duszek wrote:How could I be morally better than you ????
1)How to measure and how to compare ?
2)I am not competitive even.
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3)You want to be a person of good character.
What for ?
In order to be happy ? ...
4)How can you tell if you are moving in the right direction, that is towards becoming a person of good character ?.
Greetings, duszek
You ask some good questions. For purposes of clarity I took the liberty of numbering my answers to correspond with each of your inquiries. Here are my responses:
1) There is an objective/projective test - the Hartman Value Profile - which measures statistically (employing decimal fractions) a person's values; and it produces many results which are highly-relevant to
morality, as the system defines that term. See my thread: What is Morality? See also this link to learn details about the HVP test:
http://www.hartmaninstitute.org/resourc ... n-studies/
I want to be
good and I want to be
valuable. Do you know the distinction?
To be
good is to have all the properties which something (or someone) needs to fulfill its purpose (or its definition, or its intention.)
To be
valuable is to contribute to fulfilling the ultimate Ethical purpose of a quality life for all.
Have you ever heard of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights - agreed to as an ideal constitution by the member nations of the U.N. Here is a link to it:
http://www.un.org/en/documents/udhr/
One individual is morally-better than another if s/he fights for more of those Rights than the other one does. And, if s/he gets something done: The fight is to be effective.
2) That is a poor self-image expressed there. We aren't having a contest ! Each decides for himself if he desires to be ethical. There is no competition, and no coercion. It is a free choice. Do you want to add value to your life? Do you want a quality life - not only for yourself alone but for one and all? If so, you will be moral to the best degree possible for you. You will comply with the Four Rules of Life.
They are Know Yourself. Choose (to be) yourself, and accept who and what you are. Create yourself. Give yourself.
Each is important and valuable because each leads to the next step. Giving yourself (to the world) is a step to Self-Enlightenment, to enlightened self-interest. This is to be accompanied by Humility. [That, in turn, drives out the quest for power (over others.)] So, work on it
3) I want a good character in order to be Ethical - as explained in the new paradigm for ethics, both theoretical and applied,
which you find by googling Katz - A Unified Theory of Ethics, and those other writings by Marvin C. Katz, Ph.D. In my other threads, I presented links to the three sequels to this effort: Adventures in Ethics. Ethical Explorations. and Ethical Insights. Here are some links to my scribbles:
A UNIFIED THEORY OF ETHICS -
http://tinyurl.com/27pzhbf
ETHICAL ADVENTURES -
http://tinyurl.com/38zfrh7
and the paper, ETHICAL EXPLORATIONS -
http://tinyurl.com/22ohd2x
For further reading and insight into the topics of Ethics check out the following booklet and thereby add to your reading enjoyment.
LIVING THE GOOD LIFE
http://wadeharvey.myqol.com/wadeharvey/ ... _Lifef.pdf
And yes, I want to be happy. Don't you?
4) You ask: "How can you tell if you are moving in the right direction, that is towards becoming a person of good character?"
If your life is working smoother, if you have contentment, if you have taken on some responsibility, if things are clicking and good things seem to be coming your way, in other words: if you feel you are acquiring
practical wisdom, and that you are
thriving: if children and dogs love you. If you light up a room by entering it, if the people you encounter feel like a plant that has been watered because you brightened their day, if you are active in the struggle for human rights, for a quality life for all.
Then you are going in the right direction.