Veritas Aequitas wrote: ↑Sun Nov 18, 2018 4:25 am
A masochist's "Golden Rule", i.e.
"Do unto others as you would have them do unto you"
i think i understand - but pars your words, I would like them to do unto me as i would them...............
where the "kick me" shows up is the mindset of the offence by the others must me returned by one that affirms the Golden Rule - in the form of Love/punching bag.
IMO - (I affirm the Golden Rule - but not a Christian/Jew or Muslim - as a rule of conduct) - but as one withing the confines of reciprocity.
default for me is to treat the stanger as my brother - if the stanger pulls a knife - (the christian - sits there and get stabbed? - I pull my own knife out and we tussle.
- again - i hate dicks, and support Golden Rule - only unlike the conventional "love your enemy - be a punching bag" mentality I see too often, I do note who "starts it" (and if i was me - and i've been in the wrong many times/dick - the other party has the right to not love me, but return my dickiness - their actions have served as a "Wake call" to my failings - so a good thing (settting me straight )..............when being a dick the last thing i need is "my enemy loving me" - i need a nice pick in the pants!
I've been set straight a couple of times.
I support Reciprocity - i never pulled a knife on anyone while being a dick, and they did not stab me for being so while they gave me the business.
so not a fan of stabbing a-holes, but being an a-hole back at em.
if they have ears and learn, fab, if not, then they can be an a-hole to the next customer who may be the bigger one and end his/her life.
such is life.
Veritas Aequitas wrote: ↑Sun Nov 18, 2018 4:25 am
would not be considered a moral maxim.
I affirm the "proper understanding" of Golden Rule as moral maxin (i.e. never start a fight, and treat the stranger as your brother upon first encounter).
then the ball is in their court and you need to determine your reply to their offence/s
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you do not affirm the Golden Rule (within the confines of Reciprocity - which i do)?
if not, welcome why not your view.
thanks for reply!