I don't agree that "'Tis better to have loved and lost / Than never to have loved at all." It's just too sentimental, it's not in my opinion the work of rational sense, it's like saying, hurt me, hurt me, I love it, please keep doing it, I loved being repeatedly whipped, just so I get to eat a cupcake when it stops.Immanuel Can wrote: ↑Sat Jul 10, 2021 6:21 pmI didn't say that.Dontaskme wrote: ↑Sat Jul 10, 2021 6:15 amOh well, life is just amazing then isn't it, it's all so good because I have a dog.Immanuel Can wrote: ↑Fri Jul 09, 2021 11:43 pm
Well, in the ideal, I agree. Good things should last.
But even the things that fade, get hurt, get stained or decay, or even die can be good.
You know that if you've ever owned a dog.
But if you've had a dog (ir cat) before, you know that eventually they pass away. And as sad as that is, you know that, as the old poem says, "'Tis better to have loved and lost / Than never to have loved at all."
There is suffering in loving a dog. But the joy is worth it. And there is joy in raising a child, but also pain. There is pain in being educated, and joy when you graduate. There are lots of ways in which sorrow and happiness get mixed in life.
So I'm just suggesting that to see only the pain is one-sided.
To say it's all worth it is fine for the one who thinks it's all worth it, but it's not ok to impose something that is deemed worth it on another non-existent being through the act of procreation, because that person might not feel the same way about whether pain and suffering in life is worth it. They might have a little more intelligence than that and think what the fuck is this hell hole, who the hell thinks this is a good idea? they might even decide it's not for them and commit suicide. So imagine that scenario, watching your own child hate it's life to the point it has to kill itself. Do people really think about that when they choose to populate the earth with more sentience feeling things, already knowing they too will be susceptable to the same pain and suffering, but it's ok because you think it's all worth it. Is it ethical to impose your belief that it's all worth it onto the non-existent, who do not get to choose whether or not they want to be born? they do not get to choose whether or not it's all worth it. I think it's better to have never come into existence at all. Worth and value are only ever meaningful in the context of a situation is not good. This is because we have evolved to be knowledable through language on a human level. That is a fact.
Ultimately, life is a constant struggle to survive, where we are always striving for some basic comfort and pleasure,always running away or trying to avoid dire and bad situations, it's a fools paradise. Animals have it the worse, there are no wild animal hospitals in the jungle or on the plains. They die painful lingering death all alone. Humans torture them for money and entertainment and food. They steal their teeth, horns, hides, etc... And that is another reason people are religious, because it makes them feel better about the reality of life for sentient creature, it's not pretty. I won't go into the gory details as there are too many, but you probably get the gist.