It depends on what you mean by mutual benefit. What I mean is that each individual determines it is in their own personal benefit to participate in whatever relationships they choose in a society. When I go to a store to purchase things I want, I do that for my own benefit, and the store owner runs his store for his own personal benefit, and our sales transaction benefits us both. That is what I mean by mutual benefit. When I meat some friends for dinner I do it for my benefit, my enjoyment of their company and conversation, and assume all the others do as well. None of those benefits are for the sake of society, only for the individuals.
You! You use the word, "human," to identify something. A thing is whatever the attributes and characteristics of that thing are by which you identify it. Whatever attributes you think make a human being a human being, if they were no longer its attributes, it would no longer be human, but something else. When an ice cube melts (loses the solid attribute) it is no longer an ice cube but a puddle, or when a cat is run over (and loses the attribute life) it is no longer a cat but a corpse. I do not accept the evolutionary hypothesis, but if I did, I'd point out, evolution produces new species, not just variations of existing species.
I mean one's own life and how they choose to use it, I do not mean life itself, as though the objective was the perpetuation protoplasm. The measure of a life is not how long it lasts but how well it is lived. There is no conflict between my view and an individual judging when his own life is complete.
I never regarded Romain Gary a great writer (though sometimes entertaining) and think his ideas were mostly wrong, but I found what he wrote in a note, just before he killed himself, poignant: "I have at last said all I have to say." His death followed a brief description of his life in, "The Life and Death of Emile Ajar," (a pseudonym), in which he wrote, "I had a great deal of fun. Au revoir et merci."
It's not a question at all for me. My life and my love of it are my reason for living. Anyone who chooses otherwise has no reason to live and is probably mistaking a fear of death for a love of life.Belinda wrote: ↑Sat Apr 25, 2020 7:43 pmI agree. That is the big one. There are a lot of sources that dictate which of these one ought to choose. All the religions tell you the ultimate objective or purpose of a human life is something other than one's own life. Even the antiquated heroic moral attitude saidThere are two possible choices: 1. the ultimate objective or purpose of a human life is one's own life, or 2. the ultimate objective or purpose of a human life is something other than one's own life.the ultimate objective or purpose of a human life is something other than one's own life.