Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Feb 24, 2023 7:09 pm
Dontaskme wrote: ↑Fri Feb 24, 2023 9:50 am
I've never had a NDE personally, but my mum did when she was involved in a nasty car crash in her 20's. She told me her experience had helped her let go of the fear of dying.
Thanks for your thoughtful response.
Yes, no more fear of dying. For me, having an out-of-body experience of awareness without any attachment or identity, free of fear and need and judgement, changed the way I thought about things after I was back in this body and this world/life. I had a new sense of things not being so terribly serious, while at the same time having a sense of more freedom and capability as a result. It has been a relief and an inspiration.
(As I've also written about before...) Years later, I had another profound experience during a walking meditation in the forest of suddenly seeing 'behind the worldly veil' with startling clarity for a few moments, and being filled with the understanding that all was perfect and fine. I wished that we humans could share and live with such an awareness,
Some of 'us' do ALREADY. But some do NOT BELIEVE this when 'we' say we do.
Also, telling children that 'all is perfect and fine' when they are being ABUSED is NOT the most helpful NOR Right thing to do.
Furthermore, as long as one KNOWS that there is a LOT MORE that they, "them" 'self', could do to CHANGE for the BETTER while understanding that 'all is perfect and fine', literally MEANS that ALL is ACTUALLY perfect and fine. BUT, if while one is saying or understanding that 'all is perfect and fine' while continuing on as they have been, then, OBVIOUSLY, NOT ALL is perfect and fine.
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Feb 24, 2023 7:09 pm
but I understood that was not where we were at nor what we were doing. That experience, too, has impacted my way of thinking and living ever since.
But if that experience has NOT CHANGED 'you', away from your ABUSIVE WAYS, then, REALLY, NOT is ALL perfect and fine, AT ALL.
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Feb 24, 2023 7:09 pm
Dontaskme wrote: ↑Fri Feb 24, 2023 9:50 amI was no longer in control of myself, it was so intense and made me want to jolt out of the sensation, which I did. I've only ever experienced this once in my whole life, the experience has never repeated, and it's something I'll never forget.
Such experiences/glimpses stay with you! I think 'being in control' within this human cocoon is a huge part of our human need/experience, and our minds and bodies aren't really made for much beyond this... but that's okay!
Here is this 'mind' word AGAIN. So, what are these 'minds', EXACTLY?
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Feb 24, 2023 7:09 pm
When we poke our heads through the veil just enough to see beyond the limitations of our world/reality, I think we can use that broadened awareness to expand and free our capability and potential from the ego creations/beliefs we might otherwise be intoxicated with.
LOL WHY just 'poke' around? WHY NOT just go BEYOND and LIVE THERE, INSTEAD? If and when 'you' do, then there will NOT be ANY MORE of the CONFUSION that OBVIOUSLY exists in the days when this is being written.
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Feb 24, 2023 7:09 pm
Simply having the realization that there's 'more' than the human entrapments, and that this is not the end-all/be-all, offers me more tools and capability to see and be and do more than I otherwise might.
I FOUND it MUCH BETTER to KNOW, FOR SURE, the 'MORE', and NOT just 'realize' that there is 'MORE'.
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Feb 24, 2023 7:09 pm
The reason why I'm
here no longer matters. I'm engaging in what is and continually exploring with as much thoughtfulness and appreciation as I can muster at any given time.
LOL "lacewing". you are just FOOLING "yourself" here.
you COULD explore with MUCH MORE thoughtfulness and MUCH MORE appreciation than you do here now, that is; if you were Truly Honest with "yourself".
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Feb 24, 2023 7:09 pm
And when I seem to 'screw up' or thrash around too much, it's all just part of the dance. No need for severe condemnation. Just more of a chance to learn/practice greater compassion and love.
What do you mean by 'seem' to screw up?
Either you do 'screw up' or you do not. So, which one is 'it'?
Also, if you are NOT CHANGING, for the BETTER, then NO amount of compassion NOR love is REALLY going to matter here. If you are NOT CHANGING, for the BETTER, then you WILL just KEEP ON REPEATING the Wrong and just KEEP 'screwing up'. That is, if you REALLY ever do 'screw up'?
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Feb 24, 2023 7:09 pm
I think the only thing that might matter beyond this human adventure ride/reality/world is the kind of energy we've nurtured/expressed/created here. I don't know -- but I try to create and act for the right reasons with awareness beyond the limits of the human stage and stories.
I suggest INSTEAD of just 'trying to' do the things here that you actually DO the things here, INSTEAD.
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Feb 24, 2023 7:09 pm
There's a lot of play. Any reasonable god would 'get this'.

It's beautiful and worthy of love. Anyone who takes it all too seriously is caught up in drama.
Is HOLDING the BELIEF that God does NOT exist and/or could NEVER exist taking it all too seriously here? Or, is this BELIEF a perfectly NORMAL one to HAVE and HOLD?
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Feb 24, 2023 7:09 pm
Dontaskme wrote: ↑Fri Feb 24, 2023 9:50 am...our impression of being an ''individual soul'' who is having a separate experience is like the impression a wave arising from the ocean has of itself. The ocean endlessly generates infinite numbers of waves, and each one believes for the brief duration of it's appearance that itself, and all the other waves, are not connected.
Perhaps there is one ocean of consciousness, and it generates infinite numbers of points of attention. You are a point of attention in the ocean of consciousness. So am I. But really, behind our masks of separate individual identities and experiences, we are really one thing experiencing ourself under the temporary arrangement of taking on a specific role wearing different masks, some of which are more denser and heavier than others. But some masks are more transparent in the sense they can see more clearly the illusion of separateness.
Very nice description. We would not judge the ocean and its waves as being right or wrong for what they simply are and do.
So, "others" could ABUSE children, for example, and you would NOT judge this as being right NOR wrong, correct?
To you this would just be simply what they are and do. Is this correct?
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Feb 24, 2023 7:09 pm
Nor would we demand that the ocean be divided up into specific independently working parts.
LOL NO one that I KNOW OF 'demands' ANY such thing.
LOOKING AT the 'Ocean' in divided, specific independently working parts is HOW the human brain WORKS 'things' OUT and comes-to COMPREHENDING and UNDERSTANDING HOW thee One 'Thing' ACTUALLY WORKS.
The human brain, itself, can only UNDERSTAND by LOOKING AT the PARTS of the WHOLE.
To WORK OUT HOW 'things' WORK 'you' HAVE TO LOOK AT 'them' INDIVIDUALLY. And this is HOW how the human brain ACTUALLY WORKS was ALSO WORKED OUT and UNDERSTOOD, FULLY.
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Feb 24, 2023 7:09 pm
It all works together as one, and it's more vast and varied than our small human identities can fathom, and that's wonderful and perfect.
HOW ALL-THERE-IS WORKS, together as One, has ALREADY been WORKED OUT FAR MORE than your OWN VERY SMALL and LIMITED 'view of things' here "lacewing". SOME human beings just take a LOT LONGER to come-to REALIZE, COMPREHEND, and UNDERSTAND SOME 'things'.
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Feb 24, 2023 7:09 pm
We might as well be content swimming in it and improving our surfing skills.
Sayings like this one that keeps human beings "justifying to themselves", ONLY, to keep on doing what they have been doing. Which are OBVIOUSLY VERY Wrong and STUPID.