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You can't think of anyone who's a bigger loser than you throughout the history of mankind?duszek wrote:When you feel that no matter how much you try you will always be the greatest loser in the history of mankind. ...
Can you think of one thing worth living for?It´s hard to find anything worth living for.
Why should it? And how would you know what makes others happy? One should be more concerned with what makes one happy not what makes others happy as one is not them.What makes other people happy means nothing to you.
Can be a dangerous thing.(self-diagnosis)
Voltaire. Candide or Zadig the Babylonian are quite good.Dunce wrote:Read Bartleby The Scrivener by Herman Melville to see the funny side of depression and as a warning of where it can lead.
The first, no. The latter, possibly.duszek wrote: Thanks for the nice suggestions but would Melville and Voltaire make one more cocky and daring ? Necessary for people to survive at all in their times.
If things do not go my way then I have no influence, I am at the mercy of other people, of the powers that be, of the forces of nature. I am condemned to passivity and to suffering.Being wrote:There is an old saying, 'the truth will set you free.'
Aside from a depression caused by biochemical imbalance, the truth about psychological depression could guide a person away from feeling depressed.
First of all, let us consider that all psychological tensions are centered around the belief of not being, or not feeling okay. Most humans come from the belief that they are not okay until certain people, places, things, and situations go their way. If it does not go their way, tension arises, causing all sorts of psychological stresses. For instance, we get anxious if we think about what might not go our way (future). Angry, if we think about what is not going our way (now). And depressed if we think about what has not gone our way (past). In all cases, it is about not going 'our way'. So what if things do not go our way? Is our personal philosophy so dependent on other people, places, things, and situations to make us feel okay?
Regardless of our life story, deep down into our truth, we know we are okay. We discover, aside from these stories about things not going our way, we are still okay. If we sat down and thought about ALL the things we think we need (besides the basics, like food), then took them all away, deep down we will know we really did not need them, and that we are still okay. Self-introspection can help us discover our truth about being already okay. The philosophy of 'what is truth' can help us realize that it is the stories about people, places, things, and situations that can undo our true self - the true self that requires nothing for itself.
Pain (anxiety, anger, depression, etc) is inevitable, but suffering is optional. It is our stories about depression that causes us to suffer depression. We humans are fortunate, because we have the choice to edit our stories. We can learn to accept disappointments and look for the optimistic outcome from all our presented situations.
-Hi Duszek,duszek wrote:Modern literature has become so ugly and disgusting that it can depress you even more.
I wonder if philosophical writings of a person full of life energy would not have a positive effect on one´s psyche.
Not someone like Sören K. or Nietzsche.
Perhaps a friendly teacher of philosophy ? His kindness will express itself through the way he explains.