inside his head.

[Belinda]

Thank you accelafine. I agree with you. The thing is, only H and I know what really went wrong. No one but us know the truth.

He told actually said to my face, that he loved me, after we had been together for a few months or so. So I must have been lovable to him.

Not that I needed to know I was lovable, I didn’t, I’m perfectly happy in my own skin, living on my own, in my own home, with myself.

He pursued me, I just went along with the adventure. Then he dumped me after two years, he couldn’t even tell me to my face that he’d fallen out of love with me, he’s a coward and a liar. People who genuinely love each other don’t leave.

He left me, I did not leave him…when I love a man, I stick with them through thick and thin, that’s just my character. But H couldn’t accept me for who I am, it was like I simply wasn’t good enough for him.

I genuinely hope he finds the right woman he deserves and lives happily ever after.

I think he only wants a woman when it suits him. He prefers being alone. I'm assuming you never lived together. He takes as much as he wants and then discards the rest, cashing in on the 'I want to be alone' card. Don't think you did anything wrong. You didn't.

Thank you…I agree.

No we never lived together. I live alone in my own 4 bedroom house, that I single handedly paid for myself. While he lives in a poky rented flat.

Yes, I now know he used me for his own selfish reasons. . as soon as the raw reality of what it truly means to commit to other people hit home, he went crying back to his preferred solitude. He was just too damn lazy to make it work out. It was all too much effort for him..

He played with my emotions and feelings. It was awful loving a man who was emotionally unavailable. He’s a serial avoidant just playing games with women’s hearts.

I’m so thankful for the experience though it was something I had to learn I guess.

The crazy thing of all is that he didn’t even want to be just friend zoned. After telling me previously he did want to be a very good friend to me. That’s what he told me and yet lied about that. I actually feel sorry for him he must be such a mess inside his head.

Trial by media. Why is this being allowed.

[accelafine]

I think he only wants a woman when it suits him. He prefers being alone. I'm assuming you never lived together. He takes as much as he wants and then discards the rest, cashing in on the 'I want to be alone' card. Don't think you did anything wrong. You didn't.

Thank you…I agree.

No we never lived together. I live alone in my own 4 bedroom house, that I single handedly paid for myself. While he lives in a poky rented flat.

Yes, I now know he used me for his own selfish reasons. . as soon as the raw reality of what it truly means to commit to other people hit home, he went crying back to his preferred solitude. He was just too damn lazy to make it work out. It was all too much effort for him..

He played with my emotions and feelings. It was awful loving a man who was emotionally unavailable. He’s a serial avoidant just playing games with women’s hearts.

I’m so thankful for the experience though it was something I had to learn I guess.

The crazy thing of all is that he didn’t even want to be just friend zoned. After telling me previously he did want to be a very good friend to me. That’s what he told me and yet lied about that. I actually feel sorry for him he must be such a mess inside his head.

Trial by media. Why is this being allowed.

He's perfectly free to present his side. I'm sure he doesn't need a handmaiden to help him out.

[Fairy]

I think he only wants a woman when it suits him. He prefers being alone. I'm assuming you never lived together. He takes as much as he wants and then discards the rest, cashing in on the 'I want to be alone' card. Don't think you did anything wrong. You didn't.

Thank you…I agree.

No we never lived together. I live alone in my own 4 bedroom house, that I single handedly paid for myself. While he lives in a poky rented flat.

Yes, I now know he used me for his own selfish reasons. . as soon as the raw reality of what it truly means to commit to other people hit home, he went crying back to his preferred solitude. He was just too damn lazy to make it work out. It was all too much effort for him..

He played with my emotions and feelings. It was awful loving a man who was emotionally unavailable. He’s a serial avoidant just playing games with women’s hearts.

I’m so thankful for the experience though it was something I had to learn I guess.

The crazy thing of all is that he didn’t even want to be just friend zoned. After telling me previously he did want to be a very good friend to me. That’s what he told me and yet lied about that. I actually feel sorry for him he must be such a mess inside his head.

