Do we owe each other anything?

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garygary wrote: My opinion is that as individuals dealing with other individuals, we only owe each other what are referred to as "negative" rights.
Can you please explain what you mean by 'negative' rights.
Also, how this might apply in the given scenario. Thanks.
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garygary wrote:... there is an ethical obligation to save the child, but not a legally enforceable obligation. So what should happen if someone violates an ethical obligation?
What should happen? Maybe there ought to be some law (maybe there already is) to obligate bystanders to an accident or crime to at least call for help, notify the police and/or ambulance? If they are found out, humiliation and shunning is usually the automatic response of decent and compassionate citizens.
garygary wrote:1. The child is a stranger: I would scream and yell to motivate the fisherman to save the child, but wouldn't use a gun to force him to. If the child drowned, I would think that the fisherman was a sorry excuse for a human being. But I would not want any kind of punishment placed on him. 2. The child is my child: Would definitely use the gun in an attempt to get the fisherman to save the child. I would definitely fire some shots into the water if necessary. And if my child drowned, I just might shoot the guy. Yep, that would be out of rage and revenge.
I really enjoyed reading this. An honest admission of perfectly natural double standards that no one could argue with. However, from the ethical point of view, it is worth pursuing this further.
But, my thinking is opposite to yours concerning "Resolving conflicting loyalties." I am much more obligated to and protective of my family than to life in general. And, concerning your gut reactions in the original post of this thread, perhaps, deep inside, you don't quite believe what you wrote in "Resolving conflicting loyalties" either? Good stuff though! Thank you.
I assume that you noticed the caveat I placed at the beginning of that thread: "The suggestions I am making in this chapter should be read as guidelines that I have found useful in my own life. No one can follow them with absolute perfection, because human beings have conflicting motivations: what Edward O. Wilson called individual-level selection and group-level selection in our evolutionary process (The Meaning of Human Existence)."

That was an honest admission of our very human bias favoring our own family above everything else. We would not be human if we did not. :)
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marjoram_blues wrote:1. I would have to say that anyone who does not have a natural impulse to save a child from drowning has to be labelled as 'handicapped'; more than likely a psychopath. Such a person would not feel the need to act on your pity or compassion. [So many stories of non or poor swimmers who attempt to save - even drowning dogs. They don't think of it as having a moral/ethical obligation ]
Agreed.
If you carried a gun, you could threaten this person. I think the scenario would change to you, yourself being attacked. This is not going to effect a child rescue. Therefore, threatening with a gun is not a sensible option.
Threatening the man in the boat with a gun might scare him into saving the child. I might be charged later with illegal use of a firearm. You have to weigh the saved life of a child against the personal inconvenience (or worse) of being charged with a crime. I, personally, would consider saving the child's life worth the risk of legal hassles.
2. Taking a child who has not learned to swim near a river when you yourself are unable to swim, or have a life saver nearby - is negligence.
I wouldn't be carrying a gun.


That is true, but not relevant in this scenario. The child is already drowning and you have a chance to act. Do it, or not do it, that is your only concern at this point. In the scenario, saving the child yourself is not an option, but affecting someone else to do is.
3. If I were that child in the river, and saw my 'carer' or someone brandishing a gun/shooting at an uncaring psychopath, I would despair. I would let myself be carried downstream to a solid rock and hope for some other source of help. Perhaps drowning would be preferable...
I did not assume that the person on the bank was the 'carer' of the child. Plus, you are speculating about how you would feel, as the child, drowning in the river. You can't be sure until and unless you experience the situation. And this is also irrelevant to the scenario. The question in the OP was what would you do, as the adult on the bank of the river.

Anyway, thank you for the thoughtful reply -- you obviously thought about it. :)
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I did not assume that the person on the bank was the 'carer' of the child. Plus, you are speculating about how you would feel, as the child, drowning in the river. You can't be sure until and unless you experience the situation. And this is also irrelevant to the scenario. The question in the OP was what would you do, as the adult on the bank of the river.

Anyway, thank you for the thoughtful reply -- you obviously thought about it. :)
OK. In 2. I was responding to your:
One more question for those who wouldn’t: what would you do if the child were your own? You still don’t think you would be tempted to use the gun?
Are you saying that if the child was my own, I would not be a 'carer'?
I am answering as per speculation.

Yes, I agree not particularly relevant to your positioning.
However, I thought it worthwhile to introduce another aspect to the discussion - as to what kind of example is being shown by 'so-called' compassion. What use compassion, if there is not forethought and responsibility to provide care and security by any 'carer' ?

Given that the underlying issue is 'what we owe each other' - any parent who has brought a child into the world owes them a duty of care.
If not they are the ones who should be shot.

