Lacewing wrote:But Nick, I'm very open and happy and spiritual and unafraid! So what's wrong with that?
Lacewing wrote:It's not a goal, it's just what I am. Can you understand that?
Notice how you project that what I'm saying is either a goal or a belief. Are the views that YOU talk about goals or beliefs for you? Why do you minimalize what I say with these projections of yours, rather than acknowledging how irresponsible and dishonest you are for projecting inaccurate ideas onto people, that you wouldn't assign to yourself???
Do you think these ideas about your experience make you an expert on judging other people? We all have our extraordinary paths and experiences. You and your ideas are NOT some ultimate model for the Universe.Nick wrote:I know by experience how difficult it is to be open and to become able to use fear as opposed to having it use me. I know how spiritual energy is confused with emotional energy and why people confuse them. I know how relative happiness is and to be happy and considered normal in a world that is crumbliing around me.
And here you go again with your dishonest characterizations. Who said anything about being happy ABOUT a crumbling world? People can be happy DESPITE a crumbling world. And they can manifest positive changes because they see beyond (and more than) the crumbling world. Whereas, someone who builds a platform on doom and gloom and condemnation of everyone around them, is ADDICTED to the crumbling world vision, and they feed into it in order to prove themselves "right".Nick wrote:It doesn't seem anything to be happy about But again if it satisfies your need for meaning, go for it.
You seriously don't think that happy people care about world hunger, and cry for the suffering of our world? Must we all be bent over sobbing over horrors all the time in order for you to think that we're conscious and compassionate? How can you be so narrow and shallow in your assessments?
Lately in conversations with people, the topic of selective compassion has come up a few times: how there are people who claim to be champions for some group of "downtrodden", yet those champions will be rude and hateful to everyone else and accuse everyone else of being the enemy. It is a self-glorifying need of such "champions". They cannot acknowledge all the awareness and compassion and love and value in everyone else for that would invalidate their skewed platform.
Why don't you recognize such qualities and consciousness in other people, Nick? Why do you project falseness onto them instead? Why is your need so great, that you must do that?