It's a bit too late for deflection tactics, I think the cat is out of the bag. I knew there was something sinister about you.bobevenson wrote: Sorry, didn't mean to pry into your sheltered childhood.
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Well, I know there's nothing sinister about you since the village idiot can hardly be called "sinister."Harbal wrote:It's a bit too late for deflection tactics, I think the cat is out of the bag. I knew there was something sinister about you.bobevenson wrote: Sorry, didn't mean to pry into your sheltered childhood.
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I've obviously hit a nerve.bobevenson wrote: Well, I know there's nothing sinister about you since the village idiot can hardly be called "sinister."
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Please, you couldn't hit your own ass with a paddle, and I don't mean your donkey.Harbal wrote:I've obviously hit a nerve.bobevenson wrote: Well, I know there's nothing sinister about you since the village idiot can hardly be called "sinister."
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Me too. Pretty much the same. Only lend money you don't need to see again.thedoc wrote:I must really be the odd man out, because my first reaction is to trust another person in what they tell me, but I usually don't give them any money till they prove to be reliable. It's only when they say or do something that I can determine is not true that I decide to not trust them, and unfortunately those are too many for comfort. In spite of the numerous individuals that cannot be trusted 100% I will still allow the newly acquainted person, trust till proven otherwise.AiR wrote: Why do we find it so difficult to trust someone? Why do we doubt? When we look at somebody, we are not able to trust them immediately. Have you ever wondered why?
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When people tell me stupid things, or that which is probably untrue, I don't care, as long as it doesn't impact me directly. Hey, you were kidnapped by aliens? Good for you. Your dad was Howard Hughes? Excellent. Enjoy your family legacy. You're a prophet? Sure, why not. You're a cop? Show me your badge, or get lost. Even then, why do you want to stop and question me?
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Been there, done that, and I have actually been surprised when someone payed my back the money they borrowed. Other times I gave the money away and didn't ever expect to see it back, and that's OK. Odd though, books are another thing, I really want to have that knowledge back.Dalek Prime wrote: Me too. Pretty much the same. Only lend money you don't need to see again.
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Again, me too. I have a very old friend who borrowed a book from me as a youth. He still has it on his bookshelf. I want it back, but after all this time, it would feel weird asking for it, as he's clearly cared enough to keep it. Perhaps I should ask to 'borrow' it?thedoc wrote:Been there, done that, and I have actually been surprised when someone payed my back the money they borrowed. Other times I gave the money away and didn't ever expect to see it back, and that's OK. Odd though, books are another thing, I really want to have that knowledge back.Dalek Prime wrote: Me too. Pretty much the same. Only lend money you don't need to see again.
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Dalek Prime wrote: Perhaps I should ask to 'borrow' it?
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Wouldn't it though lol! Yeah, I think I will. I was wondering how to get it back. Now I know.thedoc wrote:Dalek Prime wrote: Perhaps I should ask to 'borrow' it?, That would be extremely Ironic, but I think you should do it.
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OK, whatever. We obviously have different ideas about what is divine.bobevenson wrote: Please, you couldn't hit your own ass with a paddle, and I don't mean your donkey.
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Why would anyone hit their own ass with a paddle? Isn't it more logical to go at it on someone else's ass if you really want an ass to paddle connection?Harbal wrote:OK, whatever. We obviously have different ideas about what is divine.bobevenson wrote: Please, you couldn't hit your own ass with a paddle, and I don't mean your donkey.
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In Harbal's case, for a sense of accomplishment.sthitapragya wrote:Why would anyone hit their own ass with a paddle?Harbal wrote:OK, whatever.bobevenson wrote: Please, you couldn't hit your own ass with a paddle, and I don't mean your donkey.