Alexis Jacobi wrote: ↑Mon Jul 11, 2022 7:28 pm
Belinda wrote: ↑Mon Jul 11, 2022 6:22 pm
Women's nature, like human nature, is what is possible. It's impossible for a woman to breathe water or be a species of reptile. Possibility is the ground of being. I imagine the Creator dwells with possibility, and men do the creating from possibility.
A couple of comments. First is that I agree that man can choose an infinite array of possibilities as well as *identities* (my asterisks are simply for emphasis). One can be influenced to operate with traditional notions, and one can also be influenced to operate with radical notions. And one can even be influenced to go to ultra-radical definitions such as identifying as a '
furry':
The furry fandom is a subculture interested in anthropomorphic animal characters with human personalities and characteristics. Examples of anthropomorphic attributes include exhibiting human intelligence and facial expressions, speaking, walking on two legs, and wearing clothes.
When
moorings are severed, or consciously abandoned, just imagine the endless possibilities! So let me cut to the chase: it is possible for people to also 'go crazy' or go hysterical and seek identifications in the wildest of possibilities. But then someone will have to assess: Is this madness? Is this right? And what will result from it?
Who will do that?
For inanimate things possibility and actuality are the same. It was always determined from the beginning of time that inanimate things, that have no notion there will be a future, would do as they did. Intelligent animals look to the future and decide accordingly.
Yes, I surely get your point.
If you "surrender " to motherhood you are behaving like an inanimate thing that does what it must do. Sure pregnancy and motherhood are possibilities. It's a human responsibility to decide whether or not to actualise that possibility or not.
No, here I would not agree with you. I would ask questions to one who has chosen, for whatever reasons, to abandon motherhood. True, my tendency would be to ask questions based on my traditionalist sense of things. I agree with you though: one could choose not to actualize the motherhood role. But again one could do any number of different things as well. Some of them would be understood as 'sane' and others would be questioned.
Who questions?
Quo warranto?
The fact that some of the woman's genitals are hollow organs does not imply that she must inevitably be a receptacle. Sometimes there are other receptacles for sperm, penis, or fertilised ovum. Your informant mistakes Christian symbolism for reality.
Well, according to nature and nature's enforced rules I think you are wrong. Young girls are
driven, against their own wills, to seek mates, to realize themselves as sexually attractive, and often to give themselves to those desirable boys. It is something that is done and not thought about. Nature is a dominating power. Mother Nature a
tyrannical power.
I agree that
culture can intervene and can restrain the most basic and insistent drives. That is what culture is. And I agree with you that cultural rules have become flexible and challenged and that no one agrees as to what is 'right'.
BTW instead of "exploring all the different modes of possibility" why not edit it to "exploring possibilities"?
You can say that if you wish! But as I have pointed out I think we have a duty to come to definitions, to base them on sound ideas, and then to enforce them through cultural mores.