bahman wrote: ↑Wed Feb 24, 2021 5:36 pm
Why the relationship with God should be so important that people who don't like it deserve to be in Hell?
Let's drop the word "deserve" for the moment, because we're not presently addressing the question of sin, but of relationship. We can come back to it later.
Free will is so important that people should be allowed to choose their destinies. Don't you agree? However, if they can't choose badly, then they can't choose the good either. They have no choices, then.
And without free choice, there is only robotics, not relationship.
Why people cannot for example be in Heaven and have no relationship with God?
Well, we do all thing that relationship is awfully important, don't we? We spend our whole lives seeking to be connected to others...to a group, or a culture, or a spouse, or all of the above...but above all, through this longing we subconsciously also long for relationship with the One who made us, because only He can make sense of our being, and only in relationship to Him do we find the purpose for which we were created and the role that allows us to be all that we were created to be. To be companions of God is both our reason for existing and our highest fulfillment personally. It's the happiness that we and God share.
Now, can you force such a relationship to happen? Or does it have to be freely chosen? If it were not, then that would be a forced "relationship," mere robotics again. Meanwhile, can we suppose that people who don't want God should be forced to be with God
anyway? How's that an honouring of their personhood, of their volition, of their choice, or of their free will? It would be the destruction of all of the above. And where, then, is this "relationship"?
Moreover, should God be forced to spend eternity with people who hate Him, or despise Him, or have no use for Him? Why would we think we ought to consign God...or ourselves...to that? Is that anyone's idea of Heaven?
So yes, God could force everyone to do the right thing. But it is not possible for Him to do that
and to give men freedom. Those two objectives are directly contradictory to each other...the doing of one undoes the other. Force is not choice. And if men choose to care nothing for God, should they not be allowed to have what they choose?
If they are not, then in what sense did they "choose" at all?
