surreptitious57 wrote: ↑Sat Sep 07, 2019 11:23 am
Age wrote:
It appears to me that you have completely misunderstood misinterpreted or just plain forgotten what I have been saying which is I am here in this forum to learn how to communicate better . Nothing more and nothing less . Therefore my goal here in this forum is NOT to be fully understood
Then why did you claim in the other thread that your reason for being here is to be fully understood
If I did, then a link to that thread and specific post of mine would HELP in SEEING in what context I said 'what is claimed to be what I said'.
However, considering there is NO context in which you are referring to, and I do NOT know which thread to going looking for this 'what is said to have taken place comment', IF I said it, then "The reason for being here, (in this forum?, in Life?, in this thread?) is to be fully understood is SO that I AM FULLY UNDERSTOOD, eventually.
Did I specifically state that the reason for being here is to be fully understood, here in this forum, or here just in Life in general?
See if I did NOT specifically state that I want to be fully understood here in this forum, then I can still say that the reason for being here, (even in this forum), is to be fully understood (somewhere). So it CAN mean that I am here, in this forum, to LEARN HOW to be fully understood, so that in Life, or in outside of this forum life, I can be fully understood.
I have NO intention of ever saying ALL of what it is that I have and want to say here, in this forum, so I will NEVER be FULLY understood here, in this forum. Unless of course some one proves me wrong.
I am here, in this forum, to just learn how to, eventually, be better and be fully understood.
I am here, in this forum, to learn how to communicate better so that one day outside of the forum I can be FULLY understood.
Also, if I have not communicated properly and so I am being misunderstood/misinterpreted, then it is great that you are pointing this out now. This is what I ask for and need, in order to learn how to communicate better.
surreptitious57 wrote: ↑Sat Sep 07, 2019 11:23 amThe very same day you said this you now say your reason for being here is not to be fully understood
Again a link provided, which SHOWS exactly what I did say AND in what context I said it and/or meant would HELP me to discuss this further, and communicate it better.
surreptitious57 wrote: ↑Sat Sep 07, 2019 11:23 amSo can you now state very clearly and very precisely which one it is since it obviously cannot be both
Will you provide a link directly to what it is that you say I said?
If yes, then I will now state very clearly and very precisely what it is.
I could have just meant that I am not here, in this forum, to explain EVERY thing so that I am fully understood here in this forum. Meaning that I am not here, in this forum, to be fully understood. But rather I am just here, in this forum, to learn how to become fully understood, somewhere, someday.
surreptitious57 wrote: ↑Sat Sep 07, 2019 11:23 amYou ARE communicating better but you are still here so then why is this
Because I have still have a LOT MORE to learn.
And 'better' is a very relativistic word.
I NEVER meant I want to learn how to communicate 'better' here, in this forum, and then leave IF I just become ANY 'better'. I meant when, and if, I become 'better' enough, in my terms, then I would leave.
surreptitious57 wrote: ↑Sat Sep 07, 2019 11:23 amIs is because you think you can communicate better than you already are
NO. This appears to be a strange thing to think and ask me. It is the very opposite. I want to learn how to communicate much better than I am now.
It is OBVIOUS that I am not yet a good communicator, and that I have a lot more to learn in how to communicate better. Why would you pose the exact opposite in your question to me?
surreptitious57 wrote: ↑Sat Sep 07, 2019 11:23 amYou can also communicate better AND be fully understood at the same time so if you do not want to
be fully understood [ why not ] then you will not be able to communicate as well as you would like to
There are some things I can communicate and be fully understood, but these are just the usual things that most people know and accept already anyway. Being able to be fully understood in regards to things that people believe are impossible, do not believe at all, or just accept as not at all being true is WHAT, and WHY, I am here in this forum and want to learn how to communicate better.
'i' do have a huge self defeating tendency and a huge give up/submissive attitude, which i have to overcome as well.
