Questions to Christians

[Fairy]

"No one knows anything?"



Not even elevator and escalator inspectors?

I guess it's no coincidence that I most always take the stairs, although I wasn't fully enlightened to that until you hipped me to that, dude.

Or, is the proper pronoun, dudette?

No one is living life. It’s just happening all by itself one without a second.

No one knows this.

If you say you know…you don’t.

For even your stories are unknown.

How's it going with Harry, the love of your life? I hope it's worked out. If it hasn't then it's because he's a pr1k.

It didn't work out in the end. All because I dared to be in a bad mood around him one day, and he didn't like it, so he dumped me.

Not sure why he wants a woman in his life really, unless he expects her to be like a piece of treasured furniture, to be there in the corner of the living room looking pretty and saying nothing all day, but just being there, at least so that he doesn't have to be alone with himself. But then chooses to be alone with himself anyway rather than be with a woman who dares to be herself around him.

[henry quirk]

I wonder if Har-Har will return to the forum. I'd like to get his side of the story (cuz I don't *Believe Women).

*https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Believe_women

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“Thou shalt have no other gods before me” presupposes the existence of other gods. Therefore, the commandment implies a pre-monotheistic worldview. The Biblical concept of God evolves.

[Walker]

I wonder if Har-Har will return to the forum. I'd like to get his side of the story (cuz I don't *Believe Women).

*https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Believe_women

He's a proven gentleman already. Can't really see the Har-Har needing to roll in the inevitable mud, but what do I know of such matters ... thank God.

Think of the ladies you've known. Not just women, but ladies. Ladies are wonderful. They're the counterpart to gentlemanly discretion.

[Fairy]

He's a proven gentleman already.

Think of the ladies you've known. Not just women, but ladies. Ladies are wonderful. They're the counterpart to gentlemanly discretion.

Your bigotry is overwhelmingly a sign of your true character.

Most people are just nothing more than underwhelmingly average slobs pretending they’re something better.If you could actually read their minds you would definitely choose to be alone in the solitude that you were born with, and never trust another human relationship ever again.

I guess some of us just get wiser about ever daring to choose every mistaken relational experience we’ve ever encountered.

Just keep being attached to your delusions Walker. You do not know another until you have actually been in the physical presence of someone and actually listened to what they have told you. You don’t even have to read their minds, they will do it for you. And that’s all the evidence needed. A witness to the crime committed and told by one partner to it’s other partner in crime.

[Fairy]

People in relationships are just using each other for what they can get out of each other.

If you were with someone and you were not giving them what they wanted from you, then they will eventually leave you.

That’s just the law of human dynamics, it’s a fact.

People are needy creatures that’s all.

Some just get wiser with age, when they realise and come to terms with the raw fact that people are selfish greedy and needy. It’s like they can’t just be happy being alone. They are conditioned to believe they are better off in a marriage, and that goes for every relationship you ever form with anyone including friends or family and even with your own children, these relationships are all like a marriage, that takes enormous emotionally stable and mature consistent commitment in order to maintain them, which is an effort that most people are not willing to commit to, out of laziness. Most people can’t even achieve this commitment because they can bearly cope and deal with their own company let alone be with someone else.

The only person that is truly compassionate and caring and loving, is the care, compassion and love you give to yourself. When you can do that for yourself you don’t seek those attributes in another. You don’t seek the validation from another. You don’t seek your worth and value from another.You become of service to others without wanting or expecting anything in return.

Saying you love someone other than yourself is a disgusting word. It’s filled with expectation and manipulation and self- serving selfishness of what is in this for me. It’s disgusting.

[Belinda]

People in relationships are just using each other for what they can get out of each other.

If you were with someone and you were not giving them what they wanted from you, then they will eventually leave you.

That’s just the law of human dynamics, it’s a fact.

People are needy creatures that’s all.