Thanks for the thanks - and yes, take it as read that I think before, during and post typing.
Even if my thought processes are not always in synch with expected replies.
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marjoram_blues wrote:Are you saying that if the child was my own, I would not be a 'carer'?
I am answering as per speculation.
Yes, you are right and I stand corrected. In that scenario you would be the carer.
However, I thought it worthwhile to introduce another aspect to the discussion - as to what kind of example is being shown by 'so-called' compassion. What use compassion, if there is not forethought and responsibility to provide care and security by any 'carer' ?
You are quite right that a carer (a parent) or even any adult has the responsibility to show good example to the child. In this hypothetical situation, doing everything you can to save the child's life (even to the extent of 'forcing' another adult) IS the responsible action that the child should see, even though he is too busy drowning at the moment to see anything.
Given that the underlying issue is 'what we owe each other' - any parent who has brought a child into the world owes them a duty of care.
If not they are the ones who should be shot.
Right again, except if we went to the length of shooting irresponsible parents, there would be a lot of dead parents in the world.
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marjoram_blues wrote:Can you please explain what you mean by 'negative' rights.
From wikipedia: "...positive rights usually oblige action, whereas negative rights usually oblige inaction."

An example of what would be a negative right: Person B shall not murder Person A. Note that this involves inaction concerning Person B. Person A has a negative right which obligates Person B to not take the action of killing him.

For a contrasting example of what would be a positive right: Person B is forced by law to work 1 day per week to provide for Person A's food and housing. Note that this involves action on the part of Person B. Person A has a positive right to food and shelter which obligates Person B to provide for said food and shelter.

Tons more explanatory material in the literature. A Google search on "negative rights" will reveal many good explanations and examples. Negative rights versus positive rights is an important subject when it comes to governance.
marjoram_blues wrote:Also, how this might apply in the given scenario. Thanks.
If the child has a right to be saved, then that would be a positive right. In other words, the child's situation puts an obligation upon the fisherman to save him. The fisherman must take action to save the child. Should there be a law that gives this positive right to the child?

In the original post, Ned asked an in general question of "what do we owe each other?" and then some more specific questions concerning the scenario. The negative rights answer I gave was to "what do we owe each other?"
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N: You are quite right that a carer (a parent) or even any adult has the responsibility to show good example to the child. In this hypothetical situation, doing everything you can to save the child's life (even to the extent of 'forcing' another adult) IS the responsible action that the child should see, even though he is too busy drowning at the moment to see anything.
I meant it more as a given example of 'compassion', rather than as an example to the drowning child.
I think we have to agree to disagree on what is the responsible action in this scenario.
The main objective is to save the child. This cannot be achieved by brandishing a gun at a psychopath.
If you shot and killed that person, you will not have achieved your aim; you will have made matters worse. Hardly a responsible action.
M: Given that the underlying issue is 'what we owe each other' - any parent who has brought a child into the world owes them a duty of care.
If not they are the ones who should be shot.

N: Right again, except if we went to the length of shooting irresponsible parents, there would be a lot of dead parents in the world.
Again - a 'joke' a bit like your 'suicide' one.
The main point still stands:
What use compassion, if there is not forethought and responsibility to provide care and security by any 'carer' ?
Given that the underlying issue is 'what we owe each other' - any parent who has brought a child into the world owes them a duty of care.
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marjoram_blues wrote:The main objective is to save the child. This cannot be achieved by brandishing a gun at a psychopath.
If you shot and killed that person, you will not have achieved your aim; you will have made matters worse. Hardly a responsible action.
Brandishing a gun might scare the man enough to save the child, as I said before. It is worth a try because the stake is so high.

As I said in the OP: "I would not pull the trigger" to kill the man. I said it again in another post.
a 'joke' a bit like your 'suicide' one.
Guilty again, as charged. I can't help being flippant once in a while. It can lighten the mood.
Given that the underlying issue is 'what we owe each other' - any parent who has brought a child into the world owes them a duty of care.
I can't argue with this -- actually, I agree 100%. However, it is still irrelevant to this particular scenario.
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garygary wrote:
marjoram_blues wrote:Can you please explain what you mean by 'negative' rights.
From wikipedia: "...positive rights usually oblige action, whereas negative rights usually oblige inaction."

An example of what would be a negative right: Person B shall not murder Person A. Note that this involves inaction concerning Person B. Person A has a negative right which obligates Person B to not take the action of killing him.

For a contrasting example of what would be a positive right: Person B is forced by law to work 1 day per week to provide for Person A's food and housing. Note that this involves action on the part of Person B. Person A has a positive right to food and shelter which obligates Person B to provide for said food and shelter.