It is also NOT that I do not want to be fully understood here, in this forum, it is that what I have and want to say is just to much for a forum format.
surreptitious57 wrote: ↑Sat Sep 07, 2019 11:23 amWhy cannot you get everyone here to become more open instead of leaving the forum as soon as you can communicate to a certain standard
Because just like I do not like to tell and explain
'what IS' and WHY 'ALL things are the way they ARE', as I would like people to find and discover these things by themselves, I also do not like to tell people what to do. I can NOT make any one do any thing that they, themselves, do not want to do. I would NEVER force any one to do any thing that they do not voluntarily 100% want to do them self nor would I tell any one WHAT they have to think and do also.
I would NOT get any one here to become more open if that is NOT what they Truly wanted anyway.
I am just here, in this forum, learning how to explain one way of becoming truly and fully OPEN. I want to learn a way to explain it so that it has come from one's own Self directly, that is; thee 'I', Itself, and NOT from me directly, so that then they will want to remain OPEN and with voluntary enthusiasm, and not because they feel like they have been told to nor told that it is the right thing to do.
I would like EVERY one to only do what they themselves KNOW and FEEL is the right thing, to do, for them selves. I would like them to do this all by their own self
surreptitious57 wrote: ↑Sat Sep 07, 2019 11:23 amHow is anyone going to learn from you and become a better human being if you leave the forum when ever you want to never to return again
But I do not necessarily want any one to learn, from me. I would just like people to become more curious them selves and try some new things, and then if they feel that it is good and right for them, then they just want to continue doing it with and from their OWN voluntary enthusiasm.
I NEVER want any person to feel like that they are having to do any thing in Life that they, themselves, truly do not like nor want to be doing.
One also only becomes a 'better human being' IF that is what they Truly want to become. No one can help 'you' if you do not want to help 'your' own 'self'. IF any one Truly wants some thing, then they can and will achieve it for, and by, them self anyway, (and with more help and support from "others" then the speed of this process is just exponential).
By the way thee 'I' NEVER leaves, and so never returns again, as thee 'I' or True Self ALWAYS remains with(and)in the 'you'. Although it does "appear" as though 'I' may leave and never return again, this is just not true.
Anyhow, I can not learn how to better communicate and explain one way of HOW it is POSSIBLE to live in a Truly peaceful world with EVERY one, forever more, IF I can not find any one who is open enough to even to begin listening, so that I can then practice and learn how to communicate this idea at all.
If, and when, I find any person who Truly wants to just listen to and just consider an idea, AND THEN continually keep questioning and/or challenging me on any thing that appears to be contradictory, wrong, false, incorrect or partly wrong, partly false, and/or partly incorrect, while they keep remaining open enough to keep challenging and questioning me, instead of just dismissing me or deflecting away, then I can and will keep learning how to communicate better.
My goal here, in this forum, is to learn and not necessarily teach. If, however, some thing I say is being taught here, then so be it.
See, most people in a philosophy forum are not necessarily here to listen to and hear "others" ideas and views. More specifically they are here to express, argue, and fight for their own ideas, views, beliefs, et cetera. So, IF I can learn how get past these things and learn how to get a person on a philosophy forum to begin to start to want to even just consider listening to what it is that I want to eventually share one day, then I am learning how to communicate better.
If and when I can get a person open ENOUGH, again, to just want to become as curious and inquisitive again, just like they were when they were young, and when they could learn things very quickly, then I will keep learning how to communicate/share a view that I KNOW can and WILL create a Truly peaceful "world" for EVERY one, as One. If that person who wants to just listen starts SEEING and UNDERSTANDING things by them self, then they WILL start becoming more and more Truly OPEN all by their own Self, and so will REMAIN OPEN to keep listening and seeing, and then will understand HOW the Truth of things WAS and IS being revealed to them ALL OF THE TIME.
By the way your kind of questioning and challenging here now is exactly what I have been asking for and seeking, and truly do enjoy. So, thank you, it is much appreciated.