Some just get wiser with age, when they realise and come to terms with the raw fact that people are selfish greedy and needy. It’s like they can’t just be happy being alone. They are conditioned to believe they are better off in a marriage, and that goes for every relationship you ever form with anyone including friends or family and even with your own children, these relationships are all like a marriage, that takes enormous emotionally stable and mature consistent commitment in order to maintain them, which is an effort that most people are not willing to commit to, out of laziness. Most people can’t even achieve this commitment because they can bearly cope and deal with their own company let alone be with someone else.

The only person that is truly compassionate and caring and loving, is the care, compassion and love you give to yourself. When you can do that for yourself you don’t seek those attributes in another. You don’t seek the validation from another. You don’t seek your worth and value from another.You become of service to others without wanting or expecting anything in return.

Saying you love someone other than yourself is a disgusting word. It’s filled with expectation and manipulation and self- serving selfishness of what is in this for me. It’s disgusting.

And yet it's universally agreed that man is a social animal.
Love is not only crude desire; it's also common or garden affection, and it's agape which simply is giving without asking anything in return'

agape, in the New Testament, the fatherly love of God for humans, as well as the human reciprocal love for God. In Scripture, the transcendent agape love is the highest form of love and is contrasted with eros, or erotic love, and philia, or brotherly love. In John 3:16, a verse that is often described as a summary of the Gospel message, agape is the word used for the love that moved God to send his only son for the world’s redemption. The term necessarily extends to the love of one’s fellow humans, as the reciprocal love between God and humans is made manifest in one’s unselfish love of others. See also charity.
Britannica

[Alexiev]

People in relationships are just using each other for what they can get out of each other.

If you were with someone and you were not giving them what they wanted from you, then they will eventually leave you.

That’s just the law of human dynamics, it’s a fact.

People are needy creatures that’s all.

Some just get wiser with age, when they realise and come to terms with the raw fact that people are selfish greedy and needy. It’s like they can’t just be happy being alone. They are conditioned to believe they are better off in a marriage, and that goes for every relationship you ever form with anyone including friends or family and even with your own children, these relationships are all like a marriage, that takes enormous emotionally stable and mature consistent commitment in order to maintain them, which is an effort that most people are not willing to commit to, out of laziness. Most people can’t even achieve this commitment because they can bearly cope and deal with their own company let alone be with someone else.

The only person that is truly compassionate and caring and loving, is the care, compassion and love you give to yourself. When you can do that for yourself you don’t seek those attributes in another. You don’t seek the validation from another. You don’t seek your worth and value from another.You become of service to others without wanting or expecting anything in return.

Saying you love someone other than yourself is a disgusting word. It’s filled with expectation and manipulation and self- serving selfishness of what is in this for me. It’s disgusting.

And yet it's universally agreed that man is a social animal.
Love is not only crude desire; it's also common or garden affection, and it's agape which simply is giving without asking anything in return'

agape, in the New Testament, the fatherly love of God for humans, as well as the human reciprocal love for God. In Scripture, the transcendent agape love is the highest form of love and is contrasted with eros, or erotic love, and philia, or brotherly love. In John 3:16, a verse that is often described as a summary of the Gospel message, agape is the word used for the love that moved God to send his only son for the world’s redemption. The term necessarily extends to the love of one’s fellow humans, as the reciprocal love between God and humans is made manifest in one’s unselfish love of others. See also charity.
Britannica

Belinda's point is obvious. Parents routinely sacrifice scarce resources for their children. Is their love "selfish"? Only if we define "selfish" in such general terms that it becomes meaningless (i.e. claiming that everything anyone decides to do is by definition selfish).

[Walker]

He's a proven gentleman already.

Think of the ladies you've known. Not just women, but ladies. Ladies are wonderful. They're the counterpart to gentlemanly discretion.

Your bigotry is overwhelmingly a sign of your true character.

I think maybe lady is a word that does not mean what you think it means
For if you knew what it means
The awareness of Lady would permeate all your transmissions
And you just couldn't help but be a lady
With a lady's judgement and discretion
Poise and grace
The counterpart to a gentleman.

