Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
Age wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 7:48 am
"iwannaplato" appears to have, now, realised that what it was trying to claim as true here is actually a complete and utter Falsehood. Not that from past behaviour "iwannaplato" will ever admit to this.
Nope.
What are you 'Noping' to here, exactly? I did make more that one point.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
The reason I decided to stop here, in this thread, was explained in my previous post, both in my reactions to your evasiveness and in the summation.
Once again, I was never being evasive. Obviously, to answer your question/s Accurately,Correctly, and thus properly I needed to obtain clarifications from you, which, by the way, you have, still, yet to clarify.
Also, you see to have completely and utterly missed the main point I made here. Which was because you have further refused to clarify your position, after I responded to that post if yours, you are signally that you will not admit that I have actually proved the claim I made, which also completely refuted the claim you made.
If you do not want to admit this, then that is all well and good. That it was you who ended up proving my claim True is just the way things occured.
Also, is it, to you, not somewhat very contradictory and hypocritical to respond 'now', by explaining that the reason you 'stopped' you explained, previously?
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
I certainly could have laid it out more clearly. What I experienced as your game playing and evasiveness led to my lack of interest, again, in this thread with communicating with you.
Yet, here you are, once again, communicating with me, when you think it will suit you.
Look "iwannaplato" if you do not want to be OPEN and Honest when I point out that your belief and claim is absolutely Wrong, when everyone agrees on some thing, and respond to that, then so be it. But, choosing to respond to me 'now' just shows how little faith and belief you have in your own claims here .
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
Notice that you mind read my reasons for stopping.
you are being so foolish here, once again.
Notice how you are, again, assuming that I was thinking some thing/s.
Also, you are missing the actual point of why I am pointing out why you did not respond here. This is because you are way too busy making assumptions and presumptions 'about me' and/or what I was doing.
Once more I will suggest that if, and when, you stop doing that, then you will be able to keep up and understand far more here
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
Notice that your mind reading interpretation is convenient for you and your beliefs.
Which are 'what', exactly?
What are my, supposed, interpretations and beliefs here?
Not that you will ever answer, because you will only end up proving your claim here False and Wrong.
This one appears to not even slightly recognise and see that it is doing, exactly, what it claims I am doing.
But, let 'us' see if it actually knows what it claims here. So far it is way off and completely Wrong.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
Yes, you used the word 'appear', but it's still a story you tell yourself and any readers and one that matches your desires.
Now, what are my supposed desires?
Not that you will ever answer, because if you did you would only end up proving your claim here False and Wrong.
you have so many interpretations 'of me' here, but let 'us' see if any of them are even close to being Correct.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
Not that from past behaviour "iwannaplato" will ever admit to this.
this is a poor sentence because of the kind of causation it implies. This sentence.....
"Given his past behavior, I don't think he will ever admit this."
indicates a causation that makes sense. My past behavior is what you are basing your view on.
Obviously. And you keep proving True my views here.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
Given your past behavior, Age, I don't think you can admit you are wrong about any of the views you hold dear.
Like which ones, exactly?
What I think that will be found here is that you do not yet even know what my views are, exactly. Let alone you being able to show and prove where my actual views are wrong.
Obviously you will have to show what my views are, exactly, and then prove how they are wrong, for me to be able to admit that they are.
But, you continually fail to just even show what my views are, correctly.
So, until you 'step up', as some would say, what you are saying here is nothing at all, really.
Also, why only the ones you say and claim that I hold dearly'?
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
And these include accusations and judgments made about people in general, in the time this is being written, and the individuals you aim your judgments at.
Could you get more loose, careless, or vague here?
Provide actual and precise claims 'about me', then 'we' have at least some thing to 'look at', discuss, and make findings from.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
And when you have met more than a little resistance from a poster here, given your past behavior, there seems to be a pattern of digging your heels in even more.
Did the one who claimed that the earth revolves around the sun 'dig their heels in', when their was resistance from others?
There is absolutely nothing wrong at all in 'sticking to what one knows is irrefutably and probably True', from those of you who want to resist.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
Given your past behavior, Age, I don't think you will stop being evasive and giving other people (or trying to) most of the responsibility for clarifying and assertion.
Do you actually believe that you are not responsible to back up and support the claims that you make here?
I, by the way, just back up, support, and prove my claims in a different way than you adult human beings do. Like, for example, how I proved True my claim above here, by and through you 'iwannaplato".
See, actually it was 'you' who refuted your own claim here, and consequently proved my claim absolutely True.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
Which in turn means that they are given (or 'you try to give them') most of the burden of justification.
