Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Mon Jul 22, 2024 3:41 pm
Age wrote: ↑Mon Jul 22, 2024 2:15 pm
Why did you use the 'You did manage to ...' words here? What are you trying to imply here, exactly?
Well, for example, with the formatting - frequent capilization of all letters - this was pointed out as a problem for a long time by a pretty large number of people, for a small forum. This met resistance, and then you changed.
Yes, this was fully understood at the very beginning when you posters here started complaining and whinging about it. But, please just get on to answering and clarifying the actual clarifying question I asked you here.
If you would do this, sometimes and a lot more frequently, then our discussions would become far more concise, and succinct.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Mon Jul 22, 2024 3:41 pm
Manage to covers the range of efforts you get to improvement.
1. 'Improvement' is very relative.
2. I just 'chose' to do some thing different.
3. There was no effort nor inability to do some thing different here. So, your use of the words 'manage to' were quite Incorrect, as well as completely unnecessary. They also could have misled others away from what the actual Truth was, and still is. But, then again, you do have a habit of frequently doing this here.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Mon Jul 22, 2024 3:41 pm
I wouldn't say I was implying anything but rather saying it.
Well then what you said was Wrong, and misleading.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Mon Jul 22, 2024 3:41 pm
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Mon Jul 22, 2024 12:43 pm
But you have seemed utterly resistant to considering the criticisms I have had regarding the general way you communicate.
Simply because 'your criticisms' are not helping 'me'.
I understood this was your position.
Yet, you keep bringing it up here.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Mon Jul 22, 2024 3:41 pm
I use the 'general way I communicate' for specific and purposes reasons. And, I certainly do not have to change them because of one of you, or a few of you, or even all of you want me to or expect me to.
Obviously.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Mon Jul 22, 2024 12:43 pm
And I have given specific examples, and even alternative ways of communicating.
you can say and claim this.
And, considering 'the way' that you actually mis/communicate here I will wait for better advice, thanks.
You're welcome.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Mon Jul 22, 2024 12:43 pm
I have justified my choices and you surely have noticed how most people react not mainly to the content of your communication but to the way you communicate and what you expect to others to do and not do for communication to be effective.
That you, supposedly, 'justified' your choices is 'one thing', which a full stop would have been better.
I don't understand that sentence, even trying a few different meanings of 'full stop.'
It would make perfect sense, and you would fully understand, if you just did things differently here. But, you have 'your way' of communicating, which you obviously are happy with and do not want to change at all. Even though 'your way' is leading to a lot of miscommunication here.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Mon Jul 22, 2024 3:41 pm
Then your next claim here is 'another thing', which would have been much better expressed if expressed separately.
Perhaps you're giving me grammar advice here, such as to avoid using more than one 'and' the way I did. That's good advice, if that's what you meant.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Mon Jul 22, 2024 12:43 pm
If your way of communicating was effective with others, even a small group, peachy, but generally speaking, at least here, it leads to people dismissing you, mainly, or getting into arguments with you and openly telling you they find the process irritating or pointless.
And, you seem to keep forgetting, or not able to comprehend and understand, that you people are not, necessarily, my targeted audience.
I remember that. But you said I
am here 'to learn' how-to communicate better, with you human beings.
So, this point of yours was stupid.
Obviously you have, again, completely and utterly missed the point, and again because of the very thing that you habitually have been doing here, which I have pointed out numerous times already.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Mon Jul 22, 2024 3:41 pm
Just so this becomes absolutely clear, for even someone like you "iwannaplato", I am not here to, necessarily, be understood by you posters here.
Ah, you don't consider having people understand you part of communicating well or better. This explains a lot.
Once again, you assumed some thing to be true, which is actually absolutely False, and then 'proceed on' from your own very False assumption alone.
And, this is, exactly, why these human beings, back in these 'olden days' when this was being written, took so, so long to 'catch up', and understand, as well
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Mon Jul 22, 2024 3:41 pm
I am here 'to learn' how-to communicate better, with you human beings. Which means, I am not necessarily here to be understood by you ones here.
What a stupid way to learn how to communicate better with us human being, not being interested in being understood and not caring about the problems that arise in that very communication you want to get better at. But it's your life.
If 'my way' is 'stupid', to you, then so be it.
I am sure 'the way' of some will always remain 'stupid' to you, also.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Mon Jul 22, 2024 3:41 pm
The one who stated and claimed, 'That actually the sun does not revolve around the earth', other people thought of as nuts and/or intolerable, as well.
Notice that you are talking about content and I made it clear that I was talking about form. That the problems arise in relation to the way you communicate.
Well, obviously, 'the form', and/or 'the way', 'that one' was also using, was causing what you call 'problems', as well. Otherwise it would not have taken 'that one' so many years and as long as it did to 'get through' to 'you human beings'.
Just maybe if 'that one' took some time to learn how to communicate better, before it set out to explain some thing that could be proved True, then it might not have taken 'that one' so long to be 'heard', and 'understood'.
Also, and surely, 'the way' that 'that one' was expressing its 'ideas/views' were also seen to be 'stupid', to some, as well.
See, if it is 'the content' alone, and you human beings are not accepting and agreeing with, what 'ends or ended up' being the actual Truth anyway, then where is, and what is, the 'actual problem' causing 'the misunderstanding', exactly?
The answer is extremely obvious, by the way.
So, once one learns how to 'breakthrough' 'the barrier', literally, once and for all, then what you see and call 'the problem' here is removed forever more.
Now, obviously most or all of this is also 'going over your head', as some would say here, but, one day, this will be fully understood.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Mon Jul 22, 2024 3:41 pm
The masses do not like to be informed of things, which go completely against the 'popular belief'. So, me being called nuts, intolerable, or absolutely any other thing imaginable does not effect me at all.
I certaintly agree that many valuable ideas are reacted to this way. But that has little to do with my point. As you yourself said, you are first looking to improve your communication and human beings don't really know what your healing approach is. You just recently said this. So, they are not reacting negatively to your message, yet, but rather your approach to communication. But you don't care because people here aren't your target audience. Which is a stupid way to proceed. Since you consider our reactions to your approach of no relevance they you are not learning how to communicate with any target audience that is not us.
If you say and believe so, then it must be so. Well to you, at least, anyway.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Mon Jul 22, 2024 3:41 pm
This is where you end up when you contort yourself to avoid things.
Which is 'where', exactly?
Are you under some sort of assumption that I am stuck or am not getting anywhere here?
Also, just maybe I have not so-called 'contorted' "myself" at all here. Just maybe I am actually showing, and proving, here, in this forum, what it is, exactly, that I want to and will be demonstrating and revealing, to my targeted audience.
Also, your other assumption here is completely and utterly False and Wrong, as well.