duszek wrote:Yes, but the reason why I still feel bad about it is that I refused to help for some different reason, not because I wanted to do "the morally right thing".
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Hi, duszek
You have now reached a high level of moral development [you rate a high H.Q., Humanity Quotient.] You 'get it' now. You want to be good, and you are conscientious about it!
As for your lunch-counter example, in a strict authoritarian institution - or nation - both you and the man to whom you give a lunch ticket would both be arrested: for rule violation. They would rationalize it by saying that they want to protect the students from a possible predator, from outside.
What is the lesson to learn? Be grateful that the school you attended was not that strict; thus students learned from the example of exceptions being made, that tolerance and inclusivity are good moral principles to live by.
There may be many ways to 'live the Good Life.' (Or, as Sam Harris would phrase it, many peaks in the moral landscape.) I don't believe in "one size fits all." I welcome it if someone has an alternative set of moral principles than mine - as long as theirs enhance the quality of life for one and all ...which I now see as the ultimate purpose of Ethics.
In my papers I have offered an Ethical system, with a set of moral principles. I am ready to drop it in a moment if a better system comes along! There are many good reasons not to cheat, and some of them are Systemic, some Extrinsic, and some Intrinsic. You, duszek, have Intrinsic reasons - and they are the best of all.
In my system of Ethics it is permissible to lie to save a life. To invest in naval POWER is morally questionable. Better is to join the resistance, the 'underground', and do some sabotage from within. Fight nonviolently. ...less casualties and fatalities that way!
You reveal, duszek, that you are in possession of a sensitive, educated conscience. I admire you for that.