Harbal wrote: ↑Fri Dec 16, 2022 4:32 pm
Immanuel Can wrote: ↑Fri Dec 16, 2022 3:05 pm
Harbal wrote: ↑Fri Dec 16, 2022 9:07 am
But eternal nothingness is not something that anyone will ever experience, is it? After death, there is nothing, or no one, to experience it. That doesn't seem too bad to me, and certainly not something I find threatening.
I think maybe because people feel it has some sort of analogy with sleep. But sleep is a process of the living, of course.
I think to compare it to the vast expanse of time before we were born is a better way to think of it.
Yes, probably: but then, of course, we had no idea what we would
not be having. And that's an interesting feature about life: that even people who are not particularly happy by way of circumstances, or even by disposition, will instinctively want more of it. Very few indeed are the people who are so disenchanted by it that they just "off" themselves instantly. Even suicides are often misguided people who hope, by their actions, to "change" their lot in life and its meaning, by leaving an impression on others -- that's why they write suicide notes.
People, once they've experienced life, want more of it. And they want better. And if I think they can have it, why wouldn't I tell them they can, and tell them as well how I think they can?
You can't argue that something cannot be true simply because it would be terribly sad if it were.

No, and I don't try to say that. But likewise, a thing doesn't become more true simply by way of being harsh, cynical, or negative.
But if something is sad, then it is certainly good incentive to want something better, some alternative. Nihilistic resignation is a very poor option. And in any case, if the Nihilist were right, why not even delude yourself? If it makes a person happy, even if one were to become idiotically happy, why would the Nihilist speak against that option? For him, nothing matters anyway...not even truth.
But Nihilism's cynicism doesn't make it wise. It just makes it cynical.
And there are then no morals, meanings, purposes and projects that "matter" at all...because ultimately, nothing matters. It's all just the spinning out of chance and time, until the universe itself settles forever into heat death
Morals, personal purpose and many other things matter to most people during their life, regardless of whether or not they believe in an afterlife. I don't expect an afterlife, but things here on earth matter to me.
That is true, and I get that. But think what it implies.
It implies that, for some reason, people just can't or don't want to live without these things,
even though their personal beliefs may assure them they're all bunk! 
That's a startling fact, and needs some explanation: why would we, mere chance products of an indifferent universe, come to have a desperate longing for things that have absolutely no reality behind them? In fact, from what sort of inducement would such an urge even first emerge?
Whatever that prospect offers, it's considerably less than eternal life, and it's considerably less than the life that human beings need.
Maybe eternal life would be preferable, and maybe it wouldn't, but I agree that some human beings do need to believe there is more than nothing after their physical death.
Yes. That's the fact I think needs explanation.
It sounds quite weird and maladaptive, if one thinks about it from, say, a Materialist or Evolutionary theory of things. Why would materials or chance and time induce people to want so passionately and universally things that have no prospect of fulfillment, and no reality in existence at all?
IC wrote:Harbal wrote:I never understand what that means. Words have meaning; when we speak or write them down they mean something, but life is a state of existence, not a message. How can it mean something?
By having been created for something. By having a purpose built into its design, instead of being a mere product of time and chance.
But that purpose would have nothing to do with me. God might have an interest in seeing the purpose fulfilled, but I haven't.
Oh, I don't think that's true at all. I think that things that find their right use become elegant, powerful, effective and useful.
A hammer can be used for doing things like, say, opening a tin of beans. But it works very badly at that. When a hammer becomes an elegant tool is when one is, say, a cooper making a barrel, or an iron worker shaping iron. Then, the hammer really sings. It's an instrument that has found its right use, its right place, and is doing what it was designed to do.
And I wonder if human beings aren't very much like that. When they find their right use, they start to sing. There's nothing so wonderful as watching a high-calibre athlete float through a defense and score effortlessly, or a talented musician take those high notes to soaring heights, or watching a skilled negotiator navigate a tough negotiation into a solution that results in everybody slapping each other on the back and shaking hands...these things are elegant and beautiful.
And I think that the reason so many people are unhappy is maybe that they've never found their right use. They've never felt what it is to be in the moment and say, "I was born to be here; this is what I do, and what I was made for." That's an astonishing and delightful thing, if you have ever had such a moment. And what if many, many more such moments were possible; and not just moments, but an ongoing feeling of being exactly at the right place, at the right time, and being perfectly swimming in one's element? How could that sort of thing be anything less than delightful?
So maybe we do have a stake -- a real stake -- in seeing God's design purposes in us fulfilled. Maybe when
He wins,
we win.
And many people do fill their lives with purpose, or seem to. If God can grant purpose, then purposes must be capable of being granted, in which case why can't we grant them to ourselves?
Well, because we're not God. We are not our own designer, and cannot make ourselves into what we were not designed to be, without causing ourselves suffering as a result. And we don't have control of our own situation, so we find that even the errant purposes we design for ourselves are uncommonly hard to achieve. So we end up frustrated and bitter, because life hasn't delivered to us what we demanded of it...it wouldn't let us "grant ourselves" what we thought we wanted.
How about if I don't have power to deliver it, but I know Who does?
I find the propagation of religious beliefs distasteful, and often sinister, so I am bound to disaprove of it. I have similar feelings towards more extreme political beliefs, also.
I actually share that. I am very, very skeptical about politics. And I'm very, very skeptical about authoritarian religiosity, as well.
However, sharing of well-considered insights, I find quite pleasing. And the sharing of good news is a wonderful thing to do. I think everything's okay, so long as the person on the other end of the line gets to choose, at the end of the day, what he or she is willing to believe.
The chief thing I detest about both politics and authoritarian religiosity is
compulsion, the use of force and trickery instead of conversation and persuasion.