[Fairy]

He's a proven gentleman already.

Think of the ladies you've known. Not just women, but ladies. Ladies are wonderful. They're the counterpart to gentlemanly discretion.

Your bigotry is overwhelmingly a sign of your true character.

I think maybe lady is a word that does not mean what you think it means
For if you knew what it means
The awareness of Lady would permeate all your transmissions
And you just couldn't help but be a lady
With a lady's judgement and discretion
Poise and grace
The counterpart to a gentleman.

Don’t be a bigot fool, I know what Lady means.

[Fairy]

People in relationships are just using each other for what they can get out of each other.

If you were with someone and you were not giving them what they wanted from you, then they will eventually leave you.

That’s just the law of human dynamics, it’s a fact.

People are needy creatures that’s all.

Some just get wiser with age, when they realise and come to terms with the raw fact that people are selfish greedy and needy. It’s like they can’t just be happy being alone. They are conditioned to believe they are better off in a marriage, and that goes for every relationship you ever form with anyone including friends or family and even with your own children, these relationships are all like a marriage, that takes enormous emotionally stable and mature consistent commitment in order to maintain them, which is an effort that most people are not willing to commit to, out of laziness. Most people can’t even achieve this commitment because they can bearly cope and deal with their own company let alone be with someone else.

The only person that is truly compassionate and caring and loving, is the care, compassion and love you give to yourself. When you can do that for yourself you don’t seek those attributes in another. You don’t seek the validation from another. You don’t seek your worth and value from another.You become of service to others without wanting or expecting anything in return.

Saying you love someone other than yourself is a disgusting word. It’s filled with expectation and manipulation and self- serving selfishness of what is in this for me. It’s disgusting.

And yet it's universally agreed that man is a social animal.
Love is not only crude desire; it's also common or garden affection, and it's agape which simply is giving without asking anything in return'

agape, in the New Testament, the fatherly love of God for humans, as well as the human reciprocal love for God. In Scripture, the transcendent agape love is the highest form of love and is contrasted with eros, or erotic love, and philia, or brotherly love. In John 3:16, a verse that is often described as a summary of the Gospel message, agape is the word used for the love that moved God to send his only son for the world’s redemption. The term necessarily extends to the love of one’s fellow humans, as the reciprocal love between God and humans is made manifest in one’s unselfish love of others. See also charity.
Britannica

Belinda's point is obvious. Parents routinely sacrifice scarce resources for their children. Is their love "selfish"? Only if we define "selfish" in such general terms that it becomes meaningless (i.e. claiming that everything anyone decides to do is by definition selfish).

Children by no fault of their own are needy and totally dependent of the selfless care of their respective parents.

I’m talking more about adult children and their unnecessary need to continue to be needy.

[Fairy]

He's a proven gentleman already. Can't really see the Har-Har needing to roll in the inevitable mud, but what do I know of such matters ... thank God.

Do you honestly believe the Ha Ha man has proven to be a gentleman for not bothering to engage with a forum he absolutely is obsessed about. A forum that gives purpose to his life and seems to be one of the main reasons for him getting out of bed in the morning.
Do you honestly believe his current absence is because he has no need to roll in the inevitable mud. and that proves he is a gentleman. Wow, what on earth do you actually know about him? Except what you want to believe, idiot.

And what the fuck is wrong with rolling in the mud , it doesn’t seem to deter you Walker from getting involved, you are a master class act at doing it, whenever Fairy posts show up.

Why don’t you PM him and ask him personally why he is absent, at least then you’ll get the actual truth straight from the horses mouth. Instead of just assuming things you absolutely know fuck all about.


And what’s very perplexing to me is exactly why has he ghosted this forum in the past few weeks?…oh wait, probably for the same reason he ghosted me for two weeks after our last shag together. Strange behaviour wouldn’t you say, why he couldn’t even tell me to my face that he wasn’t feeling me anymore…what a coward. At least I’m still here posting, why, because I’ve got nothing to hide, I just tell the truth, and not everyone likes to hear the truth.