Well, everytime you claim things like, for example, '
There is nothing that every one will agree on'.
then do you really expect that the burden of justification is not upon you?
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
One you never accept even when presenting your own ideas directly, which you did for a short period when you started a few threads.
you, really, still, have absolutely no clue nor idea how I proved True the claims I present here.
Once again, I do this 'through' you posters here. So, and obviously, if you posters stop responding, the ability for me to prove my claims irrefutably True, Right, Accurate, and/or Correct also ceases.
For example, if you did not respond here, now, then I would not have been able to show and prove how you countered and refuted your own claim, "yourself", which in, in turn, it was you who has also proved my claim absolutely True and Right
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
Even in those threads interlocutors were then requested over and over to explain their objections, as an avoidance of you actually justifying your assertions.
Once more, I use you posters here to prove my claims True.
See, if any one of you has an 'objection', or claim, then, once again, I will suggest that you have the actual proof for your claim and/or objection before you make your objection/claim public, here.
I can, and will, prove absolutely every claim I make here True, and if I cannot, then I will just admit where I was wrong.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
A pattern you seem to find evasive when the shoe is on the other foot.
There is a saying, 'the pit calling the kettle Black's.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
It would be lovely if you met someone else who had the same style of interaction you have but made other assertions, ones that did not match your views.
It would be more than just lovely.
'We' would both be using each other to prove "ourselves" Correct.
And, the actual Truth of things would be presented far more quickly, far more easily, and far more simply. In fact, if and when 'we' are to meet, then the actual Truth of things will be presented, relatively, almost immediately for you human beings.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
The endless attempts to shift the burden of justification would be hilarious AND it would occupy you, yes, endlessly.
Obviously, you, once again, have a very closed and very narrowed view of things here, as well.
There is not much at all that you are open to, is there?
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
I am not and it. Here's a little Martin Buber for ya....
"When I confront a human being as my Thou and speak the basic word I-Thou to him, then he is no thing among things nor does he consist of things."
"In the I-It relationship, the I is experienced as an individual subject that uses objects.'
"I-It is the world of experience and use. It is composed of things of use, but also of things that are only experienced and evaluated."
"In the relation of I to It the object is experienced and used. The primary word I-Thou can only be spoken with the whole being."
My sense is that in life away from computer interactions and in relation to others in real world interactions, others have noted and instrumental, I-It, aspect to how how relate to others.
Once again "iwannaplato" your own made up and constructed beliefs, which you hold onto very dearly and closely, are narrowing you to the extend of you being absolutely closed off to anything else. As you are very clearly showing here.
This one makes so many presumptions and judgements of others that this even extends to this one making them in regards to what writers do outside of them writing.
Are you even able to just stop 'looking at', judging, and/or making accusations of others?
Are you at all able to just 'look at' the words alone, and only, and just respond to them alone, and only? Or, is this not possible, to you?
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
That there are social limitations in your style of interaction and this has been noticed and communicated to you.
Who cares?
I interact the way I want to.
There are social limitations in your style if interaction, and this has been noticed as is being communicated to you. So, what are you going to do about this, now?
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
Perhaps by some people who could not do this in a loving way. You can of course focus on the epistemology of my assertion.
I have already proved your assertion False, Wrong, Inaccurate, and Incorrect.
And, you can focus on the Fact that it was through you' and your own self-refutation of your own assertion, which proved my assertion here.
Will you focus on this Fact?
If no, then why not?
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am But you yourself have memories and can silently check to see if this is true. If you want to relay your generalized and individual judgments of nearly everyone at the time this is being written, expect to find them coming back at you.
you can resist, and brings things back, but if you cannot stand behind, back up, and support your accusations, claims, or assertions, then so be it.
What will happen, happens.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
I don't accept being referred to as 'it' which I have told you before in at least one other thread.
If you accept it or not is of no real concern to me.
Now, why does the one known as "iwannaplato" not want to accept it as an 'it'?
What is the 'logical reason' for this, exactly?
Maybe you believe that 'you' are, somehow, better than other 'its/things', and so are neither an 'it' nor a 'thing', is this true?
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
I have doubts about you changing some of your core views about people in the near future.
Who cares what you 'doubt'?
What you 'doubt' does not necessarily align with what is actually True. Also, many probably 'doubted' that the one who had the 'core view' that the earth revolves the sun was also going to change that core view, in the future also.
Why would anyone want to change a 'core view', which they know is provably True, and/or the actual Truth of things anyway?
