Harbal wrote: ↑Sat Jan 21, 2023 9:00 pm
Immanuel Can wrote: ↑Fri Jan 20, 2023 7:07 pm
Harbal wrote: ↑Fri Jan 20, 2023 6:00 pm
Your wall is every bit as high as IC's, btw, Alexis.
As hard as this may be to imagine, H., there are other ways of living and seeing things than your own.
So you think I'm too dogmatic, do you?
No. Not dogmatic. But it's all too easy to imagine that other people are sort of "you, in other clothes."
That is, that they are basically acting in ways that you would act, were you them. We all tend to see ourselves as "normal," "rational" and "realistic." And thus we can assume that others could not possibly ACTUALLY believe very differently from whatever they do, and that their knowledge and experiences must be pretty much harmonious with our own...not too radically different, anyway.
That's not dogmatic. It's just a kind of well-intended and natural projection of the self onto others. It's still often misleading.
That doesn't mean you owe me, or AJ, for that matter, to agree we've got things right...you owe us nothing, in fact, obviously. But it does mean that a person isn't necessarily inauthentic or "behind a wall" for thinking very differently from the way you are inclined to.
You have misunderstood the "wall" comment. It is nothing to do with your thinking, or its being different from the way I am inclined to think. You have an agenda, and pursue it with an alarming single-mindedness; you treat every interaction you have here as an opportunity to proselytise; you are absolutely relentless, and trying to reason with you often feels like trying to reason with a machine.
Look at the topic at the top of the page. If I'm a Christian, and the topic is Christianity, with what sort of voice would you expect me to speak? Would it be that of a somewhat cynical secularist who is not really a Christian? Or would you expect me to speak as an actual Christian, and tell you the truth about what I actually think?
That you may know which it is, I always provide references. And I quote Scripture. And I do these things, not because I expect that you believe them, but because If I'm going to speak
as a Christian, I owe you the proof that that is the voice with which I'm speaking...and I owe you the means to check me on that, by examining for yourself to see if the Word that governs Christian life actually supports the claim I'm making, or I'm just making it up.
Now, what would you prefer? That I speak as a Christian and provide the evidence, or that I speak from myself, acting as a kind of faux-secularist, pretending to be a Christian, toss some opinions off the cuff, and not even bother to back up what I say with the Word of God or give you the means to check me?
Cuz it can only be one way.
