Dalek Prime wrote: ↑Thu Jun 21, 2018 5:22 am
Someone is always going to be offended by another's opinion. Just speak your mind within reason, if you truly believe in what you are saying, and let others deal with the imagined collateral.
For my part, I find it easier to listen and nod these days. If someone says the sky is red, it doesn't effect me if they want to believe that, or even insist on it. At the end of their sentence, my life hasn't been changed.
That is overwhelmingly true, but in a small way it is underwhelmingly untrue.
If someone says the sky is red, then your inner human urge is to alert your fellow human being that he is mistaken. This is a primal urge, a survival tactic we learned and made our own in our evolutionary development.
"There is no tiger behind you to jump on you" when there is a tiger behind me to jump on me, is not good info for me.
"There is a tiger behind you readly to jump on you" said in the same situation has EXTREMELY huge value and importance to me.
This sticking with the truth is something that transmogrified to other human areas of information transmission. We don't need to hear lies, and when we hear one mistaken fact, we have an inner urge to correct it.
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We must a lot of the time suppress this inner urge in order to not insult others. That is another, different social force that affects (and not effects) humans. We balance those urges that lead us to contradictory behaviour and we decide which to give in to.
Your not responding to "the sky is red" is not that the lie does not affect you and that it does not create an ever-so-slight discomfort in you; you don't respond, instead, due to the fact that you don't want to disrupt this person's personal views, which your not wanting to may come from many different reasons. But the fact remains, you don't like to hear someone say that that the sky is red.