Tons more explanatory material in the literature. A Google search on "negative rights" will reveal many good explanations and examples. Negative rights versus positive rights is an important subject when it comes to governance.
marjoram_blues wrote:Also, how this might apply in the given scenario. Thanks.
If the child has a right to be saved, then that would be a positive right. In other words, the child's situation puts an obligation upon the fisherman to save him. The fisherman must take action to save the child. Should there be a law that gives this positive right to the child?

In the original post, Ned asked an in general question of "what do we owe each other?" and then some more specific questions concerning the scenario. The negative rights answer I gave was to "what do we owe each other?"
Yes, I know about the research facilities of the internet. I had wiki'd the term but found it confusing. Thanks for providing the examples.
Still uncertain as to how this relates to the scenario. However, please continue the conversation - and I will try to follow :)
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Ned wrote:
marjoram_blues wrote:The main objective is to save the child. This cannot be achieved by brandishing a gun at a psychopath.
If you shot and killed that person, you will not have achieved your aim; you will have made matters worse. Hardly a responsible action.
Brandishing a gun might scare the man enough to save the child, as I said before. It is worth a try because the stake is so high.

As I said in the OP: "I would not pull the trigger" to kill the man. I said it again in another post.
a 'joke' a bit like your 'suicide' one.
Guilty again, as charged. I can't help being flippant once in a while. It can lighten the mood.
Given that the underlying issue is 'what we owe each other' - any parent who has brought a child into the world owes them a duty of care.
I can't argue with this -- actually, I agree 100%. However, it is still irrelevant to this particular scenario.
OK, then.
I've said all I want to on your particular scenario.
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garygary wrote:... there is an ethical obligation to save the child, but not a legally enforceable obligation. So what should happen if someone violates an ethical obligation?
Ned wrote:Maybe there ought to be some law (maybe there already is) to obligate bystanders to an accident or crime to at least call for help, notify the police and/or ambulance? If they are found out, humiliation and shunning is usually the automatic response of decent and compassionate citizens.
So we are in agreement that there should not be a law to require the fisherman to personally save the child?


RE: My differing reactions to the scenario depending on whether the child was mine or not mine.
Ned wrote:I really enjoyed reading this. An honest admission of perfectly natural double standards that no one could argue with. However, from the ethical point of view, it is worth pursuing this further.
Definitely worth pursuing further. Hypothetical ethical dilemmas, while typically being unrealistic, still can be very telling. They have a way of exposing double standards, illogical thinking, and hypocrisy. The "double gas chamber" dilemmas are good food for thought.


RE: "Resolving conflicting loyalties"
Ned wrote:I assume that you noticed the caveat I placed at the beginning of that thread: "The suggestions I am making in this chapter should be read as guidelines that I have found useful in my own life.
Well, I did notice it, but then ignored it. My apologies. I suppose I was too quick to try to find inconsistencies in your thinking. The thoughts in "Resolving conflicting loyalties" are certainly interesting and deserve deeper reflection. And I believe that the "double gas chamber" dilemmas can shed light on an individual's loyalties which could refine your list of loyalties even further (for a given individual).
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garygary wrote:So we are in agreement that there should not be a law to require the fisherman to personally save the child?
Absolutely.

It would be a nightmare of definitions and interpretations.

Besides, bystanders, trying to help an epileptic victim, can make things worse. Or moving the victim of a car accident can cause serious spine injury that could have been prevented by trained paramedics on the way.
Definitely worth pursuing further. Hypothetical ethical dilemmas, while typically being unrealistic, still can be very telling. They have a way of exposing double standards, illogical thinking, and hypocrisy. The "double gas chamber" dilemmas are good food for thought.
Agreed. As you may know, I am a (retired) theoretical physicist and I like to follow Einstein's example of dreaming up thought-experiments. :wink:
The thoughts in "Resolving conflicting loyalties" are certainly interesting and deserve deeper reflection. And I believe that the "double gas chamber" dilemmas can shed light on an individual's loyalties which could refine your list of loyalties even further (for a given individual).
Would you care to elaborate on this, maybe even in that 'unpopular' thread? I would like to hear more of your thoughts. :)
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"Do we owe each other anything?"

Beyond what any one of us contracts with another (or group of others), no: not a one of us owe any other a damned thing.

So: beware what you agree to (formally and informally)...the 'fine print': read it.

Always: some sonuvabitch is gonna try and get you to foot his or her bill, to bear the burden of his or her bad choices, to work your ass off so he or she won't have to, to exert yourself so he or she won't have to.

Own yourself or be owned by the other.

As for the drowning child: if the child's plight worries you, get your keister into the water and save the kid! 'But, Quirk, I can't swim, or, I'm disabled, or, I'm too fat, or, I'm out of shape, or, or, or... :roll:

Point a gun at me and (no matter how well-intentioned you are) you may find a gun pointed back at you.
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You owe me $50.
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HA!

Come collect it.
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