Not sure what sort of answer you're looking for, but I don't have much suffering normally anyway.
I rather find it odd when I run into folks, especially antinatalists, who seem to believe that most folks have a significant amount of persistent suffering. That's not my experience. There are some Eeyores around for sure, but that's never seemed to be most people.
After learning how to live a life full of meaning I now have no suffering.
But where I found meaning in my suffering previously was by accepting, and taking, full responsibility for how I felt. As soon as I owned the feeling suffering became non-existent.
While there is a lower class, I am in it, while there is a criminal element, I am of it, and while there is a soul in prison, I am not free.
~ Eugene V. Debs ~
Terrapin Station wrote:Why wasn't he happy all the time just in case some folks were? Just what sort of "I commune with my fellow man" message is that?
If others are suffering, then how could you be (truly) happy?
Terrapin Station wrote:Why wasn't he happy all the time just in case some folks were? Just what sort of "I commune with my fellow man" message is that?
If others are suffering, then how could you be (truly) happy?
If others are happy, then how could you be (truly) suffering?
ken wrote:
If others are suffering, then how could you be (truly) happy?
If others are happy, then how could you be (truly) suffering?
Why does it work one way and not the other?
That's beautiful logic! It is MY DUTY to live as joyfully as I can. That is what I contribute to the whole... and surely that ripples throughout the whole, as all energies seem to. We need BALANCE to people's suffering. To suffer along with them helps no one and demonstrates nothing noble. Rather, we can remind them of what else there is, and that might just inspire them to be lifted out of whatever they feel stuck in.
Bill Wiltrack wrote:Like you, I am in this world but not of this world. This is the source of endless anguish and suffering.
Not sure what that's referring to--maybe you're hinting at some religious views you have or something? I think I'm in and of the world and not separate from it in any way.
& as the Eugene Victor Debbs quote above so elegantly depicts - humans are empathetic. We are capable of feeling others suffering.
But not empathetic when we're not talking about something negative? We're not capable of feeling others' joy/ecstasy/lack of suffering/etc.? In other words, why would some people be left out? People feel all sorts of different ways, many of them incompatible with each other. So why would we only have empathy for some of them and not others? And we can't feel all those ways all the time, of course.
Anyway, I was asking you a bit more specifically to mention some ways that you experience "endless anguish and suffering." Just what is ailing you specifically?