Trial by media. Why is this being allowed.

Because we live in the age of social media where people can interact freely from all corners of the earth.

The internet is a representation of the inner net…the collective mind revealed in words.

This is what it’s like to not exist

[Belinda]

Thank you…I agree.

No we never lived together. I live alone in my own 4 bedroom house, that I single handedly paid for myself. While he lives in a poky rented flat.

Yes, I now know he used me for his own selfish reasons. . as soon as the raw reality of what it truly means to commit to other people hit home, he went crying back to his preferred solitude. He was just too damn lazy to make it work out. It was all too much effort for him..

He played with my emotions and feelings. It was awful loving a man who was emotionally unavailable. He’s a serial avoidant just playing games with women’s hearts.

I’m so thankful for the experience though it was something I had to learn I guess.

The crazy thing of all is that he didn’t even want to be just friend zoned. After telling me previously he did want to be a very good friend to me. That’s what he told me and yet lied about that. I actually feel sorry for him he must be such a mess inside his head.

Trial by media. Why is this being allowed.

Because we live in the age of social media where people can interact freely from all corners of the earth.

The internet is a representation of the inner net…the collective mind revealed in words.

This is what it’s like to not exist

The internet with all its benefits does also allow misinformation and downright evil ideas to thrive by taking root in people's minds and feelings.
If you want to use this particular medium for expressing your feelings and opinions that is okay . It's wrong to do so by naming a private individual who is not a public figure such as a politician or a famous celebrity.
Sure , as you said, the accused person could probably respond on this public discussion to allegations against them. However the Philosophy Now forum is not set up as a court of justice with judge and jury . I don't know how well the accused could defend themself, perhaps quite well. But on the other hand some people can't assert themselves for a variety of reasons, so as a general principle it's wrong to make allegations that are not defended.

Another reason for not getting personal on this forum is that it's not good for the accuser to sooth their injured feelings by seeking public approval. We all have to deal with loss one way or another. You are a good person. If your allegations were about an illegal activity then you tell the police, but I gather there was nothing illegal.

[Fairy]

Trial by media. Why is this being allowed.

Because we live in the age of social media where people can interact freely from all corners of the earth.

The internet is a representation of the inner net…the collective mind revealed in words.

This is what it’s like to not exist

The internet with all its benefits does also allow misinformation and downright evil ideas to thrive by taking root in people's minds and feelings.
If you want to use this particular medium for expressing your feelings and opinions that is okay . It's wrong to do so by naming a private individual who is not a public figure such as a politician or a famous celebrity.
Sure , as you said, the accused person could probably respond on this public discussion to allegations against them. However the Philosophy Now forum is not set up as a court of justice with judge and jury . I don't know how well the accused could defend themself, perhaps quite well. But on the other hand some people can't assert themselves for a variety of reasons, so as a general principle it's wrong to make allegations that are not defended.

Another reason for not getting personal on this forum is that it's not good for the accuser to sooth their injured feelings by seeking public approval. We all have to deal with loss one way or another. You are a good person. If your allegations were about an illegal activity then you tell the police, but I gather there was nothing illegal.

Just sue me ffs

I don’t give a shite about this hell hole called humanity.

[Belinda]

Of course you do!

[Fairy]

The pr1k uses internet forums more active on this one, to lure women into his bed.

So I’m just making sure he doesn’t hurt anyone else by revealing his cold hearted behaviour to the same forum he uses to hurt people.

He stole and broke my heart…now I steal his only true beloved…this forum.

[henry quirk]

He does consistently cause a pause to consider, whether with observations or gender hijinks.

We'll just have to agree to disagree. As I say: I'm not impressed by him.

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Have you PM’d him yet?

No one's payin' me to investigate, so: no.

Ask him yourself how it made him feel, being with me, then you’ll know the truth.

If he comes back: I may.

We were together for two years.

That's your story.

