Hey, a man of honour! People today are all afraid of apologizing, for some reason, as if everybody has to be perfect. But I'm thinking someone who can do that has some integrity. Say no more.sthitapragya wrote:I am embarrassed and I apologize.
Maybe. Some people have an overpowering urge to drink, and then they drive. But we're not okay with that, are we? If a life is in the balance (as it MAY be in the case of drinking and driving, but most certainly is, in the case of abortion), we realize that that relativizes choices of that particular sort.sthitapragya wrote:But you seem to forget that sex is an overpowering urge and sometimes people tend to choose to ignore the contraceptive for pleasure. That does not mean that they CHOOSE to have a baby. They just HOPE that it does not happen. And that is the reality.
Or to take another example, if a man has a terminal sexual disease and refuses to tell his partner because his "overpowering urge" makes him disinclined to lose the opportunity for sex even if he kills his partner, we' don't say, "Oh well...that's sex."
Immanuel Can wrote: The question is, is the "choice" to kill a child one of the good choices, particularly when one's choice-making has produced the child in the first place.
Why would the life-and-death of other human beings be unimportant to anyone?No. The question is actually why is it so important to you?
What my earlier story conclusively shows is this: the burden of proof is not on someone who is against killing -- the whole obligation falls on the responsibility of the killer to show that his or her action is permissible and moral killing, not murder. The one side is contemplating killing; and the other is not. Until we know, the only moral option is not to kill.It is not yet conclusively proven that abortion is a killing.
"Right" and "wrong" are always analytically about what I do to others, and about what others do to me. Ethics are about social relations: that's fundamental. So that's a starting point.So why do you feel that it is so important that you have the right to decide what is wrong and right on someone else's behalf?
But should a moral person NOT have a perspective on the (at least potential) murder of innocents? That seems a strange moral perspective...
It's not. I've never said I want to tell only a woman to do anything about it. It's everybody's issue. The man contributes half the genetic material, the baby suffers the death, and society at large pays the price for the individual's choice, in this case. So it's not about women exclusively at all.Why is it so important to tell a woman what to do?
Till there is a law that prohibits abortion, a woman has a fundamental right to abort just as you have a fundamental right to carry a gun.
Heh. Well, that's a bit of a strained analogy, isn't it? Other than the definite presence of a death in the first case, and the possibility of some sort of wounding or death involved in the second, I can't see any point of connection.
To paraphrase: "Until we have laws to guarantee mortgages, nobody has the right to spit on the sidewalk."