Lacewing wrote: ↑Sun Apr 25, 2021 4:49 pm
Okay, trying again. I can agree and understand with what you’ve said here, while I think there’s more to consider as well...
Point #1: Lots of humans may not be able to recognize what other options there are because they get programmed or locked into certain beliefs and limited-thinking, and they fear or don't see anything beyond that. Babies were the easiest example of having no choice, but intoxicated adults may not recognize choice, as well.
I'm afraid you've lost me (or I've lost your point). Other's problems in using their minds correctly are not anything you or I can do anything about. I'm only responsible for making sure my thinking is correct, not trying to discover why most people are idiots and choose to be in that condition.
Lacewing wrote: ↑Sun Apr 25, 2021 4:49 pm
We can try to hold some severely intoxicated Christians responsible for themselves (I certainly try to), but what I’ve seen on this forum suggests an absolute blindness to only that which supports their identity which is fiercely tied to their ego. Any
other beneficial or broader options/viewpoints are unfathomable to them. They pretty much reject the whole of creation. Their identity is completely who/what they are. This is an example of why I think identity can be very blinding.
It is not up to anyone to hold others responsible for anything. In fact, I think it is wrong to interfere in anyone else's life in any way (so long as they are not a direct physical threat to me or mine). I'm only responsible for my thoughts and actions and will succeed or fail on the basis of my choices, not what anyone else thinks or does. Perhaps some people are, "blinded," by what you think identity is, but that doesn't mean you or I have to be.
Lacewing wrote: ↑Sun Apr 25, 2021 4:49 pm
Point #2: I do not think about identity the way you do.
I do not think you really know what I think about, "identity," but, even if you did, you certainly don't have to agree with it. By, "identity," I only mean whatever anything actually is, its ontological nature, whether one knows what it is or not, and I mean it in the same way for a human being. It is only an, "identification," of something--i.e. what it is. Every word you use for anything that exists, as that existent (a book, an automobile, a tree, you, your pet, Mars) is its identity. There is nothing esoteric or mystical about it. Everything has to be something, and whatever it is, that is its identity. When you write, "I do not think about identity ..." whatever you mean by, "I," is your identity.
Lacewing wrote: ↑Sun Apr 25, 2021 4:49 pm
If life is a stage for humans... and some
don’t know they’re on a stage, and some know they are... who is likely to have more fun, I wonder?

I've always liked that analogy. I have often thought it is a good way to understand what life is. Reality is a stage and every individual has a part in this most exciting dramatic adventure. Unlike a play, however, there is no script. Every actor must choose the part they want to play and then must work to perform their part as well as possible.
I also love this metaphorical stage of reality in every respect. I love all of reality, just as it, because it provides infinite possibility. That means I love all the parts the actors are playing as well, even those who have chosen to be villains, or worse. I love all the social and cultural consequences of all the individual actors each playing their parts, even what others consider social or cultural evils; but unlike most of them, however, I never want to interfere in how any other actor chooses to play their part, though most of them want to interfere in mine.
Since I love this life and world, just as they are, and could not possibly enjoy them more, I guess you'd say, "I'm having fun."