And what about your own childish petty spiteful behaviour when you deliberately quoted what I’d been posting just to make sure I couldn’t delete it. What sort of a character does that make you?

Oh, I'm a jackass, sure.

And yet none of this had anything to do with you.

Uh, you vomited yourself all over the forum. No one made you. You chose to air your dirty laundry here. You made it, are makin' it, forum business. It's a lil too late to start with the it's none of your business! nonsense.

[Fairy]

Uh, you vomited yourself all over the forum. No one made you. You chose to air your dirty laundry here. You made it, are makin' it, forum business. It's a lil too late to start with the it's none of your business! nonsense.

Your right, I've made it everyone's business, because I am the one who is telling the truth. I admit I've made it everyone's business, because I thought it was only appropriate that people were made aware of just exactly who they are talking to when they engage with strangers on this internet forum. The truth is, I have nothing to hide. That's why I am not bothered about exposing people for what they truly are behind their silly masks they wear for fear of being made to look foolish and unliked and not being taken seriously. People seem to despise honest people, they prefer to stay anon and act as fake as fuck, mostly.

Some of the gentlemen on this forum have chosen not to get involved. The reason why you got involved is because you deliberately wanted to be against me right from the start without ever knowing the whole picture, all you've got is just a few pieces of the picture, and that bugs the crap out of you, not knowing the full story.

I just speak the truth, I cannot lie. People are not who you think they are, and it's about time, people woke the fuck up, and realised how dark the internet has become, some people just need to be exposed for who they really are, including myself, but I am what I am, and I don't give a flying fuck what you or anyone else thinks about me. I'm just so sick and tired living in this fake as fuck world, full of people pretending to be the absolute paragons of virtue, when all they really are behind their silly stupid masks, is the complete opposite in real life.

[Belinda]

The pr1k uses internet forums more active on this one, to lure women into his bed.

So I’m just making sure he doesn’t hurt anyone else by revealing his cold hearted behaviour to the same forum he uses to hurt people.

He stole and broke my heart…now I steal his only true beloved…this forum.

You have a good reason then to name and shame an individual. But it's not a sufficient reason, unfortunately. I think the most that is permissible on a public forum is to say a general warning against being groomed by internet predators, and perhaps that you had personal experience of one on this very forum.

[Fairy]

Ask him yourself how it made him feel, being with me, then you’ll know the truth.

If he comes back: I may.

I can't wait for him to come back with his truth.

But of course, you'll only care for the side which suits you the best, and I think you've already made up your mind about that, I guess.
So it would be a waste of time even if he did come back, as you seem to already know that it was H who was the only victim here in this whole lunatic scenario .

There's two sides to every story, and then there's the real truth, and only God knows the real truth. God will judge me, not you. I'm ready to meet God.

H used to assume I was a man on this forum, and took great delight in calling me a poisonous little fucker, already thinking he knew who is was talking to. But as soon as he realised I wasn't a man, and that I was a woman, he had no complaints about me at all, his attitude changed completely to oh good, another fuckable woman I can pursue for my entertainment and pleasure only..

What, did you actually believe H was on this forum for philosophical reasons, uh, give me a break.

[Fairy]

Ask him yourself how it made him feel, being with me, then you’ll know the truth.

If he comes back: I may.

I can't wait for him to come back with his truth.

But of course, you'll only care for the side which suits you the best, and I think you've already made up your mind about that, I guess.
So it would be a waste of time even if he did come back, as you seem to already know that it was H who was the only victim here in this whole lunatic scenario .

There's two sides to every story, and then there's the real truth, and only God knows the real truth. God will judge me, not you. I'm ready to meet God.

H used to assume I was a man on this forum, and took great delight in calling me a poisonous little fucker, already thinking he knew who he was talking to. But as soon as he realised I wasn't a man, and that I was a woman, he had no complaints about me at all, his attitude changed completely to oh good, another fuckable woman I can pursue for my entertainment and pleasure only..

What, did you actually believe H was on this forum for philosophical reasons, uh, give me a break.