Arising_uk wrote:The point being that having goals that one does not achieve does not necessarily entail being bummed about them.
and it doesn't necessarily entail being ok with them, either.
alpha wrote:"should"? unsubstantiated claim.
Arising_uk wrote:But one based upon mine and others experience. Whereas you appear to be unhappy and unsatisfied with your 'higher' goals?
neither one's goals, nor ones reaction to them, is exactly by actual choice (though i know many would disagree).
alpha wrote:doing something to achieve one's goals, or not, isn't very relevant to my argument. the point i'm trying to make (let's consider this from a purely philosophical perspective, and not subjective) is that no one has the right to dictate (or even suggest) what any person should want, or not want. no one should say that you should/shouldn't have this or that ambition (even if they're supposedly unrealistic), and so on.
Arising_uk wrote:Who's doing any of that? It was you who raised the idea that because one has higher goals one is led to being dissatisfied with living?
yes, but suggesting that a person actually chooses their goals or their reaction to their goals is baseless.
alpha wrote:i think it's clear (if we accept this notion) that "doing nothing to strive for one's unrealistic ambitions" is not unreasonable, because they are, after all, "unreasonable" ambitions.
Arising_uk wrote:So are your 'higher goals' such things?
some of them are unrealistic for this world in general, and some are unrealistic for my circumstances.