Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Wed Jun 19, 2024 5:22 pm
Age wrote: ↑Wed Jun 19, 2024 4:40 pm
So, if you want 'me' to private message 'you', then why do 'you' not just private message 'me', instead?
Sure, that's an option. But it seemed you were reluctant to answer my question about how often you are in social or professional interactions where you get face to face feedback about your communication.
Really, it only 'seemed' like I was reluctant?
I thought I was making it blatantly obvious that I was reluctant.
I also thought I made the reason why I am reluctant blatantly obvious when I expressed that this site is a 'philosophy forum' and that how often one interacts so-called 'face-to-face' with others was of no 'philosophical issue' at all.
However, it appears that what I thought was 'blatantly obvious' was 'blatantly not', well to some anyway.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Wed Jun 19, 2024 5:22 pm
I thought perhaps a PM would be easier and suggested it.
And, I thought that it was blatantly obvious that you could private message me, and suggested it.
Again, you are absolutely free to private message me. And, to ask me absolutely any thing in a private message.
Just like you are absolutely free to ask me any thing in public, and to also try to make out that you are more superior, to me, or others, in public arena as well.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Wed Jun 19, 2024 5:22 pm
What 'you' are doing here would be like someone waiting for another one to call them, and telling the other to call them. Which, from my perspective, is beyond absurdity and stupidity.
No, it's not like that situation and I'm not waiting.
Okay.
So, 'this' is really another complete none issue, right?
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Wed Jun 19, 2024 5:22 pm
Also, why have you previously claimed, and on more than one occasion, that you will never speak with me again, but yet here you are now speaking with me and requesting 'me' to 'private message' 'you'. Can you recognize any 'mixed messages' you are communicating here.
I've certainly gotten fed up with and expressed that in whatever way I did. And it wouldn't surprise me if I said I'd never contact you again.
So, do you, often, say and claim things, to others, but then 'go back on your word', or do you only do this some times?
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Wed Jun 19, 2024 5:22 pm
Once I explained to you that language is expressive and a way to convey information (and other things also).
Off topic.
you said, and claimed, that you would never communicate with me, ever again, yet here you communicating 'with me', and even suggesting that I can contact you through private messaging.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Wed Jun 19, 2024 5:22 pm
You reacted to this quite negatively, if I remember correctly, seeming not to realize that a lot of literal language is actually metaphorical.
Besides this being off-topic, again, and this being another attempt of yours to appear as though you are superior to me and/or that you know more than I do, this is just another load of absolute lies or misinformation. I have never not realized that you adult human beings, in the days when this is being written, very regularly use metaphorical language.
After all you adult human beings, literally, quite often do not say what you, actually, mean, and do not mean what you, actually, say, or write.
This is blatantly obvious, well to me anyway, so I have absolutely no idea nor clue as to why, to you, that I would seem to not realize 'this'. Are you able to explain why 'this' has appeared, to you, and why you assumed such a Wrong thing as 'this'?
Have you ever considered that you 'see' things and say and write things in 'a way', and in public, so as to come across as 'the other' is less than, or more inferior, to you, or to 'the way' that you are?
you may well do this completely unconsciously, but have you ever considered that you might be doing this but have not, yet, realized that you do this?
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Wed Jun 19, 2024 5:22 pm
This attitude you have often comes in clusters with myopic focus, perseveration and the others parts of your communication I mentioned earlier.
Again, off topic. Let 'us' not forget that you said and claimed that you would never communicate with me, ever again, but yet here you are.
Anyway, could 'this attitude', supposedly of mine, which 'you' continually 'see', and continually 'talk about', here, in public. be some thing which does not actually exist but which is some thing that 'you want to see', and which you would like to express and convey, to others, 'about me', for reasons that I have expressed above here?
Or, is this not a possibility that could ever exist and occur in 'your world' and/or in 'your thinking'?
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Wed Jun 19, 2024 5:22 pm
Furthermore, if, and when, you decide to admit the mistakes that you have made here and the Wrong and False claims also, which I have pointed out shown here, then I will think about private messaging you.
Oh, I've pointed out false claims you've made about me many times and while you can manage to agree your grammar or spelling is incorrect, I haven't seen you admit anything of significance.
But, just like I have previously said, there are quite a lot of what I am saying, and actually meaning, which you do 'not see', and even admit to 'not seeing'.
Even in this thread, for example, you wrote;
So, do you think driving fossil-fuelled cars is immoral?
And then claimed;
This one has posted about the OP topic in a primarily questioning approach. I wonder if this one will actually take a position on the issue, here in the thread.
To which I replied;
But, I already have a so-called 'position', on this issue. Which, by the way, some would have ascertained, or partly ascertained, by now.
And concluded with;
However, there are others, like "iwannaplato" who, still, have absolutely no idea nor clue at all.
So, again, a lot of what I say, and mean, which you do 'not see', and MISS, here. So, it is not surprising at all that you have 'not seen' when I have admitted things here.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Wed Jun 19, 2024 5:22 pm
I did not exactly write what I my post assumed I would, earlier around 'This one...'
Thank you for, finally, admitting this.
it took some work, from me, to get 'here', but we finally got here.
Also, my point was never about you not writing what you assumed you would. My point was that you claimed that you 'did write' what you assumed you would. Which, again and obviously, you did 'not write' 'it'.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Wed Jun 19, 2024 5:22 pm
Otherwise my claims about you I stand by - which, of course, does not mean I am 100% certain, unlike you with all your proofs and irrefutables and so on.
1. What are 'your claims' 'about me', exactly, which you now say and claim that 'you stand by'?
2. And, if you are not 100% certain of 'your claims' anyway, then why would you even claim that 'you stand by them'? Do you not see 'the contradiction' here.
3. When I have become savvy to a 'proof', which obviously has to be irrefutable, then I can make a claim, and do make claims, which I am actually 100% certain about, unlike you, and they are the ones that 'I stand by'.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Wed Jun 19, 2024 5:22 pm
Our little king of absolutism.
Do you speak and write like this because you are not certain about absolutely any thing?
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Wed Jun 19, 2024 5:22 pm
I realize there may be a misconception on your part.
Whereas I know there are misconceptions on your part.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Wed Jun 19, 2024 5:22 pm
I did not suggest PMs for a general discussion. I was suggesting as a way to focus on that single issue: how much you meet others in person where you get feedback on your communication. Just that. So it is a conditional suggestion: if you are will to be clear about that issue, let's do it by PM.
you say and claim that 'my grammar and communication' is not always clear and right. Do you think or believe that your communication and grammar always is?
Could you express what you are trying to say here, better and/or clearer?
Also, as I have suggested earlier, if you are willing to be Truly open and honest here, then I will private message you.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Wed Jun 19, 2024 5:22 pm
The reason my decision to communicate or not - with posters like you, VA and Iambiguous, is that I notice something different - often I noticed how I've been distracted by inessentials, earlier, in my interactions. So, I get curious if I focus on something that I haven't earlier or haven't in quite the same way.
The reason my decision to communicate or not, with posters like you and others, is for other reasons.
But, so what?
Who cares what 'your claimed reason' is for why you communicate with some, and not others?