Oh, and by the way, what do you even believe are my precise 'core views' of you people, which you doubt about me changing, in the near future?
Show the readers here that you are at least capable of clarifying just this one thing here.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
I have doubts you will stop thinking that you can treat people like 'its'.
So, what are 'its', to you, and why are you people not 'its', to you, exactly?
Let 'us' see if you will clarify anything here.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
And I think your self-image as not being like most people, whom you negatively judge, and having a role that would surprise me (and presumably others) in what is coming adds to the schema in your head that allows this I-It kind of relation.
Okay.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
But despite all those doubts, I do not consider you an it.
I could not care one iota if 'you' did, especially considering what the actual irrefutable Truth is here.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
And I can feel sympathy for what has driven you to treat people this way and have the negative views you have of most humans at the time this is being written.
See, how you continually keep presuming and imagining things here?
Are you even aware that your presumptions and imagining could be absolutely completely False and Wrong?
Do you also have sympathy for what has driven you to treat others the way that you do and have the negative views you have of some?
Or, do 'you' only have that, for 'me' only here?
And, remember to feel free to answer these clarifying questions, which I pose, and ask you here.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
I don't think you're an it. You're human. A living and potentially changing living being. I feel no urge to dehumanize you, however annoying your human foibles are.
What do you envision and perceive are my so-called 'human foibles', exactly?
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
I am sure you think I don't understand your motivations for using the 'it' and the schema it is a part of. You're likely wrong about that.
you, really, do spend a lot of your time here trying to imagine and presume things here 'about me'.
Why are you 'sure' I think that you do not understand my motivations for using the 'it' word, and the schema it is a part of?
Is it possible that what you are 'sure' if her could be wrong?
And, for 'us' to find out if you, really, do know what my motivation for using the 'it' word here, and the schema it is a part of, can be found out and verified, irrefutably, by you just informing 'us' of what my motivations are, exactly, for using the 'it' word, and for the schema it is a part of.
Will you do this? Have you got the courage to even begin to do this?
Also, before we can even progress to finding out if your claim that I am likely wrong about 'that' is even true and right, you will first have to prove that 'that' is even true.
Are you capable of doing this?
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
Perhaps in future interactions you'll avoid referring to me as 'it', just as a mere gesture of kindness or respect, even if you think deep down you are addressing an it or might be. Perhaps not.
Are you, really, that lacking in self-confidence and/or self-esteem here?
Also, when you can, also, answer the question, 'Who am 'I'? as well, the 'you' will, also, understand things much better, here.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
To be clear: I am discontinuing the discussion in this thread, for the second time, this time because you were evasive.
you have, on quite a few occasions in this thread, 'threatened' to 'end discussions with me', but on each occasion you have failed.
Also, want to leave 'this time, now's, after I refuted your claim, absolutely, is of no suprise at all. This is, generally, when you do want to 'end discussions', with me
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
And while I found your new to me way of being evasive amusing, it still indicated to me, given your past behavior, that you will not be forthcoming.
Are you brave enough to list here what you claim I have been evasive in regards to, exactly? Or, do you, still, just want to make accusations, and then run away, again?
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
Obviously your free to project your fantasies onto my choice, but it just makes you look like you have little self-knowledge. The word 'appear' doesn't eliminate this. And the second part of your fantasy even lacked that qualification.
Could you be falsely imagining and fantasizing here? Or, is this not a possibility, in your own little world view here?
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
There is the limited interpretation one could make of...
If a person then does not get exactly right what is being taught to them, then somehow that person has become or supposedly stupid, dumb, not smart or one of the many other put-down names.
or the spirit of it, which would then include not just those put-downs but the ones you have used in relation to most people at the time this is being written and, for example, calling people 'it'.
This here is another prime example of how this one's own interpretations, imaginations, and presumptions are completely and utterly False and Wrong.
But, this is the result when one does not seek out and obtain clarification, and instead just relies on its own presumptions and beliefs.
Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Jun 13, 2024 9:33 am
It also goes beyond simply learning when being taught but into the general understanding that intimacy and connection requires a mutual process, not one where primarily one side must justify nearly everything, while the other side need not.
Status and dehumanization can be implicit in the dynamic, even when not explicitly stated.
Communication is not just words, even in an online forum.
This one is more bamboozled and delusional here than I first thought.
Look, the main point in my last response, which this very lengthy response of yours here was directed at, is that by your own self-admission you admitted that there are things that everyone could agree with. And, your own words you have acknowledged one thing that just not everyone could agree with but that everyone does actually agree on.
So, you have refuted your own assertion and have also proved my claim, for me.