I am going to change the word "responsible" (which I don't understand how you are using) with a word I just made up: replankable.
I am replankable for getting in my car and running a red light because I made the choice to get in the car and run a red light.
No one else did it, but me. That does not mean I'm "morally replankable" which means something completely different.
And now I am going to re-write your sentence above and entirely discard both the words "responsible" and "replankable"
I ran a red light with my car.
Yes! That is what I am asking you to do, because I don't understand what you mean by "responsible".
I don't think you can define "responsible" in any other way BUT consequentialism!
For every sentence you write using the word "responsible" I am just going to change it with "replankable".