I agree, it is always 'my fault'. Always has been and always will be.Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Mon Jul 22, 2024 7:01 amI am included there. See if you can figure out your assumption here. Where might I be in that list?
And then, lack of substance on your part.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Sun Jul 21, 2024 12:14 pmProjection.you really cannot let go of and get rid of this extremely wrong habit of yours here, can you?Projection.Once again, it is always 'my fault'.
Once again you make claims and accusations 'about me' here. But, will you, this time, back these up with absolutely any thing?Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Mon Jul 22, 2024 7:01 am \]You do intersperse questions for clarification. 1) these often include assumptions and negative judgments 2) it's not a context where we see who wins via more clairifying questions. There are many other things going on. Also, lack of substance.And, considering that it is 'me' who is continually seeking out, and asking for, clarification, what you ask and write here could very will be absolutely hypocritical.
LOL If you only knew "iwannaplato".Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Mon Jul 22, 2024 7:01 amIwannaplato wrote: ↑Sun Jul 21, 2024 12:14 pm It is often to the degree that one wonders if you actually want to communicate or perhaps you just want to 'confirm' your own judgments of people.Projection, lack of substance.See this is, exactly, what this one continually does.
Of course you did not. you said, and claimed, 'often in real life', as though you already 'knew'.Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Mon Jul 22, 2024 7:01 amIwannaplato wrote: ↑Sun Jul 21, 2024 12:14 pm But people haven't often in real life and online had problems with the way you communicate and to a severe degree. It's other people's fault, not yours.I'm sure you'll give us your evaluation if you want to. I didn't use the word 'know'.Just out of curiosity, how do you know what happens outside of this forum regarding 'me'?
Obviously you missed the context and what was meant. And, why you did is obviously because of what you continually do.Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Mon Jul 22, 2024 7:01 amThis is incorrect. I have many kind of interactions, here and elsewhere. You have blamed human beings for the way they behave and communicate, universally, since arriving here. You have made it clear you know everything. That is the context for your communication. While you don't often communicate these beleifs of your directly, they are implicit in the way you communicate. And yes, I used the word 'beliefs'. See my longer response after a quote a few quotes down.LOL The only one here who, continually, states that it is the other's fault 'in communication' here is 'you'.
Why? What is my behavior here, exactly, to you?Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Mon Jul 22, 2024 7:01 amI do remember you've said that. Your behavior says that is not the main motivation.And, in case you have forgotten, I am here to learn how to communicate better,
So, why write your sentence in the way you did, and with a question mark at the end? Why not just write an assertion instead, only?Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Mon Jul 22, 2024 7:01 amIwannaplato wrote: ↑Sun Jul 21, 2024 12:14 pmAre you even aware that you are aware of the disagreements we had, but you asked the question for no good reason?And, are you even aware that 'the example' actually proved the opposite of what you said and claimed, is what is True?It wasn't a question, it was an assertion.Once more, this one will not just answer and clarify. And, worse still, then asks questions as though its very own made up assumptions are actually already what is true and right.
For a, supposed, "teacher of the english language", that you cannot tell the actual difference between a question and an assertion could be quite worrying for some. Also, adding an assertion 'into' a question, does not make the sentence an assertion and not a question. But, being a, supposed, "english teacher" you would already understand and know this, right?
you have never shown where you 'believe', absolutely, that I did it.Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Mon Jul 22, 2024 7:01 am It's fine if you want to think of language in your own 'literal' way. I have tried to work with your habits of language, even though you have no noticed that I did this, and when you refer to our interactions it is always in binary terms where I never do a variety things, despite my doing them. One of these things I have done is, for periods, accepted that to communicate with you, one must, use language in an idiosyncratic way and/or take everything 'literally' - which can't actually be done, but one can move in that direaction. That cross-cultural effort has included pretending that a question mark makes a question a question, rather than it communicating something else in total or in the main. Sometimes I don't grant you the authority over languages and don't feel like pretending what you think your are doing is what is happening.But you have nothing to forget here, because you think you know everything. Which means the your core judgments about me and even down to what I want, cannot be honestly called into question by you. YOu are 100% certain of them. You take pains to get others to admit that they do not consider their beliefs and knowledge 100%, while you yourself think you know everything.Just out of curiosity, have you forgotten that your assumptions and beliefs here could be partly or absolutely Wrong and Incorrect?
No, I haven't forgotten that about my beliefs and assumptions. My intention is to never respond to that question or related questions again.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Sun Jul 21, 2024 12:14 pm Could it related to the need to correct and make negative judgments of humans beings?You have claimed it. I have shown where you did it.But, I have never made a negative judgment of you human beings. As I have clearly informed you of this already.
None of you would yet know.Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Mon Jul 22, 2024 7:01 amIwannaplato wrote: ↑Sun Jul 21, 2024 12:14 pm Could this relate to what you have experienced in your past.? Is it possible that the spirituality like approach you have relates to your particular neurouniqueness and that other people could have equally valid ways of thinking of identity and healing?So, the validity is shown by the rest all using it. By that criterion, your approach is not valid.If any one of you human beings had a 'equally valid way' of 'healing', then why are the rest of you not using 'it'?
Again, I am only here to learn how to communicate better, with you human beings, first.