Yeah, we do have some things in common, and thank you for the post.Lacewing wrote: ↑Sat Apr 24, 2021 5:47 pmHmm... that's unusual. Well, I think the best way to respond is to give a general description of where I think we're similar and where I think we differ (rather than responding point by point to your post).
I can see the value of what you say because I, too, am a very independent person, and I do not expect anyone to give me handouts or come and save me. I've made my own way while navigating and using the systems that support my journey (having a house, developing land, paying for public infrastructure that I use, etc.). I do not have healthcare because I'm an independent consultant in technology and it's too ridiculously expensive for me to pay for it individually when I may only use it occasionally. I do not expect the system to provide it for me because I do not take things for granted. But it would be nice to have it in exchange for what I already contribute in other ways.
I also don't like being told what to do or being controlled, so I don't like a lot of laws that do just that. I don't like being forced to wear seatbelts or helmets... but I appreciate safety regulations for food and water, and police protection when needed.
When ideas and controls become too extreme, I think they lose value -- and we humans tend to do that a lot.
Although I feel responsible for my life, I do not think I own anything. I'm genuinely focused more on what I can do, rather than on who I am or what I own. Everything could fall away, and I would deal with the new environment as best as I could. I feel gratitude for what I can experience in the moment... wherever.
I also see that a lot of very good people have taken different paths than mine, and I want them to have good experiences too. It is a tricky balance to create one's own experience, while others may have different needs and views that impact that experience.
I'm more inclined to think about sharing love and joy than think about pointing a gun at someone. And I think that what we think about is what creates our experience.
Hopefully I've expressed that well enough. I'm distracted with some other things going on...
The followin' stands out for me...
I do not think I own anything
Not even yourself? You don't belong to yourself?