[Belinda]

And yet it's universally agreed that man is a social animal.
Love is not only crude desire; it's also common or garden affection, and it's agape which simply is giving without asking anything in return'

agape, in the New Testament, the fatherly love of God for humans, as well as the human reciprocal love for God. In Scripture, the transcendent agape love is the highest form of love and is contrasted with eros, or erotic love, and philia, or brotherly love. In John 3:16, a verse that is often described as a summary of the Gospel message, agape is the word used for the love that moved God to send his only son for the world’s redemption. The term necessarily extends to the love of one’s fellow humans, as the reciprocal love between God and humans is made manifest in one’s unselfish love of others. See also charity.
Britannica

Belinda's point is obvious. Parents routinely sacrifice scarce resources for their children. Is their love "selfish"? Only if we define "selfish" in such general terms that it becomes meaningless (i.e. claiming that everything anyone decides to do is by definition selfish).

Children by no fault of their own are needy and totally dependent of the selfless care of their respective parents.

I’m talking more about adult children and their unnecessary need to continue to be needy.

Everyone of every age and status needs other people. We need to talk about equality and justice.

"Needy" is a word that implies disapproval of the behaviour;
it seems that you may want to discuss the educational strategy of how to teach children to be self sufficient.

[Walker]

Well, the stairway to heaven involves the ladies we all know, if you know what a lady is.

The knowing awareness of what a lady is, results in behaving like a lady, if you're a woman. That is the nature of awareness. Otherwise become distasteful.

If you're a man, awareness of what a gentleman is, results in behaving like a gentleman for the same reasons.


What you will eventually learn with attachment to word games is that it's not the words, it's the meaning behind the words that counts, and abandonment of meaning in a misconstrued act of non-duality is never-the-less, still duality.

[Fairy]

Belinda's point is obvious. Parents routinely sacrifice scarce resources for their children. Is their love "selfish"? Only if we define "selfish" in such general terms that it becomes meaningless (i.e. claiming that everything anyone decides to do is by definition selfish).

Children by no fault of their own are needy and totally dependent of the selfless care of their respective parents.

I’m talking more about adult children and their unnecessary need to continue to be needy.

Everyone of every age and status needs other people. We need to talk about equality and justice.

"Needy" is a word that implies disapproval of the behaviour;
it seems that you may want to discuss the educational strategy of how to teach children to be self sufficient.

Yes we need other people. We need doctors and dentists and lawyers and shopkeepers and bin men etc…

Let’s not stray too far from the actual point.

The main reasons for men and women relationships, that are well past the usual conditioned desire to procreate, is a whole different dynamic. It’s a move towards selfish reasons, where there are consequences and emotions and feelings involved. I’m talking from experience. I was a great shag, but I wasn’t allowed to be opinionated,confrontational, argumentative, or moody. If I was ever just being my true self, I was told that was not something acceptable by my partner. I guess it would have been ideal had I just been the perfect woman without negative drama, even though it always takes two to make an unwanted negative atmosphere.

On my own, my life is stress free, when I’m alone with just myself, my life is compared to nirvana. But as soon as I’m in relationship with someone, that nirvana life changes, it changes to walking on eggshells, a stress that’s unavoidable when two unique people choose to be together as one, for reasons only known to them…and that’s the risk I am willing to take, and the risk others take taking me on me. Mutual physical and sexual attraction is maybe a trick evolution played on us to get us to continue the species. But the reality beyond initial attraction is a completely different ball game it’s not for the faint of heart that’s for sure, and is why there are so many hearts being broken every minute of the day. Life is messy and people are just in denial of that, preferring to be sold the dream of everlasting love between a prince and his princess living happily ever after, but never comes true because reality is always truer than expectations.